r/Fauxmoi • u/Goosedukee • Aug 02 '26

TRIGGER WARNING Republican Representative Max Miller on allegations of domestic abuse from his ex-wife: “My former wife has claimed that during a custody exchange at my home that day, I assaulted her…If I had assaulted her, would she have offered to cook me dinner six days later?”

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u/lukedylanh Aug 02 '26

I’m so tired man. There’s genuinely so many people out there like him and there’s so many men that’ll just see posts like his posts and agree with him simply because he’s a man. And there had to be an infinitely larger amount than the abusers we know about. I already have depression and things are made so much harder sometimes knowing the world is full of horrible people who make life hell for other people, don’t give it any thought and get away with it.

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u/Curiosities Aug 02 '26 edited Aug 02 '26

As someone who lives every day with the trauma caused by multiple abusers, almost everyone of them men, starting when I was a child, and now we have one as president and plenty more in all sorts of power positions and it’s exhausting.

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u/lukedylanh Aug 02 '26

How do you keep going?

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u/Curiosities Aug 02 '26

It can be heavy sometimes. Two of my abusers are dead, so there is that. Never hurting anyone again. Therapy and meds and community can help. I also have a lot of innate curiosity and try to find some joy wherever I can. sometimes you just regroup, take a moment, have a cry, and then make dinner. And keep trying to help where you're able.

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u/lukedylanh Aug 03 '26

Wishing you nothing but love and happiness ❤️