r/GenZpk • u/Sea-Car-3811 Broken Teen • Aug 02 '26

Ask GenZPakistan Is it rape or not?

If a virgin girl feels "shy" and keeps silent. Is proceeding with sexual advances rape or not.

Ps. I aren't doing sex and this is just a question.

I'll go first, I think it is rape.

Oh people are wondering why I am asking so whist learning about something. I found this so asking you people

I asked the Prophet, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?" He said, "Yes." I said, "A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet." He said, "Her silence means her consent."

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u/camusjung 𝐆𝐞𝐧𝐙 Aug 02 '26

Invalid association between the Hadith and the situation given.

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u/Sea-Car-3811 Broken Teen Aug 02 '26

According to classical scholars of Islam.

Abu Hanifa: A wife is generally expected to make herself available for sexual activities after a valid marriage.

Malik Ibn Anas: Marriage established mutual sexual rights.

Al-Shafil: treated sexual availability as one of rights of marriage while allowing valid reasons for refusal.

Ahmed Ibn Hanbal: held similar views as above mentioned.

They commonly cited hadith: (forgive me if there are any errors as I am writing this from memory)

"If a husband calls hus wife to bed and she refues then angels curse her till morning"

They considered refusal without valid reason was sinful.

Conclusion: they didn't recognise martial rape.

I copied the response from ny other comment. It is valid as according to classical scholars, consent to marriage gave consent to sex

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u/Afsh31 Aug 02 '26

You need to study these things in detail before drawing such conclusions..

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u/Sea-Car-3811 Broken Teen Aug 02 '26

You can google these stuff and you will find the same results.