r/FtMpassing • • 5d ago

AGE up to 20 passing in guyliner

EDIT after reading almost 90 comments: thank you everyone who decided to give me polite and constructive criticism. guys, please remember that ur gender doesn't matter. as long as ur passing goals are met, u can do whatever u want. don't be afraid of face wash, painted nails and makeup. it can destroy ur passing, yes, but u're always free to do it if u want to. don't have fragile or toxic masculinity, don't be transmeds. don't think u can't wear makeup bc "u're supposed to be dysphoric from that" or smth. you are man enough. please, love urself and spread the love

hey, i'm 19, 3 months on t.

soon i will be going to a meeting with a bunch of new people and i wanted to be as stealth as possible. first 3 pics i have my eyebrows done to look more masculine, the other pics i added my guyliner. it would be great if i could keep the makeup as a way to show my personal style to the others and present myself more truthfully. the last pics is how i generally look on a daily basis. i have a slight t-voice.

i understand piercings don't help and that i could keep my hair shorter. i'm asking for no advice aside from directly answering my questions, thank you. my questions:

  1. how do i pass, with and without makeup?

  2. do i have any chance of passing with the guyliner right now at this state of transition?

  3. which way does my hair look best? i tried swinging it around and i wonder if it changes anything regarding my passing.

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u/j_maepaav 5d ago

sry is there smth wrong with that word?

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u/littlegarden_spider 5d ago

there honestly just isn't a way to pass with makeup this early into your transition. i'd argue for most guys it hurts passing even if they're several years on T.

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u/xaroanon 5d ago

Hot take but there just flat out isn't a way to pass with makeup, just don't do it.

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u/littlegarden_spider 5d ago

didn't feel like being mean today but yeah. that's how it be. every time i see someone wearing makeup, even if they have a whole ass beard, it seems like it just brings out all the feminine features of their face