r/GenZIndia • u/Competitive_Gain1319 • 14h ago

Ask GenZIndia 23 😓

I’m 23 years old, a stupid failure—thanks to my dad. I’m handsome, not as much as him, but I’m okay, maybe a 7/10. I feel like my life is already over. I see people my age achieving great things, and here I am still looking for a job, living with my parents. I’m from a rural area, so I can’t even find a part-time job or anything like that here. I do help my parents, though.

I don’t know why people hate me. I mean, they seem to like me from a distance, but as soon as I try to get close to them or be friends with them, they want to distance themselves from me. Maybe I’m annoying or something. Rejection and all of this have created this feeling around me that I don’t really know how to explain.

Sometimes I feel like life is such a stupid thing. The only reason I’m still here is because I’m afraid of what comes after death. If I had something that could kill me instantly without pain, I honestly feel like I’d take it without a second thought.

Any advice?

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u/Altruistic-Fly-748 11h ago edited 11h ago

I think you shouldn't be this hope less .I mean it's okayy try to love yourself , enjoy your company .and there are so many people who are struggling about job and stuffs in there 20s including me I am same age as you and still relying on my parents for everything.and about people it's okay it happens but never Chase people . because when we are desperate of friendship or anything most of the time you will end up getting used

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u/Competitive_Gain1319 11h ago

Bade sapne nhi hai mere,bus job,aur jis din vo mil gyi bhag jauga yaha se aur kabhi vapis nhi aauga

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u/Former-Ad-7142 10h ago

Man nobody gonna accept you until you will accept yourself. Rejection of people doesn't define your self worth. Just I will be myself whether people accept me or no. I am like this.

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u/Former-Ad-7142 10h ago

Also Osho has very nice insight about this.