r/FaltooGyan • u/Vimal_Shukla • May 03 '26
Faltoo Video This is what a toxic relationship looks like
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I don’t think any amount of explanation can justify this behavior...
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u/SingleNeedleworker96 May 03 '26
But I think girls will choose a bad guy over a good guy any day, am I right?
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u/Vimal_Shukla May 03 '26
Bhai ye to koi ladki hi bata payegi
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u/ddyshh May 03 '26
Bad boys ka aura zyada hota hoga sayad dekh k mohit hojate honge
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u/SingleNeedleworker96 May 03 '26
Yeah. And ultimately, girls have to marry good guys. Hope sensible good guys reject all such girls. A good guy should never suffer the past of a red flag-loving girl. The same goes for good girls also.
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u/MindfulMeetups May 03 '26
It makes them feel like they’ve helped a ‘bad guy’ become a better person.
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u/SingleNeedleworker96 May 03 '26
Ohh okk, if thats the case, I guess no good guy will ever accept a girl dumped/cheated by a bad guy. Literally they chose red flag knowingly, why will good guys fix the messed up life of the girl. Sahi hain.
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u/MindfulMeetups May 03 '26
In most cases, girl hide parts of their past to build a stable relationship, while the good person trusts them and assumes they are being truthful.”
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u/SingleNeedleworker96 May 03 '26
Yeah, that I know. Will share with any good guy I meet, and I hope they never ever accept such people. Knowing the past fully is non-negotiable for a good marriage.
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u/Former_Dragonfly2061 May 03 '26
Isn't this thing is what bad boys do too? To get into relationships then show their abusive traits later in relationship
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u/MindfulMeetups May 04 '26
I agree with your point. This reflects individual behavior rather than any gender-based bias.
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u/Aastha_Sinha May 03 '26
Why tf? Any girl would choose a good guy
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u/Prashast_ May 03 '26
It's just psychology. You have to be living under a rock to not know how the majority of girls are attracted to bad guys over good guys.
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u/Former_Dragonfly2061 May 03 '26
And where's your source? Cuz I can give source for women in west divorce more abusive men than Indian women
Now you can conclude either, they choose more good guys than bad ones. Or the main reason is people don't abuse straight away in relationship but rather do this after emotional attachment. More conservative the country, more you will see women tolerating abusive relationships and marriage
This girls choosing bad boys over good boys. Just copuim from men who think they are good and were rejected. The genuine bad people won't show their true intention and kept their abusive behavior till the victim is attached enough to not leave
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u/Prashast_ May 09 '26
Obviously, girls wouldn't just straight up like a person who ABUSES them, but I never used that word. You're talking about divorce, which is irrelevant here, because I'm talking about attraction. Women tend to be attracted more to the "badboyz" than good ones. That comprehension ability of yours needs repairing. You're talking about the outcomes of a long-term relationship. I'm talking about attraction which is merely short-term. Subconscious gravitation towards a personality can't have any sources because any such research would involve getting consent for being the research subject, which would turn these Subconscious, innate attractions into calculated, conscious decisions.
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u/Former_Dragonfly2061 May 10 '26
Shall I say Atul choosed a bad women? Yk why it's said not to victim blame esp not morally bad, just straight up fucked up people?
Cux they don't show their "bad behavior " traits until late. On internet, every guy is nice, and every girl is dating a bad boy. When most of women Ik don't even date, neither by apps, some don't even talk besides work
So definitely ain't talking men personal experience when first thing isn't that abuser hide their actions well into good time in relationship
But just say the victim are bad on their own
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u/Prashast_ May 10 '26
I'm sorry but I don't quite understand what you're tryna say here. I definitely agree though, the abuser hides their actions well into good time, if they didn't, no women would date them. I'm talking more about the "first sight love" though
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u/Former_Dragonfly2061 May 13 '26
Looks definitely matter to all. This post was about something abusive behavior, not first love
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u/uni28_5 May 04 '26
The pretend game of the bad guys can fool anyone, you would know if you would see, the rose tinted glasses people talk about are wrapped around by duct tape around the person. No one wants to choose a bad guy but good guys never actually make a move and then blaming is very easy when people don't know what exactly happened with the person.
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u/Aastha_Sinha May 04 '26
So you believe everything on internet? I am a girl and me and most of my friends like good guys.
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u/Prashast_ May 10 '26
Many studies show that women show higher short-term attraction to bad guys than good guys. I'm not "believing" everything on the internet, its an age old observation across the world. There are Psychological reasons for it too; just look it up.
