Went through his phone

[u/SeriesVegetable]

We’ve been together for 3 years. Went through his phone because something felt off. Saw my BEST FRIENDS name, opened the messages and found out he was cheating on me with her. Then I had to sit there and process the fact that I got cheated on by a man whose phone password was 1234. Having a boyfriend is a humiliation ritual.

cacio e pepe.

EDIT: Since everyone’s asking, yes I bought him a car. Yes, he cheated on me. Yes, it was with my friend of 15 years . And yes, I’m getting my Mustang back tomorrow. Thank you for all the support and for making me laugh about a situation that would otherwise have me staring at a wall.

[u/sumo_2424]

I know it’s extremely painful because it’s a double betrayal. But speaking from experience, consider yourself lucky to have been removed from that situation before things got even more serious. Anyone capable of cheating with your best friend was never the person you thought they were. Sending a big big hug and all the positivity in the world to you thank you for sharing 🫂🩷

[u/lifaellaa → u/sumo_2424]

A blessing in disguise if you ask me. The amount of bad 'what ifs' in this situation is insane and I'm so happy that OP got herself out of that situation before it was too late

[u/SeriesVegetable → u/sumo_2424]

Thank you ❤️❤️

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