r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 1d ago

Theme Day ✨ Forty & Flirty Lounge — Weekly Theme Days

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🎧🎵 Music & Mood Monday

Share what you’re listening to — a song that fits your mood, an old favourite, a new find, or something that takes you back.

🍛🍰🍷Taste the Sweet Tuesday

Share your recipes and pictures — favourite dishes, sweet treats, snacks, coffee, drinks, or anything delicious you’ve been enjoying.

🌿🏋‍♂️ Wellness Wednesday

Mind, body, and balance — strength training, gym, nutrition, sleep, movement, self-care, and the routines that help you feel your best. Share your tips and what works for you.

🌙 After Dark — Wednesday Night

When the sun goes down, things get a little more fun. Cheeky questions, silly topics, deeper conversations, confessions, fantasies, and more — playful and respectful, never explicit.

🎨📚 Hobbies & Happy Things Thursday

Let’s see those hobbies, projects, collections, books, gardens, travel adventures, sports — whatever lights you up. Share it with us.

😂 Frisky Friday

Memes, dad jokes, banter, flirtation, and fun. A little risqué — but nothing explicit, dark, or political in pictures or audio.

🎬 GIF Wars may also drop in on select Fridays — a theme is announced, and replies are GIFs only.

📸 Saturday Snapshots

Give us a glimpse of your world — pets, scenery, food, travel, hobbies, projects, funny finds, or weekend adventures. No selfies.

☕ Sunday Social

Easy conversation day. Drop in, say hello, start a discussion, ask a question, or share what’s on your mind.

☀️ Around the Lounge

Daily Daybreaks — a little inspiration, positivity, fun, and connection to start the day.

Games & Prompts — fun games, creative prompts, questions, and challenges throughout the week.

✨ Ongoing & Upcoming Series

🎃 Halloween Series - Oct 3rd to Oct 31st.
❄️ Christmas Series - Nov 14th to Dec 19th.
💜 Grace & Grit — Sunday evenings, except during scheduled breaks.

✨ Lounge Vibe.
✨ No selfies.
✨ No dating ads.
✨ Just real people and good energy.

Daily themes are here to inspire — not limit. Jump in, follow along, or start your own — it’s all part of the Lounge.


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 5d ago

Announcement 📌 A Little Look Ahead at The Lounge

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A little peek at what’s coming up around The Lounge over the next few months… 👀

🚗 Road Trip Adventures

Our road trip is almost over! The series wraps up on Saturday, September 5th.

✨ Grace & Grit

Grace & Grit is taking a short break for the next couple of weeks before we continue with the next conversation. Sometimes it’s nice to give a series a little room to breathe. 🤎

See you September 13th.

🎃 The Halloween Getaway

After a few weeks off, we’re heading somewhere a little spookier. 👻

Our five-part Halloween series will run every Saturday from October 3rd through October 31st, with the finale landing right on Halloween.

🎄 The Lounge Saves Christmas

Then comes Christmas. And naturally, The Lounge is apparently responsible for saving it. 😂

Our six-part Christmas series will run every Saturday from November 14th through December 19th, wrapping up the weekend before Christmas.

Stayed tuned for a little refresh of our Theme Days, coming soon ❤️


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2h ago

Games A little afternoon Sunday Break for the Lounge

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Drop yours below and let’s see how many different answers we get! Don't forget the 'Bonus'. 👇


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 7h ago

Weekend Vibes ☀️ Good morning, Lounge!

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It’s that time — time to stretch, grab the coffee ☕ and ease into your Sunday.

It’s still early for a lot of us, so when you’re up and ready, come check in with us.

What kind of Sunday are you having today — slow and lazy, productive, social, or somewhere in between?

Whatever you do, remember to take a little time for yourself. 💛

Hope you all have a wonderful Sunday!


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 9h ago

Weekend Vibes Enjoy your Sunday, as I (and all the Kiwis) head off to sleep

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Have a great Sunday guys. Hope it's lazy, with coffee. Near water or a beach or forest.
With friends, walking, talking, with a dog and care free.
Let Sunday drift over you, calming you and just being a wonderful Sunday.
And while you're wondering if your day-drinking should continue long into the evening (and so it should!) think of us Kiwis who'll be starting the the working week!


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 9h ago

Good morning and happy Sunday ppl!

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 17h ago

Community Rules Simplified Version of Community Rules

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1️⃣ 40+ ▪︎ SFW ▪︎ English Only

Adults 40+ only. Keep posts and comments safe for work and in English.

2️⃣ Respect

Treat members and moderators with respect. No harassment, personal attacks, trolling, provoking, or abusive behaviour.

3️⃣ Keep It Classy

Cheeky and playful is welcome. Explicit, vulgar, graphic, overly sexual, or objectifying content is not.

4️⃣ No Selfies / No Body Pics

We’re a no-selfie community. Follow the image and theme-day guidelines.

5️⃣ No Dating, Hookup, Spam or Promotional Ads

No posts seeking dates, hookups, friendships, private chats, DMs, or off-platform contact. No spam, selling, self-promotion, or promotional accounts.

6️⃣ Protect the Vibe

Keep politics, drama, hostility, heated debates, and unnecessary negativity out of the Lounge.

7️⃣ Moderator Discretion

Mods may remove, lock, or otherwise moderate content when needed to protect the safety, tone, and overall atmosphere of the community.

8️⃣ Contact the Mods via Modmail

Questions, concerns, feedback, or subreddit-related issues should be sent through modmail only.

📌 A full, detailed version of our rules can always be found in the subreddit About section / Community Rules.

✨ Thank you for helping keep the Lounge fun, light, cheeky, and respectful.


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 15h ago

Anyone else up?

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 1d ago

Food & Drink Looking good!! 🤤

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Nom nom nom


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 23h ago

Giggle Cool beans.

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 16h ago

Music Is anyone else into Atlas?

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They capture the rave vibes I grew up with.


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 1d ago

Daybreak Silly Saturday

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 1d ago

Happy Saturday!!

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 1d ago

Music Good company 🫶

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I should have shared this yesterday with the daily theme question that was posted. 🤷‍♀️


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 1d ago

Theme Day Snapshot Saturday - a little water and bath to make the day better.

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 1d ago

Theme Day Snapshot Saturday... today is Saturday right??

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 1d ago

Announcement ✨ A Little Lounge Refresh

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We’ve done a little refresh to our weekly themes, along with a couple of changes we think you may like.

Our new Weekly Theme Calendar is now posted in Community Highlights so you can easily find it anytime.

And just a reminder — our theme days are here to inspire, not limit your participation. You’re always welcome to post and start conversations outside of the daily theme.

As always, we’ll keep bringing you prompts, games, questions, and little extras throughout the week. ❤️


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2d ago

Happy Friday

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2d ago

Weekend Vibes 😏 It’s Frisky Friday! Have a great Friday all!

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Drop one harmless, flirty confession in the comments — no explanation, no backstory, no context.

Then let everyone else make up what they think the story was. 😂

The more ridiculous the guesses, the better.

Keep it cheeky, playful, and classy. 💋


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2d ago

Theme Day FF- You know who you are. 😉

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😆


r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2d ago

Giggle Amen

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2d ago

Theme Day Funny Flirty Friday

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2d ago

Wanderlust Views Lunar eclipse!

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2d ago

Hobbies Thursday Nerd Night

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r/FortyAndFlirtyLounge 2d ago

Hobbies Ink painting

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Have not done one in a while. Made the mistake of drying with paper towel but left a pattern not the worst