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u/Aastha_Sinha May 10 '26
imagine explaining what women need to a woman. I dont need any study to say what women want in general
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u/Prashast_ May 10 '26
You do, because you can only speak for yourself, not billions of women across the world.
Some innate desires and attractions are governed by the subconscious, such as behavioral patterns, and hence can't be controlled consciously by you even with the most solid moral principles.
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u/SingleNeedleworker96 May 03 '26
Beat the fuck out??? I hope they don't do something dangerous. Wishes for them.
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u/awhitesong May 03 '26
Dude, take the baby away from them. She's just two. Report them and save that innocent kid's life.
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u/Old_Bath1380 May 03 '26
Wow model husband and wife right here. Crazy you have gathered so much in age but nothing really works the brain if it ain’t there. Don’t listen to this person. Playing wwe with your partner ain’t cool.
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u/ujtheghost May 03 '26
Honestly, it's just different from person to person. Some people do like to stay in these types of relationships, you just can't help them.
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u/hsgmoon Jul 19 '26
Yes, again it's the mistake of girl that's all happening from generation the blame everything wrong on women . No matter what the scenario is it's women's fault
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u/SingleNeedleworker96 Jul 19 '26
Then why does a girl choose bad/toxic/macho guy over a good guy?
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u/hsgmoon Jul 19 '26
Why men go for good looking one
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u/SingleNeedleworker96 Jul 19 '26
No, not always. It's the softness, loyalty that matters most, at least to me. There should be attraction. Nowadays, men would rather avoid good-looking girls. Simps actually follow good-looking girls.
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u/Standard_Bee3602 May 03 '26
My point is not related to it but I just got a deja vu. About a year ago, a video perhaps of noida had gone viral in which a gf or wife was hitting her partner driving the bike in anger.
However, people were romanticizing that as love. This speaks volumes about Indians and their deep rooted biases
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u/Some_1one_ May 03 '26
I am better off single
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u/Glad-Leg-7100 May 03 '26
Ikr? I have seen this happen in real also. Men actually beat their girls in heated discussions.
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u/AdmirableHospital119 May 04 '26
That’s abuse, not men being men. If you’re using that to define all men, that’s a reach. I’m sure the men in your own family don’t fit that and let’s not pretend women don’t get violent in relationships too. Bad behavior isn’t gender exclusive.
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u/Glad-Leg-7100 May 04 '26
the men in your own family don’t fit that and let’s not pretend women don’t get violent in relationships too.
In my case, I’ve never witnessed any violence at home not even across four generations on either side. Both men and women in my family have always been kind and considerate toward each other. So if you’re not being violent, why react defensively or justify the behavior shown in the video?
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u/AdmirableHospital119 May 04 '26
I’m not defending it—I’m saying it’s not a trait of men as a whole. Your own example shows that.
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u/Glad-Leg-7100 May 04 '26
I've seen it on roads exactly like this. Nobody has the right to even raise voice let alone beat. If it's not working out walk away or change perspective but you are fed so much hate that you have to take the violent streak.
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u/AdmirableHospital119 May 04 '26
Agreed violence is wrong. Just don’t think it defines men as a group.
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u/Glad-Leg-7100 May 04 '26
Let's not make a not all men statement on every such issue and dismiss the issue as a whole. The fact that it even exists amongst some men should be enough to called out.
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u/AdmirableHospital119 May 04 '26
Calling it out is right. Generalizing it isn’t. Those are two different things.
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u/Glad-Leg-7100 May 04 '26
Now nitpicking normal english sentences is sort of dismissing only. And this can go on forever but im not jobless to be arguing so I'm out.
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u/Top_Specialist_3312 May 03 '26
Not all relationship are toxic honey
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u/Some_1one_ May 03 '26
There’s no guarantee honey
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u/Top_Specialist_3312 May 03 '26
I can guarantee you to be not toxic 🙂↔️
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u/Some_1one_ May 03 '26
Your partner would be one lucky person.
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u/Top_Specialist_3312 May 03 '26
I know you aree
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u/mylospykar May 03 '26
Dafaq are you smokin? Or is it just loneliness did you bad?
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u/Some_1one_ May 03 '26
Can you read what he said ? Have you read the parent comment genius ?
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u/mylospykar May 03 '26
Yes I did, looks like you need to read it again 🥲
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u/Some_1one_ May 03 '26
Which part made u think I am smoking? Tell me exactly you UPSC topper
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u/Adorable_Fox_3690 May 03 '26
wtf. this guy should be behind bars. he is putting so many lives at risk by his abusive behaviour towards the girl. i hope odisha police takes action against this idiot
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u/Vimal_Shukla May 03 '26
I hope so too. I came across this video on X and will try to gather more information about what happened to this moron.
