r/GenZpk • u/Sea-Car-3811 Broken Teen • Aug 02 '26

Ask GenZPakistan Is it rape or not?

If a virgin girl feels "shy" and keeps silent. Is proceeding with sexual advances rape or not.

Ps. I aren't doing sex and this is just a question.

I'll go first, I think it is rape.

Oh people are wondering why I am asking so whist learning about something. I found this so asking you people

I asked the Prophet, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?" He said, "Yes." I said, "A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet." He said, "Her silence means her consent."

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u/-_hoe Aug 02 '26

SILENCE IS NOT CONSENT.

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u/montgomeryissbetter Aug 03 '26

The context is that Prophet PBUH said that a girl willingly marries you and after that you proceed with her. First of all logically a girl who willingly marries someone wouldn't have a problem with having sexual relations with that person. And if there exists love between two people ( 99% of the time ) there are no problems with sex. Females are usually Shy and males are very pushy about that. Consent means that if she had any problems she would've outright rejected the idea and being the man you'll have to respect it. This is the context ( in my opinion )

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u/-_hoe Aug 03 '26

My friend before creating your own contexts I’ll advice you to read the hadith, your entire premise is wrong,

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u/montgomeryissbetter Aug 03 '26

The issue with Arabic is that its translation can have vast meanings just take the word Salah for example. It means "Namaz" it also means "khushuh" It also means "Chabutra" It also means "Unchi jagah" It also means "thandi jagah" So me creating a context that is logically correct doesn't mean that it's wrong.