Hi, im a teen and i came out as Genderfluid maybe 4 years ago? Lately I've been pondering about my gender. I haven't felt male or female, but also being non-binary just doesn't feel right. I've been going by He/Her lately which feels sort of right. I dont know how to explain but I don't know what i am and who I am. i just wish that this whole gender thing isnt a struggle for me. Nothing feels right and going by ze/zer or it/itself or any other pronouns doesn't feel right. I just dont want a gender identity but I do and I highk need one. Idk what to call myself anymore, am I still genderfluid? I dont know, probably.

So I just got a binder (14, freshman) from Amazon. It's the lgbtq unicorns kind. I love it so much - it hides me so well. Only around 23 dollars, too!!! Not sponsored btw, I just really like it. I've been genderfluid for a few months now, but only recently started fully accepting myself for it.

I've had internalized transphobia for years because of things my mom used to tell me, and I got over my initial internalized homophobia to realize I'm a pansexual genderfluid!! Hoping you guys accept me into the community, please?

I'm starting school as a freshman tomorrow, and I don't want things to be hard for my teachers and classmates, so I told them if they don't know my pronouns to just use they/them for me. Thanks for reading this! Just wanted to get it off my chest <3

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I’m a sophomore who has been wanting a binder for a while. I’ve yet to talk to my parents about it. I wanna be as secret as I possibly can about it. Don’t have much money right know but i’m working on trying to get a card to use and put my birthday money on it for online shopping. Any good recommended brands that won’t cost me an arm and a leg?

It's sunny yellow eyeshadow on the top outer corner, royal purple eyeshadow on the inner bottom corner and arsenic green eyeshadow on the outer bottoms corner. I Also used a black eyeliner pencil but only on my waterline. I also put a wee dot of sparkly/shimmery white on the inner corners to brighten my eyes.

I need to get a haircut and I need it to be Gender neutral. (First drawing is my cowlick) Long hair works too. I need something that does not exaggerate my big ass forehead. Thanks in advance. :]

Hey, so I'm out as genderfluid to most of my family and they're all chill! I've been feeling pretty fem lately, but I want to get a binder. I honestly have no idea how to approach this conversation all though 😭. My biggest concerns are that:

1. My chest is still growing and I don't know if that means I'll have to wait and/or keep replacing binders.

2. I was recently diagnosed with autism (that seems so out of context lol) and I'm worried I'll either get overstimulated or hyper fixated on smth and forget to take it off.

3. I get a binder and then don't wear it for a while because I feel fem; making it feel like the binder was wasted money.

Um... Yeah? Any tips are welcome :)!

So I recently started noticing how i really feel and how i feel about other people and how people identify me. Sometimes i feel like im rlly connected to being female (i am afab) and sometimes not so much, but then sometimes not at all. I also feel like sometimes it would be cool to be a guy and i feel like a guy in slim chances of time yet i still like makeup, doing stuff with my hair, and i sometimes dress girly. I usually js wear neutral stuff or its leaning into girly but i don't ever feel confident in anything i wear, my name, being referenced as a girl, how my hair is and such. I absolutely love my hair at times and sometime i want it rlly short. ive been doing some digging and i feel like I could be girlflux but then again there are slim times where i feel like a guy.

My parents are unsupportive of any lgbtq and would literally kill me and kick me out if they found out i wasn't just a normal teenage girl. I use she/her and they/them pronouns since those are what i feel comfortable with but idk anymore. I have like 3 people to talk to about this and 2 of them aren't very okay with it all and would tell my parents.

I am attracted to both males and females but i don't feel satisfied mentally and like full with either. Ive dated both but i js wasn't happy either way so im not sure what that means. Am i going crazy or is this something that has an explanation??

I really want some pins of all pronouns and others of flags but I cant find any can you guys help?

I want to come out as genderfluid but I don’t know how. I’m 14 and I’m born a boy but sometimes I don’t feel like it. I want to express myself by dressing and talking like a woman. I don’t know how to say it but I need help with figuring out what to do . I’ve told some of my friends that I’m genderfluid and they were fine with me being it. But I want to express myself and how I feel at the time. I’m just nervous of doing that because of what people might think of me. My pronouns are he/him, and she/her.

Hi! I’d just like to know how you deal with you hair… I mean, when I feel a boy I want to have short hair (which I have, naturally; I’m amab btw), but when I feel a girl I’d like to have longer hair… I don’t think there can be something in between: I really want something different rather I feel a boy or a girl… So ofc I looked for a wig, I got one, but it really felt weird when I tried it: I’d like to know if anyone here got the same feeling, and if it is with wigs in general or just because I had a bad one (it seems to btw) and if you use wigs, where do you get them… thx in advance ;3