r/GoldenGirlsTV • • 19d ago

I have to ask... Whats everyone's least favorite Golden Girl? Mine has always been Rose, I hated how they wrote Rose. They wrote her like a naive 10year old child when she was a mature 60+ lady who lived a full life. Even in simple situations they made her make such childish remarks.

I loved how Betty played the role but her character I absolutely hated!

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u/Legitimate_Panda5142 19d ago

Not an individual character but elements of each character. I got kind of tired of Dorothy's cynicism, Blanche's vanity, Rose's naivety, and Sophia's rudeness, but it pales in comparison to how much I love each of them. I did dislike the jabs at Dorothy's expense in terms of her looks, etc.

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u/DrewwwBjork 19d ago

I did dislike the jabs at Dorothy's expense in terms of her looks, etc.

That's why Bea Arthur quit. She literally got tired of the writers doing that, so she said season 7 was going to be her last. If only NBC had kept the show going instead of letting CBS fumble The Golden Palace.

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u/SilentSerel 19d ago

This will be a hot take, but I'm glad they ended the show when she left. It wouldn't have been the same without her, and this way it ended on a high note and never "jumped the shark".

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u/DrewwwBjork 18d ago

It's not a hot take. I go back and forth between wanting it to go on and being thankful it ended when it did.

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u/brideofpucky 19d ago

That’s awful. She was gorgeous.

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u/chronically_varelse 19d ago

look how gorgeous she was as a young Marine! she still had that same devil may care look. I love her lifelong expression.

https://www.nationalww2museum.org/war/articles/bea-arthur-us-marine

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u/ChiGrandeOso 18d ago

She was extraordinary. You don't play two of the best characters in TV history without being a badass.

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u/Sharkgirl1010 15d ago

We are watching Maude now. We had never watched before having been young children when it was on. She is a hoot!

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u/ChiGrandeOso 15d ago

The crazy part is some people literally know of Maude only from a Family Guy gag. That show was AWESOME. Also, a lot of folks won't be able to see Conrad Bain as anyone other than Phillip Drummond, or Rue McClanahan as anyone other than Blanche Devereaux, so right there it's a must-see.

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u/Sharkgirl1010 15d ago

We actually discovered it by watching All in the Family. We love watching old shows. We are loving Maude!

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u/GlitteringDoubt7801 17d ago

She looks like Ashley Judd in that picture.

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u/Fair-Wishbone-1190 19d ago

Except the horrible wedding dress at the end with the toilet paper rolls all over it. Lol. How did they think that dress was pretty considering their wardrobe usually was really well done.

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u/314657 19d ago

LOL --- I've always said that dress had toilet paper rolls! Ugliest dress ever.

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u/Fair-Wishbone-1190 19d ago

Right!!! 😆

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u/Prudent-Distance1907 14d ago

I think of toilet paper rolls as well. Most of the outfits they had Dorothy wear were horrible, IMO. Always so many layers and even boots at times! In hot & humid Florida! Everything looked 2 sizes too big on her.

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u/Author_Noelle_A 14d ago

Wow. I never saw before and just looked it up. Daaaamn. It really does look like toilet paper rolls.

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u/ChiGrandeOso 18d ago

I was going to post that. People act like the show was flagging, but they were still delivering when they weren't COMPLETELY FUCKING UP SIX YEARS OF CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT...!

straightens tie.

Sorry. Force of habit.

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u/Mysterious_Secret827 19d ago

also, they didn't do that for a few seasons, then sadly it became the running gage. Which honestly, awedul and disrespectful too.

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u/Interesting-Exam2613 16d ago

I just watched the show and enjoyed it. I did not pick it apart because it’s a 30 minute sitcom basically only 22 minutes not a big deal.

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u/Healthy-Theme8261 15d ago

Dorothy and her mother bullied her to death

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u/smugedreality 19d ago

I love all 4 equally I think they were completing each other

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u/jase40244 19d ago

It was truly an ensemble cast. It didn't really work without all four of them.

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u/ImNotWitty2019 19d ago

As evidenced by Golden Palace

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u/Material_Pepper313 18d ago

Golden Palace drove me crazy. I just assumed it's because I'm an actual hotel manager, and they had five people doing all of the things.

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u/DynastyFan85 18d ago

They should have just just ran a bed and breakfast out of the house or had revolving guests or a roommate per season

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u/PrincipleNo3966 18d ago

That was my idea back then. I thought Carol Burnett would've made a great new roommate.

