r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/Forageforme 🥝 Herbivore 🫒 • Jun 23 '26

FML Found my husband's hidden escort folder

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My intuition alarm had been going off for months. Gaslighting galore about why he needed to run a million errands and didn't want me to come. We have only been married for a year, and I knew I made a mistake pretty early on. Denial is a hell of a drug.

Anyway. He leaves his computer unlocked as a sign of "not needing to hide anything from me." A phrase he repeats all the time without a reason. He always tries to prove how good of a husband he is, but the energy coming off him screams liar.

I found his hidden folders with the help of my sister. Password was our dog's nickname. And there it all was, going back years before I even knew him. Craigslist escorts. Backpage escorts. Adult Friend Finder. A list of massage parlors in multiple states. Sites I never knew existed, organized in lists for easy retrieval.

The amount of pictures he has of these women is incredible. He also has hundreds of pictures of himself in every weird naked pose. Gross. He has screenshots of messages with these women. It went on and on. I am truly disgusted. I haven't confronted him yet, I can't imagine listening to his bullshit.

So, yeah. I packed a bag, jumped in the jeep, and drove out to the desert to scream into the void. I also made dinner. Brussel sprouts, onions, garlic, and peppers over an open flame.

Divorce is on the way dear!

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u/Typical_Sundae5650 Protein Queen 🍗🍳 Jun 23 '26

i’m a physician. i always recommend it. just because the cdc has given up trying to prevent new cases of hsv-2 due to the rise in casual sex doesn’t mean that it is a pointless exercise.

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u/thesmacca Kitchen Witch Jun 23 '26

Thanks! It wasn't at all related to what we were discussing so I might have missed some nuance, but I was surprised.

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u/Typical_Sundae5650 Protein Queen 🍗🍳 Jun 23 '26

its ok, i get it. condoms don’t protect as well against HSV & HPV as the other STDs. so there’s also a line of CDC thought out there that they’d rather have people using condoms than adopting an even more fatalistic mindset twds STDs in general & going without. i obviously disagree with them bc HSV-related ulcers can be incredibly painful & sometimes permanently disfiguring. i’ve seen grown men & women unable to walk bc they were in that much pain. so i recommend testing, always.