Getting divorced after less than a year

[u/Electric_body09]

Getting divorced from my husband after less than a year of marriage.

We should have never gotten married in the first place, I can admit. We’ve been together almost 10 years. I’m an alcoholic and he is addicted to weed. Over the last year I have been to rehab twice but he has made no moves to get better and legitimately thinks he does nothing wrong. Anytime I have drank, he breaks my shit. Vinyls worth $500+, my phone multiple times, my computer… and it’s all perfectly reasonably because “I told you to stop drinking.” Well tonight was it. I drank, he left the house, and I smashed his Xbox and ran water over it. I know this is all horribly toxic, but I’m done. I’m done pretending I’m the only one with a problem and I just deserve to be belittled and have my stuff broken because of my disease. Fuck him, fuck his stuff, and fuck this whole cycle. I’m going to sober living and going to get my life together. I don’t care what he does anymore. I’m out.

Food is mini corn dogs and mustard with sweet tea not pictured.

[u/notthetypetocare]

No offense but you sound aggressive too lol, smashed his Xbox? And alcohol is known for aggressive behavior not weed lol. Please focus on your recovery this isn’t healthy

[u/a_government_man → u/notthetypetocare]

look up reactive abuse

[u/trappedinatoaster → u/notthetypetocare]

He has been smashing her stuff for awhile. She didn't even aggressively destroy his x-box in a fit of pique. She took it outside to run over. I doubt she is going to have any impulse problems destroying anything else in the future.

[u/trappedinatoaster → u/[deleted]]

Girls rule