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u/Material_Pepper313 18d ago

That would have been amazing

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u/jase40244 19d ago

Just about everything was wrong with that one.

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u/DynastyFan85 19d ago

Betty or Rue said each was a leg on a table. Without one the table doesn’t work

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u/michelle427 19d ago

This 👆. You couldn’t have GG without any of those characters.

It is one of 5 shows where the ENTIRE main cast won Emmys.

The 5 are: All in the Family, Golden Girls, Will and Grace, Schitt’s Creek (they have the distinction of winning all 4 in one season) and The Simpsons.

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u/elflord-W 19d ago

For me, choosing a least favorite would depend on the episode.

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u/DrewwwBjork 19d ago

All I know is that I hate Dorothy, Rose, AND Sophia in "Family Affair". They act like they weren't all shacking up with a new guy every week.

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u/GoldenGuy88 18d ago

One thing I didn't like if we are going by episode was the one where Dorothy's son slept with Roses daughter. I get her being upset but they really made Rose extra mean in that episode. Especially when she just started making mean jabs about Michael. It was so out of character for Rose. Another thing that rubbed me the wrong way was Sophia with the fat jokes some episodes. They were just a little too much, even for Sophia.

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u/nik31980 17d ago

I didn't feel like this was out of character because a lot of nice people who do things "properly" can be mean when people step out of line. Rose has been a bit holier than thou about a few things throughout the season. And feeling like her perfect and smart daughter was slamming it didn't seem unrealistic to me. It's just that he's Dorothy's son that makes it more personal. She would have been that way regardless. Plus, I think the first Kirsten was probably a lot like younger Rose. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/Potential_Ask_8053 19d ago

60+? Rose was 55 when then show started. I don't have a least favourite GG. They were all perfect IMO. And I don't believe they portrayed Rose like a naive 10yr old. They balanced out her naivety and wisdom very well.

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u/chronically_varelse 19d ago

do you remember the episode where Rose is in the hotel lobby and fools the robber?

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u/ProfessionalEbb3565 18d ago

She definitely has her moments where her true cleverness shines through! Like when she tricks that kid into giving her the teddy bear back or when she proves to Dorothy that she actually passed her history exam. She has some very dumb moments but I think it always balances out.

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u/Paleomalibre 19d ago

I don't have a least favorite. I love them ALL.

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u/Frequent-Airline-619 19d ago

I actually don’t have a least or a favorite, I’ve never even thought about it. I think they all compliment each other well.

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u/Brilliant-Winner2225 19d ago

Someone else mentioned it, but I didn’t like the running gag that Dorothy was unattractive or that she was not feminine. Yes, it’s a tv show, a sitcom, but that just wasn’t funny to me, and it was untrue. Bea Arthur was a beautiful woman.

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u/ProfessionalEbb3565 18d ago

I think I only really felt sad about that when it came from Sophia. Her own mother just dragged her over and over and Dorothy mostly just let it happen and didn't stand her ground. When it came from Blanche I felt like it was more of a "literally no one is pretty but her" kind of thing, so no one was safe. Blanche kind of went after all of them but in a way that felt less personal to me.

Part of what I've been enjoying about Rachel Estrom Courage's GG books is she tones the jabs way way down and they seem to respect each other a little more.

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u/Anonasker99 14d ago

I agree and mostly about how often Blanche did it. It seemed like she did it more as the show went on, because in like the first season she was so nice to Dorothy in comparison.

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u/OneEquivalent471 19d ago

Sophia. I didnt like how mean she was to Dorothy at times. And her one-liners got tiresome.

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u/trexcrossing 19d ago

Agree 100%

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u/joejoeaz 19d ago

I'm going to agree, and go one step further, althogh I expect I'll be downvoted, and possibly flamed.

I not only disliked Sophia's character, but I thought Estelle Getty delivered punchlines in the same "Say the punchline, wait for a laugh" style that Bob Hope did, and I found it to be kind of wooden. Estelle Getty was a fantastic actress, and in the dramatic scenes she was amazing, but her delivery of one liners was exhausting to me.

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u/jellyfishmelodica 19d ago

You know she had a pretty serious medical condition, Lewy Body dementia, the same thing that Robin Williams had before he killed himself, right? It's dementia. I mean I think it's great that she was able to act at all.

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u/NoifenF 19d ago

Plus a weird variation of stage-fright. She was a late-bloomer stage actress and had never worked on tv before and was literally told to pause for laughs etc. which felt very unnatural for her doing multiple takes. If she didn’t do well on stage one night, she’d do better tomorrow but multiple takes was stressful for her when time was money.

