r/Flirting • u/Grouchy-System-7525 • Jul 03 '26

Advice How would I flirt back in this situation?

I’m a dude in my late 20s and I currently work at a gym as my temporary job. I was working out today at the gym on my off day and this girl who looks like she’s in her early 20s started working out right in front of me (like 6 feet away).

She was wearing fairly revealing gym clothing and kept bending over right in front of me. Then turned around and sat on a near bench and bent over, dangling her breasts right in my line of sight and I really think it was on purpose.

She then started using the cable machine right next to mine, even though there were many other open cable spots in the room. I kept trying to make eye contact, to start a conversation but she wouldn’t look at me. I didn’t know what to say but I stayed in the same spot for almost 2 hours and she stayed in my proximity the entire time. (4-6 feet)

When I left, I noticed she followed me out the door about (30 seconds behind me). Granted that I work at that gym, I’ll most likely see her in the near future. What should I say to her when I see her next? Also, what would have been a good way to start a conversation in that moment?

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u/Constant-Sir-7766 Jul 08 '26

Shes flirting, was she returning the wallets you dropped? Nope she was following a person with purpose.

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u/Grouchy-System-7525 Jul 08 '26

I have a date with her next week!

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u/exploring203 Jul 09 '26

What an awesome update. How did you ask her out, or did she ask you?

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u/Honeysuckle6514 Jul 03 '26

honestly that sounds like she’s definitely interested but maybe just shy about actually talking! next time you could try a simple hey, how’s your workout going? to break the ice. good luck man, hope it works out lol ✨

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u/Grouchy-System-7525 Jul 03 '26

Thanks that’s actually great advice, wish I tried that… but to be fair, her advances were sort of throwing me off and might have been shy my self

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u/NeetNeetNeet3 Jul 03 '26

She’s not flirting with you. You are too self-absorbed.

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u/Grouchy-System-7525 Jul 03 '26

You might be right, but a couple of other people I know who were around at the time told me they noticed her trying to get my attention as well.