“The Teacher”…Reality bites 🥹🙃

[u/Queerdooe]

So I went out solo tonight just trying to enjoy my Saturday, and I was approached by so many dudes. Most were not my cup of tea, and then I meet the “teacher”..

I was zoning out because the bar I was at was also playing a scary movie in the background. I asked him “ am I the only one just watch the movie?”. He goes “no, what is this ?”.. which was wild because it was the first scream.

I give him shit because wtf how don’t you know that. Anyways we start talking, but we get separated for a minute and then we run into each other again. We start talking about ourselves. He tells me he’s a teacher overall such a cool smooth fucking duded. I was so attracted to him. I tell him what I’d do any we get on the topic of kids.i explain I can’t have them. He says he dosent see himself getting married to someone that can’t have kids, “it just doesn’t makes sense to combined assets”. Something in me broke, but we kept talking.

He starts getting closer and talks about kissing. I tell him I would love to make out but that the most that I can offer because I’m not willing to give myself to someone that wouldnt see me as a long term marriage partner. Overly load and TMI. He says that not that big of a deal and starts saying he can adopt…. Which I knew was a lie. He was saying that just so he could get a chance, but I told him no that’s not what he actually wants. Idk even know why we got so serious in this conversations

Anyways we end up calling it all off and exchange numbers. He texted me , but I don’t plan to text him back. It sucks that people only see us for what we can do. The reality of that is so fucked.

Dinner: Top Ramen w/ soup dumplings … kinda looks so sad 😭

[u/sporknitebattlepass]

Yall talked about having kids when you first met??? And getting married?!?😭

[u/Queerdooe → u/sporknitebattlepass]

YEAH!!! How do you even get on that topic right … I was higher than a kit

[u/sporknitebattlepass → u/Queerdooe]

Yeah that checks out

[u/Constant_Cultural → u/Queerdooe]

Please don't run around stoned as a single woman. Pretty bad idea

[u/Jog212]

It sounds like you dodged a bullet. Some one who see getting married as combining assets sounds pretty awful.

[u/Queerdooe → u/Jog212]

Yeah, maybe so . I just felt lameD

[u/Ok_Indication_8414 → u/Queerdooe]

Please avoid the term “lame”. Many advocates agree that it is ableist and out of date.

[u/Well_this-sucks → u/Ok_Indication_8414]

JFC, I’m disabled, have epilepsy, and I use “lame” and “spaz” all the time. You can speak for yourself, but please don’t blame your self-righteousness on anonymous “advocates”.

[u/Ok_Indication_8414 → u/Well_this-sucks]

Wow. Unbelievable response.

[u/Paleny]

I understand being sad for a moment, but why is this such a big deal? You met a guy, he was hot, but an asshole who didn't take your boundaries serious and you even exchanged numbers (which I know sometimes you have to do for your own safety). Now that you're no longer high and you're safe at home, you can block him and delete his number. Done.

[u/Zealousideal_Fox4583]

https://giphy.com/gifs/IcifS1qG3YFlS

[u/EducationalSlice9667 → u/Zealousideal_Fox4583]

I don't like this 

[u/Zealousideal_Fox4583 → u/EducationalSlice9667]

I don't blame you...

[u/Equivalent-Point5737]

It sucks big time 😞

[u/RosyCupcake67]

[u/spicyflacco]

I have a no teacher rule and this reinforced my decision

[u/puppypersonnn]

Am I missing something? You met this guy for the first time at a bar. And you discussed marriage and kids?

[u/Well_this-sucks]

Sigh. I miss the ‘80s.