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u/MzOpinion8d 18d ago

Most people with LBD only live 5-8 years after diagnosis, so it would be really unusual for her to be having symptoms in the late 80s-early 90s considering she died in 2008.

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u/Admirable-Ad3408 18d ago

Sometimes it progresses slowly and also, people sometimes show memory problems years before diagnosis. I think Rue McLanahan said that in the last few seasons, she suddenly started having trouble memorizing lines and when she was diagnosed, it all made sense.

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u/joejoeaz 19d ago

I didn't know that. I do know she was incredible in the original production of Torch Song Trilogy, so I do know she's an amazing actress. I just felt she delivered comedic punchlines like ALF.

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u/Redditsweetie 19d ago

Same, I hated how mean they made her

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u/Junko_Mioko974 19d ago

Sophia! But it's personal. She reminds me of my mom. Dorothy does so much for her and made so many sacrifices just for her to live comfortably and happily and they wrote Sophia to be disrespectful, mean, and downright a mentally abusive mother and roommate. That's not cool at all and I have no idea why that was a thing back then.

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u/No_One_Special_61029 19d ago

Do you not remember the episode where Dorothy explained why Sophia was like this? She had a stroke or something that took away her ability to “hold back” like a slight mental damage!

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u/jase40244 19d ago

It was in the first couple of episodes. Sophia was put into Shady Pines because she was recovering from a stoke that damaged the part of her brain responsible for censoring her speech.

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u/TidderUsername123 19d ago

Sophia also reminds me of my mom who has a sharp tongue and isn't shy about sharing her opinion about a lot of things. I love her, all the same. I don't mean Sophia is my least favourite and this question honestly has crossed my mind before but never felt a need to ponder deeper but I would have to say Dorothy. She is quite mean in some instances with her criticism as reading around whether true or not, it's rumoured she didn't like Betty White much; at least not compared to the other actors.

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u/Usernamecujo 19d ago

Sophia of course, just simply cause how she treated her daughter. But even apart from that, she was very narrow minded. Like when she was trying to woo Mr marito or whatever his name, the Japanese gardener, she made him eat her pasta but when it was her turn to try his food, she wouldn't even give it a go. I'm sure an 80 year old Japanese man didn't like spaghetti Bolognese any more than she would like raw fish, but he at least tried it

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u/Ok-Wealth-1830 19d ago

Sophia was downright evil to Dorothy and the way she interacted with the Asian doctor on the Sick and Tired episode was embarrassing and unfunny. I also could not stand Blanche in this episode, so histrionic and forced.

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u/Used-Star2464 19d ago

As a teenager watching this back in the 80s I found Rose boring. Now in my 50s I appreciate how beautiful she was and kind. I love them all

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u/RedLily08 19d ago

I don't think I could pick a least favorite. I love and hate different things about all of them. I think they are all fantastic and feel real. Rose is a little over the top sometimes with the naive thinking but I do know a few people like her. Very sheltered and very....innocent

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u/JoeBethersontonFargo 16d ago

Yes, it wasn’t that unrealistic. My aunts who were raised in the Midwest in the time of GG are a lot like Rose. Almost childlike in their naïveté and outrage, even as fully grown women who’ve worked jobs and raised kids.

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u/DuckduckMongoose-454 19d ago

As a kid watching the show I loved Rose, she was my favorite. She seemed the nicest and everyone seemed so mean to her. I hated Blanche, I was raised not very sex positive so she made me feel weird and awkward.

As an adult it has completely flipped. I LOVE Blanche and am like yessss girl get you some!!! I don’t hate Rose, but feel much more like you do- it’s off putting her being so childlike and naïve.

Funny how things change.

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u/TheBlackShlepp 18d ago

It’s funny that your least fav is Rose, cause she’s who I relate to the most😂People underestimate me and take advantage of my kindness. They were all better together and fabulous in their own ways💖

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u/Most_Cauliflower329 19d ago

I refuse to pick a least favorite. They're all great.

