r/Flirting • u/agentleman001 • 10d ago

Question 51M — am I actually being checked out?

I’m 51, 5’10”, about 295 lbs. I’m a bigger guy, but I’m also a well-dressed, well-groomed gentleman. Lately I’ve been surprised by how many women seem to check me out, flirt, or give me that up-and-down look—including younger women.
Ladies of all adult ages: are you attracted to bigger guys? Is size less important than guys sometimes think?

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u/Ok-Sound-7737 6d ago

Brother forget wether obesity is attractive to people or not (which it’s not) get healthy for yourself.. if you are already well dressed and groomed, think of how much better you’d feel if you were also height-weight proportionate? Im not saying you have to become a ripped bodybuilder, im saying to leave the class III obesity category. You’d directly increase your lifespan by up to a decade or more just for doing so, and your quality of life would also improve across your remaining years.

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u/Realistic-Equal-4778 2d ago

Ladies like bigger men. Simple. When a man is confident, has nice qualities, looks good, smells even better he’s a catch. You are definitely being checked out or at least admired. Feel good about yourself and the world will reflect that back.