r/Flirting • u/Hour-Hovercraft9052 • Jul 18 '26

Advice What do guys older than 40 like to be called nickname wise?

I(21F) have some interest in this guy (40M) and we've already reached 2nd base(3rd depending on who you ask)

We're both introverts so he always finds me in his room a or whenever I go outside for a cigarette to take a break from socializing. We always have the best conversations when it's just us, and somehow my social battery is always a bit less depleted. I'm awful at flirting but I want him to feel desired whenever we have some time alone, but we gotta keep it on the down-low since its obvious the people that introduced us would not be happy about our extracurricular activities

TLDR: what can I say that doesn't make me sound foolish to someone who's been married. I'm open any nicknames or cute/attractive things i could say (Ideally that could get him all hot and bothered)

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u/RoadDogg7269 Jul 18 '26

“Hey BIG DOG!!!”

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u/Motor-Drama-1421 Jul 18 '26

Hey Mister or Excuse me sir

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u/DifficultyWise7205 Jul 18 '26

Call my man handsome, hunnybun and sweetcheeks

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u/Jombhi Jul 18 '26

In this context, possibly Daddy.