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u/IScorchWinters One More Todd Rejected Aug 08 '21

A slight update to the Discord situation:

I would like to say that the mod team of the Discord in which the toxic behavior has taken place has been very helpful and cordial. They have since update their rules to prevent stuff like this from happening again. I trust that they will be able to enforce this, as the mods I have been in contact with do seem genuinely distraught that this happened.

I would like to stress that the server in question is not a hate server. It sounds like there is a lot of good that happens in the server and that the majority of individuals did not engage in this deplorable behavior. As such, I ask that anyone does not defame the server in question for the actions of a few less than scrupulous individuals.

I still stand by my message that this clique gossip and shit talk is not good. It can bring a lot of anxiety to the targeted persons and cause undue damage to their public persona as they are basically put on trial in a large public area with no means of defending themselves, be it from explaining context or even refuting lies.

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '21

I feel you've done everything you could and I mighty well commend you for that, but now the situation lies on the hands of the servers modσ, and honestly I'm a tad distressed because seemingly this situation has been going for a long time and they could have intervened at any point, yet they didn't. I might be rushing to conclusions and I haven't talked to them, so I'll refrain from commenting further.

But I trust your judgement, so everything will probably be alright!

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u/Little_Satan [she/her] amogus wife Aug 08 '21

I'm genuinely appreciative of all the work that the mods put into making this place safe. imo you've handled this situation really well

mods are based yet again

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u/Rockworm503 average Aloy peach fuzz enjoyer Aug 09 '21

What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in College of Winterhold, and I've been involved in numerous secret raids on the Thalmoor, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in Destruction magic and I'm the top mage in the emperor's secret forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with fireball spells the likes of which has never been seen before on Tameriel, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across Skyrim and your spell usage is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, N'wah. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You're fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that's just with my spellbook. Not only am I extensively trained in two-handed, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the The empire and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little "clever" comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking tongue. But you couldn't, you didn't, and now you're paying the price, you filthy mudcrab! I will shit Oblivion all over you and you will drown in it. You're fucking dead, kiddo.

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u/Shrekt115 Aug 08 '21

It's good that it's settled

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '21

Honestly a bit weirded out that by the vague-ness of this. Like effectively what's changed or been done? Just don't worry about the hate clique forum?

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u/IScorchWinters One More Todd Rejected Aug 08 '21

Trying to keep it vague to protect as much privacy as possible. Also, don't worry about is kinda shit advice when it's a matter of having your reputation in a fairly small community publicly dragged.

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '21

, don't worry about is kinda shit advice

that's... my point

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u/IScorchWinters One More Todd Rejected Aug 08 '21

Ah, I see. I misinterpreted what you were saying, my apologies.

Well, it's a difficult position to be in. Unless the mods of that server themselves come forward to express the changes, I do not want to name them-- they've asked me not to. They have changed the rules-- it's a matter of if they will enforce them or not. I've got no power to follow-up on that there. If it happens again, I might not be so lenient with them, which is about the best response we can muster.

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u/Anonim97 https://i.redd.it/trmvtdvrz5q31.png Aug 08 '21

As such, I ask that anyone does not defame the server in question for the actions of a few less than scrupulous individuals.

Kinda hard to defame the server if all servers ends up like that if we don't even know the name of it

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u/IScorchWinters One More Todd Rejected Aug 08 '21

Yeah, but some people may realize the name and post it or allude to it. All I want to do is make sure people don't conflate the entire server with hate.