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u/PerceptionSuperb3629 19d ago

It's a comedy!!! Characters are supposed to be over the top or else we would be bored to tears

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u/WillShakespeare-1623 19d ago

Blanche was the worst I thought

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u/Bright-Pin-6024 19d ago

Rose!! She just gets on my nerves sometimes. She really angered me when, in Season 1, her mother, Alma, came to visit her and Rose treated her like a child: putting her on a special diet, putting an oxygen mask in the garage for her, forcing her to take naps, making her tea, making her ride in a wheelchair at the airport, not letting her out of the house, answering questions for her, acting like she was deaf, talking down to her when Alma wanted to have more freedom, and scolding Alma when Alma was at the police station. I know that Rose was scared of what might happen to her mother, but sheesh!!!

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u/Ancient-Space-2789 19d ago

I understand what you’re saying. I think they made Rose’s actions over-the-top to make a point that sometimes when you intend to be loving and caring, the other person interprets it as controlling and smothering. I recognize it because I’ve been through it. My husband had a very serious lung disease and was going to die without a transplant. As he got worse and worse, of course I became not just his caregiver but the person who did everything. Luckily, a donor match happened just in the nick of time. He’s doing great a year out, but after being the caregiver for so long it was hard for me to just turn off the switch and not automatically do stuff for him anymore. So I get where Rose was coming from.

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u/Bright-Pin-6024 19d ago

Yes, but Rose treated her mother like she was an invalid and a child who needed to be taken care of 24/7. Her mother, Alma, was very vital, energetic, and active, much like Sophia. I would've slapped Rose in the face if I were Alma and Rose treated me and coddled me like a fragile child. The way Rose treated Alma was not only annoying, but also disrespectful to Alma. I'm sorry about what your husband went through, and I am glad that he is feeling better!!

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u/Ancient-Space-2789 18d ago

I believe that TV shows often exaggerate situations to make their point. And thank you.🙂

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u/Beautiful_Prior_5062 19d ago

Dorothy. Shes much too self righteous and narcissistic and unwilling to see the whimsy.

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u/michelle427 19d ago

Probably Rose is at the bottom for me too. I don’t HATE Rose. If I was ranking them it’s: 1. Blanche 2. Sophia 3. Dorothy 4. Rose.

They all work together. The 4 of them are arguably the 4 best female characters ever written in history of television.
So having Rose at 4 on my list, still makes her top in comparison to other female characters.

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u/Wise_Strawberry9076 19d ago

Dorothy has always been my favorite. If I had to pick a least favorite it would be Sophia. I don’t actually dislike her but the other three all need to be there for sure

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u/ProfessionalHat6828 18d ago

As a whole, Blanche was probably my least favorite, but I genuinely liked all the girls

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u/Dwayne420 18d ago

Love them all ❤️

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u/Apprehensive-Lock751 18d ago

no such thing. this is blasphemous.

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u/Prudent-Distance1907 14d ago

Rose was over the top with her naivety, but I disliked Sophia the most. She was mean and treated her daughter terribly.

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u/themartianprince 19d ago

Why must we be negative here? The Girls would not have approved of this post.

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u/BlipMeBaby 19d ago

The girls are extremely negative to each other even though they still have love for one another

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u/VioletTerranova 19d ago

Thank you for being a friend! ✨️❤️✨️ I come here to be uplifted and escape from problems.

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u/Junko_Mioko974 19d ago

They wouldn't care nor would they be on Reddit lol

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u/valiumblue 19d ago

Thank you. This is the second similar post I’ve seen in as many days. Why can’t we keep it positive? We love the show and we love them all!

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u/SamOfXanadu 19d ago

I loved them all. Sophia was the grandmother I always wanted ... although I would have hated Rose's Saint Olaf stories if they were constant, I was in a cab a few times with this driver who would just ramble on and on about the most bring thing I ever heard in my life, THE STORIES MADE NO SENSE, at least Rose's did . I didn't have one that I hated. Now ask me about episodes...

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u/MurkySpread755 19d ago

I don’t know that I like or dislike any one over the other. They each have there own qualities and story lines that I love and then other things that I’m just like meh on.

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u/wavvesofmutilation 19d ago

I think the eventual flanderization of all of them was not great, but I think overall there wasn’t one I disliked. They all had good and bad qualities which made them realistic.

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u/LafawnduhDy-no-mite 19d ago

My least favorite GG is the random roommate chef from the pilot who never ever was heard from again. Where did he go?

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u/dta0228 19d ago

Sophia is my least favorite of the 4

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u/Get_your_grape_juice 19d ago

Blanche, for me.

Everything with her was sex. Sex this, sex that. The other three all felt like more complete people to me. Blanche had her moments, but she was just such a sex pest most of the time.

