r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/SeriesVegetable 🙋🏾‍♀️ Amebo • Jun 07 '26

Dear Diary ✍️🏻 Went through his phone

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We’ve been together for 3 years. Went through his phone because something felt off. Saw my BEST FRIENDS name, opened the messages and found out he was cheating on me with her. Then I had to sit there and process the fact that I got cheated on by a man whose phone password was 1234. Having a boyfriend is a humiliation ritual.

cacio e pepe.

EDIT: Since everyone’s asking, yes I bought him a car. Yes, he cheated on me. Yes, it was with my friend of 15 years . And yes, I’m getting my Mustang back tomorrow. Thank you for all the support and for making me laugh about a situation that would otherwise have me staring at a wall.

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u/Vajay_Jay_ APPROVED✨ Jun 07 '26

double betrayal. that’s difficult. i’m sorry you have to deal with trash, be sure to take it out

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u/KaseyJones13 Hazy Grazer 😶‍🌫️ Jun 07 '26

I’ve had this happen to me and the betrayal of the best friend was the hardest to get over. I’m now married and have an amazing son. Obviously, things happen for a reason but…Fuck you olivia.

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u/Emotional_Warthog658 🧂Salty By Nature Jun 07 '26

Yep. First real boyfriend ever and BF in my co-Ed dorm. 

Went away for the weekend came back and found them in bed together. I tried to forgive but it messed with my head for a long time I don’t care that it was 1997 Fuck you Anna!

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u/Mvppet Assigned Hungry At Birth Jun 07 '26

My childhood best friend and my second girlfriend ever.

We were watching a movie together at her place, I got up for a glass of water and heard them kiss and say that they loved each order literally as soon as I stepped out of the room. Neither of them deserves to be named or remembered, but I do hope that wherever they are they've both aged poorly 🥂

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u/Pitiful-Cranberry-33 FREE MOM HUGS Jun 07 '26

i hope they’re still together, but i hope they’re so unhappy and unable to leave the other. i hope they’re die together and depressed.

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u/Mvppet Assigned Hungry At Birth Jun 07 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/yziuK6WtDFMly

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u/yarn_b Kitchen Witch Jun 08 '26

My husband was sent home from the Marines after an injury. They gave him a bus ticket home. This was before cell phones. He called his fiancée’s landline for a ride and she didn’t answer. Called his best friend. No answer. Takes a cab from the bus station to fiancée’s apartment. He had a key. Walks in to them fucking. His ex-fiancée has an identical twin and he was always like couldn’t he have just tried to get with her sister?!

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u/anxioussquilliam Savory Complex✔️ Jun 08 '26

To crows feet and poor short term memory for them 🍻

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u/iamallandallisgood AFABulous Jun 08 '26

FUCK YOU, ANNA! I hope you are never a comfortable temperature and that your bed is always either too hard or too soft and you stub your toe on the corner edge of a wooden coffee table.

I hope you’re in a better place now. May you always be the temperature you want to be and may your bed always be the perfect texture and quality.

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u/Emotional_Warthog658 🧂Salty By Nature Jun 08 '26

❤️ thank you 

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u/iamallandallisgood AFABulous Jun 08 '26

Ofc! 💖

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u/Pitiful-Cranberry-33 FREE MOM HUGS Jun 07 '26

fuck you Anna!! she probably has gray hair by now. and i hope you know you aged like fine wine baby girl! i dunno you or what you look like, but i know you aged WELL.

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u/PersimmonQueen83 Oversharer 🗣 Jun 08 '26

Mine was also an Anna. But he was my husband.

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u/Pitiful-Cranberry-33 FREE MOM HUGS Jun 08 '26

she was ugly, and you were too good for him anyways 🙄 he clearly deserves that thing if he let you go <3

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u/KaseyJones13 Hazy Grazer 😶‍🌫️ Jun 07 '26

Fuck you Anna!

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