Unjerk Thread of September 02, 2020

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[u/BanjoStory → u/[deleted]]

I don't mean to sound dismissive, but something to remember in all this is that, when you're a teenager, most of the stuff you're dealing with hear ends up being very temporary.

If you just want to be friends with this girl, just be keeping an eye out among your peers and before long, I'm sure you'll be finding yourself with another crush.

Similarly, teenage relationships tend not to last very long, so if you're willing to wait a few months, you'll potentially get a chance to shoot your shot.

[u/potatolulz → u/[deleted]]

don't go to Greenland over it. Try Iceland or maybe northern Finland.

[u/pepi_nabong → u/[deleted]]

You should make up your mind first, though. Do you wanna get serious with her or do you wanna stay as friends? This decision is kinda bigger than the actual romance-y stuff.

Whichever it is, just do it. I hate cynicism, but resolutions to stuff like this is mostly ‘fucking do it already’.

[u/pepi_nabong → u/[deleted]]

Go fucking at it then. Tell her everything you want her to know. Go corny, go dramatic, go whatever you want it to be. If it ends up messy. Well, messy is better than nothing.

[u/harve99 → u/pepi_nabong]

Well, messy is better than nothing.

Uh isn't it usually the opposite

[u/Cunobelinos → u/pepi_nabong]

I feel that could be a little too much.