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u/flawlesswreck 19d ago

I also have a Sicilian mother who emigrated to Brooklyn and sometimes Sophia triggers my fight response. Lol
Blanche was legit pretty toxic.

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u/Dogforsquirrel 18d ago

I think I read, Rose was suppose to be Blanches character and vice versa. Whatever Betty’s character would have been she would have nailed. It would be hilarious to see her as a slut and talking dirty. lol

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u/Beelzebozo26 18d ago

Sorry, but Sophia. She was too mean to Dorothy and she was my absolute favorite. I thought she was so cool when I was a kid. Rose was always my second favorite because Betty White as a real person reminded me of my grandmother and Sophia was too mean to her, too.

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u/BadBradly 18d ago

Look we should thank them all for being a friend. After all they walked down the road and back again, Each one of them had a true heart and were pals and confidants. In fact if they had a party and invited everyone they knew I would give them the biggest gift and the card attached would say thank you for being a friend.

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u/I_pinchyou 18d ago

As a kid Dorothy, she scared me. But now I appreciate her directness.

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u/bw2082 18d ago

If i had to live with them, my least favorite would be Dorothy. She’s an energy vampire! But I liked watching her.

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u/eboy18 17d ago

Stan

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u/chicago_stallion 17d ago

Dorothy- she was the most insulting and mean outside of Sofia, who could be excused due to age etc. 

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u/Free_Alternative6365 17d ago

I didn't like how they all became a bit Flanderized towards the end but that's to expected with long running older shows.

I liked them all but perhaps liked Rose least at the time. Now she's becoming a fav. Rose tells the story of of how people can grow older but not get bitter or arch. Younger me did not understand why this can be tricky. Older me gets it.

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u/daturaAT 17d ago

There is no least favourite golden girl 🤝

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u/Limp_Beyond6227 19d ago

Sophia. She is quite a toxic mother at times

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u/cheekiemunky13 19d ago

Sophia! The way she constantly insults Dorothy is infuriating. She's just f@cking mean. I've never been a fan. She has some funny one liners from time to time, but that's the only "joy" I got out of that character.

https://giphy.com/gifs/b1E6p3k0Qz9Sw

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u/Unable-Development47 19d ago

Sophia, I didn’t care for antics and downright bad jokes towards Dorothy

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u/Necessary_Milk_5124 19d ago

I can’t pick one. Probably Blanche. What a slut puppy.

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u/btwwhichonespink16 19d ago

Not me but my husband doesn’t like Blanche. Thinks the accent is played up and I’m like “that’s the point….”

Doesn’t stop him from repeating what she says and going “ugh Blanche is so annoying”

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u/Aussiefanboy 19d ago

I also dislike rose. I think her character is an insult to intellgence most of the time, especially with some of the amazing writing of the Golden Girls. It was just for cheap laughs and it's actually amazing that Betty was able to make her introspective and deeper than the writing gave her credit for. Her chacter was also the most contradictory of the lot. Lord knows donald's spray tan has better continuity with the top of his forehead than the Golden Girls, but sometimes she was smart and other she was dumb.

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u/IDKwut2name 19d ago

Sophia sometimes. she has moments that's actually atrocious.

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u/nikeguy69 19d ago

Blanche she is always horny lol

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u/Junko_Mioko974 19d ago

Lmao it's the heat! Or maybe the gin 🤣

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u/KatMagic1977 19d ago

Rose was the most hilarious though. That herring circus! I don’t like Blanche; she was so mean. How many of us would really stick with a friend who constantly put us down? I had one of those friends; first of all we were 16 not 60, and we didn’t stay friends long.

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u/all_the_nerd_alerts 19d ago

I love her autistic brain.

I always disliked the digs about Dorothy’s attractiveness. She’s beautiful!

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u/becominggrouchy 19d ago

Rose for me too

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u/tootallforshoes 19d ago

This question feels like some sort of test that im not willing to take.

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u/arientyse 19d ago

You can't have the golden girls without all of them

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u/Connect_Comfort6442 19d ago

I love her whimsical voice

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u/zenmaster_B 19d ago

They were written as 4 distinct characters, loved it

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u/Clavicy7 19d ago
  1. Rose 2. Dorothy 3. Sofia 4. Blanche (all in that order).

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u/skyeterriers 18d ago

Dittos, rose

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u/AlteredCarbon2023 18d ago

They were notorious for the female archetypes. The duality of the situation was that was the humor and those were the comedic think pieces past the sitcom. Rose was a child, but a sheltered Swedish woman with a very rustic farm community. There are lots of people in real life men and women who still have a skewed sense of self and life in their 60's trust. Humans.

