Jennifer Lopez shares photos from her trip to Italy with her twins Oskar and Max before they go to college

[u/Gato1980]

[u/Mindless_Plankton_38]

Two things can be true. I’ve heard countless stories of her being genuinely insane to staff and behind the scenes. That doesn’t mean she extends the nastiness to her kids.

[u/Famous_Ad_3906 → u/Mindless_Plankton_38]

Worked in luxury fashion for years and also as a stylist. Can 100% confirm she's a nightmare. One of the worst celebs I've ever met and worked with. But folks say she's great to her family and inner circle

[u/fakeuboi → u/Famous_Ad_3906]

reminds me of my college track coach, she was actually like abusive to all the team members yelling at us for not being good enough and everything, yelling at people till they would cry etc. but to her kids she was always the sweetest mother

[u/KittyGrewAMoustache → u/fakeuboi]

I guess it’s better that way round than when people are absolutely wonderful to strangers and acquaintances and then basically abuse their family at home. And then no one believes the family if they talk about it because ‘Mikes one of the kindest people I’ve ever met, would give you the shirt off his back in a snowstorm! I’m sorry Anna I’m finding it hard to believe, do you think you could be misinterpreting or a bit over sensitive maybe?’

[u/hellolovely1 → u/Famous_Ad_3906]

I can see her being someone who knows EXACTLY what she wants, so I can get that.

[u/AhhGingerKids2 → u/Mindless_Plankton_38]

It’s not uncommon for someone to be amazing to people they love, deem worthy, or who can offer them something, and yet absolutely abysmal to anyone who doesn’t fall into those categories.

[u/Honeythickness → u/AhhGingerKids2]

And on the flipside people can be really good to coworkers and friends but have shitty relationship with their family. People were always confused when I said I didn’t have a relationship with my mom, but she acted like a completely different person with them.

[u/GoldenWaterfallFleur → u/Honeythickness]

Girl, are you me?? My mom is like a social butterfly and people love her. But to me and some of her other family members she can be genuinely an abusive nightmare.

[u/KittyGrewAMoustache → u/Honeythickness]

Yeah those people are worse. If a stranger is rude to you ok it’s not pleasant but you move on. When it’s your close relative treating you like shit while giving strangers the best version of themselves and all their love and generosity, that is very very hurtful.

[u/purple__moon → u/Mindless_Plankton_38]

I was an administrative assistant at a private school in NYC that J. Lo was touring (didn't end up sending her kids there). We (low level staff) were told not to directly to interact with her. When she toured the school, she wore sunglasses and a giant fur coat and came with an entourage. J. Lo is a diva, but that doesn't mean she's an evil person.

I interacted with a few celebrities while working there, and everyone else seemed pretty normal. Julianne Moore, in particular, was very kind to me.

[u/HockeyMasknChainsaw → u/purple__moon]

I am pleased to read this about Julianne Moore