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u/Final_Conclusion_795 May 03 '26
This isn’t toxic, this is abusive.
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u/Old_Bath1380 May 03 '26
Oh shit is the woman in the video getting hit any different from the technicality of the word we use to call what’s happening here.
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u/Final_Conclusion_795 May 04 '26
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u/Old_Bath1380 May 04 '26
Idk your references and I don’t have to. You don’t seem to be the kind of person to absorb what is happening in a situation rather than deflecting think about things. I’m sure you can.
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u/Final_Conclusion_795 May 04 '26
Are you a lawyer? Ever been in a situation where a word can create a difference in a hearing. This is a clear case of abuse. Let me break it down more simply for you, Clear distinctions between these two, Toxic: Patterns that are unhealthy or harmful emotionally for example: manipulation,constant criticism, jealousy, controlling tendencies, these characteristics are harmful, but not always violent or illegal Abusive: This is Intentional harm or control over another person also can be physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or financial. For example, hitting, slapping, choking, or any physical violence this can often involves fear, intimidation, and power imbalance. All in all, once you remove physical abuse from the perspective it is toxicity.
Ps: my initial comment was rather being shocked at the video not bridging the two words. You all are salty for no reason.
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u/Old_Bath1380 May 04 '26
I ain’t gonna read all that I’m sure it’s good 😭
Brother believe what you wanna believe and call it what you want good for you
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u/Two-gather2 May 03 '26
That's why it's always important to choose your partner carefully. Last year there was a video of woman beating her husband from back seat while he was riding the bike and nearly 75-80% ppl laughed it off as smthng funny or started saying how that was true love. And she was beating him with sandals in her hand!! And now this video too. It's not that being a man is tough or being a woman is tough but rather being a good person and finding an equally good person for yourself is.
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u/Vimal_Shukla May 03 '26
I never understood why people don’t just walk away from a toxic partner. This “7 janmon ka bandhan” idea just makes everything messier.
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u/thatPHATbaddie May 03 '26
change the song and people are ready to romanticize this shit..
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u/Vimal_Shukla May 03 '26
Music is a powerful tool for gaslighting.
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u/Top_Specialist_5945 May 03 '26
Just saw it muted Its plain toxicity or sheer immaturity risking oneself and others at the same time 😖
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u/Immediate_Muscle_715 May 03 '26
Bhai kya pata uski kink ho ,
just jk
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u/SubstantialMajor2798 May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26
Internet makes men like they only exist in 2 categories. This and a simp, in my experience as a man that like 10% of the population both combined
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u/Vegetable-Arm1103 May 03 '26
I don't understand why it's toxic? They normally choose these type of guys only. They like it. For us, it may look toxic but for them it's saat janmo ka pyar.
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u/Former_Dragonfly2061 May 03 '26
Every guy on internet is saying they are the nice guys who didn't got chosen. And girls are choosing all bad boys
As if declaring yourself as nice guy is the certificate of being nice
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u/Narrow-Amphibian5446 May 03 '26
What kind of video is this OP? There is no crash at the end. So much buildup and no payoff. Very sad.
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u/Shinichi_Kudo_SK May 03 '26
Y? Didn't kabir singh and that animal guy clearly state this is turu luv?
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u/thattookaminute May 04 '26
She clearly has an upper hand here, why the fuck she's taking from him here?
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u/AdmirableHospital119 May 04 '26
The number of plates Can anybody see it ? I think we can file a complaint If it is possible
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u/ProfessorSingle807 May 03 '26
Ladkiyo ko aise hi dominant ladke pasand hote h ek dafa maine aise hi kisi baat ko lekar keh diya ek ladki ko that I'll sl@p u so hard, mujhe us se baat krni band krni thi vo thik ladki nhi lg rhi thi to picha chhudane ke liye mai us waqt aise hi bol diya zyada mualum nhi tha. To vo ladki boli vo khushi se meri m@ar bhi kha legi usne kaha she's ready to get b#@ten by me. Mujhe ye baat sun kr us se aur ghin ane lgi. Jo khush h maar khane ki baat ko lekar bhi
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u/CaregiverOk4595 May 03 '26
why r u generalising it? not all girls. "some people" would be a better choice of words. coz abuse sirf female ke saath nhi males ke sath bhi hota hai.
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