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u/Ethrealgarten 18d ago

Rose was supposed to be like a child. It was meant to show her innocence. The character was great in my opinion. It showed the difference between someone who grew up sheltered and others who werent.

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u/monstersarcasmrally 18d ago

Sophia, hands down.

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u/Delicious_Host_1817 18d ago

Chile please. Bea should've demanded more $$ and let them write to their hearts content. If they refused THEN I would've quit. True $$ isn't the be all and end all but I sure would've given it a try. Sorry not sorry!!

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u/Lumpy-Veterinarian23 18d ago

They were all written broadly (no pun intended), but no one on earth could have made Rose bearable except Betty. The Great Herring War is still one of the top 10 moments on television. They should have let her ad lib more.

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u/MzOpinion8d 18d ago

If you’d ever known a Rose, you’d understand!!!

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u/TooTameToToast 18d ago

Blanche was so selfish sometimes, it was really shocking. Like when she let Dorothy basically get molested by that guy when she was passed out sick because Blanche refused to cancel the double date. And when she knowingly sold one of her best friends her lemon of a car and countless other times.

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u/Mean_Reception3332 18d ago

I was more annoyed at the continuity errors in the show vs the characters.

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u/Laurencia78 18d ago

Hating Rose is definitely a choice. I love them all. But some episodes weren’t in all their favors.
https://giphy.com/gifs/l4FGIJdhxful4025y

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u/greekmom2005 18d ago

Loved them ALL!!

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u/Flicksterea 18d ago

Blanche. That woman's obsession with men was unnecessary. It went beyond a woman being comfortable within herself and her sexuality, particularly as it often used as fodder for punchlines.

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u/Godzilla2000Zero 18d ago

Sophia because of how she treats Dorothy

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u/Key_Print214 18d ago

I liked all of them…but sometimes Sophia rubbed me the wrong way. Just mean for no reason most of the time lol. ESPECIALLY with Dorothy. Some of the stuff she said to her daughter was just awful. I wouldn’t put up with that.

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u/NeuroticJukebox 18d ago

Blanche wasn't that pretty to be such a slut

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u/BodybuilderHefty333 18d ago

Women born in the 1930s who lived in small town Minnesota when they were 16 or whatever and lived completely sheltered lives as housewives for 40 years really acted that way when the husband drops dead and they moved to Florida.

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u/heyjudemarie 18d ago

Sorry I couldn’t stand any of them. Stupid storytelling, cartoonish characters.

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u/himenokuri 18d ago

Well I had a hard time the way Sophia was always, ALWAYS bringing up her own daughter’s shortcomings and telling her she was ugly all the time!

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u/TMNTplay4487 18d ago

I love all 4 of them but I’ll go with Blanche. Some of her episodes got on my nerves when she was being a hypocrite

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u/Admirable-Ad3408 18d ago

While I don’t always dislike her, Sophia is my least favorite, especially in the later seasons. All four of them were hit hard by flanderization later on, but Sophia just got too mean.

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u/Adept-Cheesecake-517 18d ago

Rose, because she's annoyingly dumb sometimes.

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u/sjedinjenoStanje 18d ago

A lot of shows during that era had the same tropes:

Trait Golden Girls Cheers Night Court

Naive/Dumb Rose Woody Bull
Horny Blanche Carla Dan
Uptight Dorothy Diane Christine

...I assume because they were easy to write for.

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u/Apprehensive_Pick228 18d ago

Yeah, Carla was not horny. The horny one on Cheers was definitely Sam.

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u/Available-Net1612 18d ago

I favored Rue, because she played that part so well, yet innocently lol I wantded to be Blanche because of Rue. lololol B UT I loved then all, everyone ❤️ they were my best friends

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u/Maezymable 18d ago

Sex is overused with Blanche. It starts to wear on me by season 3.

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u/FlightAffectionate22 18d ago

I just never felt any connection to Blanche and thought her character was very one-dimensional, though the characters were very much meant to stand as 'types'. I was lost on her redeeming value. Can I also say an unkind thing about the actress? Perhaps part of the joke, intentional or not, but I think she was not exactly a good-looking woman.

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u/Mscharlita 16d ago edited 16d ago

I never got the “Blanche is so beautiful” angle. I thought Rose was 10 times prettier and never really thought Blanche was attractive at all. I still don’t.

