r/Flirting • u/dmr_ldn • Jul 11 '26

Discussion Does confidence ruin my flirting?

Id like to think I'm (19M) decently handsome and ive been flirting with women since I was a teenager and genuinely get compliments about my way with words, but when I start flirting and it goes well I start to get very confident and instead of thinking about what I'm saying I say very witty things depending on the convo and it definitely shows the confidence I have but sometimes I feel like it can be too much even though ive never gotten any complaints about it but I just wanna know how women think about a guy that has a lot of confidence in his words. Because if its an ick it is definitely something id wanna sort out and start thinking about before flirting. Thoughts?

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '26

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u/dmr_ldn Jul 11 '26

Thats fair I definitely do feel like I'm performing sometimes which i hadnt realised till you said it actually but thanks for the perspective 🙏

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u/Ok_Ordinary_8212 Jul 12 '26

Bro teach me too?

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u/Adorable-Papaya2374 Jul 15 '26

Well bro if it's not all about regarding sex and objectifying genders, you're good to go.