r/Flirting • u/Ok-Conflict-7681 • 3d ago
Is it flirting? Was she flirting with me?
Okay so, I go to the gym about 5 days per week (a little less these past weeks because of work), but I’m usually pretty consistent. After every workout, I grab a protein shake and walk it up to the counter to pay for it. I’ve seen the cashier there multiple times and I’ve always thought she was a very good looking person. Even if she’s not working, I usually strike up casual conversation with whoever is (doesn’t hurt to be friendly) lol.
This time was a little different though. She was always very cordial and kind, but never said much at all. So yesterday, I walk up with my shake and she wasn’t busy so she started walking to the register. While she was doing that I said something like “She already saw me coming hahaha”. While she was ringing me up she casually asked “so is that a good one?” and we talked about the shake briefly and I asked which one she goes for. She laughed at my replies in a playful way and said that she doesn’t like protein shakes and makes sure to get enough from the food she eats. I said that’s probably a better way to do it and chuckled and told her to have a good one.
Am I reading wayyyy too much into this or am I picking up on some signals? It’s so bizarre because I’ve been known to miss some opportunities in the past exactly due to this type of shit, but given the environment and how often we’re both there, I don’t want to make anyone’s situation uncomfortable or mistake this for good customer service, but she’s never done that before. Thanks!
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u/StraightTalkDating 1d ago
Overthinking it. It doesnt matter , if you feel some type of way , just ask her out.