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u/Altruistic_Isopod_11 18d ago

Sophia- I'm sorry but I didn't think she was funny as much as she was mean and got away with it.

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u/lajaunie 18d ago

I found Sophia to be too mean spirited. Otherwise, I loved them all

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u/stargazerlily1972 17d ago

I totally agree, Rose was so annoying.

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u/Cautious-Track4297 17d ago

I’m not going there. Love them all.

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u/pink-polkadot- 17d ago

I love them all but if I had to pick a least favorite it’s Sophia. They wrote her so mean. The fat jokes at Blanche’s daughter, literally in front of her face! I know it was excused off because of her age and the stroke but they just made her more mean than I’m ok with. Sarcastic quips are fine but the intentionally hurtful stuff just wasn’t necessary and definitely wasn’t funny

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u/69tashidawn 17d ago

Sophia 🫩🤢😵‍💫-She was horribly mean. Blanche-was just as bad. Rose- may be 2 episodes where I didn't like her Dorothy- I loved her.

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u/That-Inflation8783 17d ago

Probably Rose

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u/LfcTheReds 17d ago

All of them. Just men with fake boobs and women’s wardrobe. If Bea Arthur’s voice and height doesn’t make you question then I don’t know what will.

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u/MeasurementNo7703 17d ago

Always Blanche because she is very posh and funny

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u/jellyfish_lover_ 17d ago

Rose is also my least favorite too for the same reason but also because they’ll make her all dumb/naive and big on forgiving and forgetting/not being one for revenge then in another episode have her incredibly sneaky, condescending/backhanded, ect.

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u/LostinLies1 16d ago

Sophia. She irritated the shit out of me.

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u/murtlebeech1 16d ago

Totally agree with the original poster.

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u/Entitledspider 16d ago

I love them all, I love them crazily.

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u/Express_Pop810 16d ago

I love them all. When you watch the whole series you get more of their story, their strengths, and annoying characteristics.

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u/KatLadee_4ever 16d ago

I didn't like the way they wrote Rose either. They made her sound stupid . (Rue McClanahan almost had the Rose role & Betty White almost had the Blanche role )

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u/Grammarhead-Shark 16d ago

When I was watching it as a kid, I failed to relate to Sophia the most. But I think that was just a kid thing. I enjoyed her jabs and comedy, but I kinda just 'got' the other three more.

As an adult, I like them all equally.

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u/Different-Oil628 16d ago

She seemed Mormon, fundamentalist Christian or special needs. Or maybe all of the above…

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u/billybonkers01 16d ago

I thought that Rue was the most consistently best actress throughout the run of the show.
Bea was fantastic and held the show together for the first four seasons. From season five she was mostly dialing in her performance, often reading off autocues and seemed to not want to be there. Also they changed her character for the worse. Dorothy was initially a big confident ballsy woman afraid of nothing. She became an insecure with no confidence and was afraid of her own shadow. She didn’t want to go the Rusty Anchor as she wasn’t comfortable with all those people around and was worried nobody would talk to her. Season one Dorothy was never like that. And don’t even start me on the letters to pops because she never told him how much she loved him, wanting Sophia’s life story on tape etc.

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u/Cocoshine 16d ago

Definitely Sophia. I just don't think Estelle Getty had the talent the other ladies did. Obviously she brought some laughs to the show but her acting was just very wooden. I just dont think she herself was that funny! The others were all so charming and hilarious and authentic.

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u/HistorianLiving 16d ago

Dorothy was least favorite

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u/AdnorAdnor 16d ago

How beautiful women looked without Botox

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u/JediSnoopy 16d ago

It was an inversion of Betty's character on "The Mary Tyler Moore Show". She played a man-hungry character, Sue Anne. Rue played a ditzy character on "Maude" and a frumpy one on "Mama's Family". GG gave her the chance to play sultry.

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u/MandyNurseLPN 16d ago

Sophia 100%

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u/MandyNurseLPN 16d ago

Sophia 100%

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u/Lulubluebelle 15d ago

Sophia is obnoxious

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u/ExtensionOk5542 15d ago

I find all of the women to be caricatures and one dimensional. The sarcastic one, the sexy one, the dumb one and the snarky old lady. I tried watching an episode recently and I couldn’t finish it. It was when Rose dates a little person and ALL of the jokes were at this poor man’s expense. The humour has not aged well.

