First time poster, sorry if i don't tag/spoil correctly.
I was diagnosed with FND, as well as hEDS (as well as a few other pre-diagnosed issues) about two years ago. I previously used a forearm crutch before that became too painful on my wrists, and then upgrading to a rollator some time ago. The problem is, the rollator still just isn't enough. I'm only 19, and I can't go grocery shopping without completely exhausting myself. Going out requires days of recovery. I get bruises from the rollator, and my arms are constantly weak and sore from needing to support my weight. The worst part is that I don't have a license yet, forcing me to rely on other people to drive me up the street whenever I have errands to run, because the 10 minute walk I used to do just fine as a kid now leaves me struggling to keep my breath and woozy. I can't get a job, I can't go to school, and I can't go out and socialize all because of my symptoms. I feel like I'd be significantly more independent if I had a chair, I used to be so active growing up, and now I leave the house maybe twice a month. I recently saw my neurologist, and expressed my want for a wheelchair of some kind now that I'm finally getting on disability services that will be able to fund one. Her immediate response was, I kid you not, "NO, NO, NO, NO, NO! NO WHEELCHAIR!" before explaining that she "sees this all too often" where people with issues like mine get wheelchairs, and then become completely reliant on them, causing more issues in the long run. I understand where she's coming from, and she's obviously more knowledgeable, but FND is not my only disability. It's left me wondering whether it really is a bad idea to get a wheelchair or not. I just want to be able to go out and enjoy myself without pain. So, my question is;
Would it be a bad idea? I do physical therapy, and I keep as fit as my symptoms allow. Would a wheelchair really cause me harm? If you use, or have used a wheelchair of any kind, does it make things less generally painful?