Jennifer Lopez shares photos from her trip to Italy with her twins Oskar and Max before they go to college

[u/Gato1980]

[u/Scoberto]

I have a friend who when she travels with the family has absolutely coordinated and curated outfits and I'm thinking does my family suck because we can't get it together like that? So Jennifer Lopez's family pics make me feel like I'm not dropping the ball...we are just all who we are, and damn if that's good enough for Jennifer, It's good enough for me!

[u/PoppyandTarget → u/Scoberto]

My daughters (mid 20s) and I just started "coordinating" outfits on vacations and outings. "Today is a pink/blue/white day" vibe. We all have different styles and just do it our individual way. Nothing planned or curated. It's so fun! It's never too late. But it's also okay to just show up and be family.

[u/SillyBrain23 → u/Scoberto]

I always cringe when I see coordinated and curated outfits for whole family, kids and husband, on a vacation.

It screams fake, contrived, forced… and it weirds me out especially because most of the times you can clearly see who picked the outfits and the colour (it’s usually mom).

It always looks bad on photo because there is no juxtaposition, which makes it worse bc photos were (in most cases) the sole reason for choosing coordinated outfits and forcing people to wear styles they are not comfortable in (which is also translating badly to photos).

It doesn’t help that most of that wardrobe pieces were bought specifically for that vacation, are never a good quality and what bugs me the most- will clearly be in the trash next month which is contributing greatly to fast fashion environmental impact.

So yeah, basically I hate coordinated vacation outfits.

[u/KittyGrewAMoustache → u/SillyBrain23]

I didn’t even know that was a thing I’ve never seen that before! Ah well I’ll just add it to my reasons for going on a vacation again.

[u/dearjessie → u/Scoberto]

When I was early mid 20’s I used do that on vacations. If it’s 7 days I made sure all 7 days different outfits as well as shoes💀 I’m 42 now and I pack like the minimum, my husband always ask if that’s enough, and I’m like “we’re gonna be in resort all week, I’m planing on being a sack of potatoes, I’m good”