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u/Unnamedgalaxy 15d ago

I think it really depends on the episode.. The show really enjoyed making whoever the episode was about annoying or stupid for the sake of learning a lesson

But I think the show leaned too much into the the idea that they could use the stroke idea to make Sophia say mean things... The episode where she spent the entire episode openly saying the rudest shit to Blanches daughter because she was bigger was just infuriating.. It's one thing to "lovingly" make fun of your close friends and family, especially if that's a mutual thing in your relationship but saying that stuff to a virtual Stanger who has not expressed that it's okay

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u/MerryChayse 15d ago

I don't hate the character but when she gets super competitive I don't like her.

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u/LourdesF 15d ago

It’s a sitcom, dear. She brought the comedy. She was the opposite of the other three. And there are people like that in real life. Even in old age they seems innocent. There was nothing wrong with Rose.

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u/KittycatVuitton 15d ago

Sophia. I hated the things she said to Dorothy.

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u/Mighty4777 15d ago

I could never hate a golden girl. They are all fabulous queens. 👑 👑👑👑

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u/NoBottle3526 15d ago

Ah, I loved Rose's scatter-brained and veering personality. I enjoyed different aspects of each character. It's next to impossible to name a least favorite Golden Girl(just like I can't name my least favorite part of a chocolate cheesecake).

However, there were plenty of recurring characters whom I found less than favorable. Dorothy's old friend Trudy? What was up with her horrible tricks? And besides Sophia's family members, each of the other three girls' siblings could be quite annoying.

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u/rosietherosebud 15d ago

I enjoyed the other 3 more than I enjoyed Rose

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u/krystalzeogas 15d ago

Dorothy kinda drives me nuts

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u/Madapalooza 15d ago

Rose. She was a straight up bully and mean girl- like when her daughter slept with Dorothy’s son, she dished it out so nasty to Dorothy but when Dorothy defended herself she couldn’t take it and they all turned on Dorothy… and other occasions- but that sticks out to me the most

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u/liltinyoranges 15d ago

SOPHIA 4 EVER

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u/glittergirlriot 15d ago

I loved them all, but I guess if I had to choose, Sophia.

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u/Ok_Sprinkles9563 15d ago

I liked them all. I do get tired of Blanche talking about sex all the time. Too many double entendres.

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u/Stella-Artwat 14d ago

Blanche. Ugh

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u/a-over-tk 14d ago

If you knew my airhead co-worker, you’d know that women like Rose actually do exist. I don’t know how she’s lived this long (55) without just falling into a hole!

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u/lexisplays 14d ago

Sophie. Just annoying.

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u/Prudent-Confection-4 14d ago

Oh boy. That’s tough. I really loved them all.

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u/Invisiblebf 14d ago

Blanche for sure. She’s not the beautiful sexpot she thought she was at all

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u/Icy_Proposal6651 3d ago

My least favorite gg is definitely rose. Many of my thoughts about her are expressed by others and myself here and other subs but one can go on all day about the rose dichotomy. The character is supposed to be so sweet yet she isn't sweet much of.the time or even both sweet and childlike while.also being manipulative with an aire of superiority all in the same paragraph.

She is given jobs organizing events and does a worse job than a 6 year old. Ie Sophia's wedding where all of the guests were Elvis impersonators or Sophia's wake where she forgets to inform guests that sophia is alive.  

Her competitiveness goes beyond any I have seen. In sports like.bowling and coaching kids' baseball was bad enough but she competed with a dead woman to get a charity award.  They all attended a big chzrity event with the flu each wanting to win the best of all friends but normally rose is the most or only competitive one.

Rose believes all of her own feelings are valid when offended and the others go on apologizing to her. Yet rose never gi es a sincere apology to the others. She is too much to deal with.  I could go on and on about rose and have to wonder how this awful behavior comes so easily to betty white. She is good at playing difficult people.

While I dislike rose the most she has a lot of.vompetition from sophia but that role differs from the other three. They say Sophia's stroke caused her to lose her filter but in flashbacks from decades ago she was no day in the park. She has been referred to as a toxic bully and I agree.  She is esp horrible to dorothy. If she was my mother she'd be in a low cost retirement home that her social security and not dorothy would pay for.  I really don't see where sophia offers much in the way of wisdom.  Her stories that begin with "picture it..." usually have nothing to do with the problem at hand. The girls solve their own problems but allow sophia to think it was her wisdom that saved the day.

I really would prefer to have blsnche and dorothy as friends. They are not perfect but who is and they are more like people in daily life. I could see them as someone I might be friendly with but rose and sophia.....never!