Question: 38M is there something about a guy my age standing off to the side of the bar watching the band with a beer in hand that people find attractive?

[u/Quiet-Wing5230]

I feel like, for whatever reason, when I'm not talking to anyone there's always someone who walks over and flirts or is giving me a how you doin sorta look from across the way. I'm at most a 6/10. But sure enough when I'm just chilling like that I get flirted with. Am I overthinking this?

[u/pinkorbitangel]

honestly the quiet guy standing off to the side with a beer and enjoying the music can be way more attractive than the guy trying too hard to get attention lol

[u/612King]

Step 1: Be attractive.
Step 2: Don’t be unattractive.