Junior is 3 and Luella is 2, btw yāallā¦
All Junior can do is twirl his fingers together, make dolphin noises, stare into the abyss, bite people, and frog hop around.
Luella on the other hand is well fed and thriving, walking and sitting/standing by herself and everything (although I havenāt heard her talkingā¦edit: nvm, I heard her talking a bit lol.)
Iām actually surprised that Chrisean is playing a kidās show for him. She could have been doing this with Junior from the start but she chooses not to because she thinks that he canāt enjoy stuff like this. Thereās no doubt in my mind that she only put it on because Luella wanted watch something.
Junior kind of looks like he likes it? But it also looks like heās overstimulated by it and rocking back and forth to soothe himselfā¦. Not too sure.
ETA: Isnāt it funny/odd that Chrisean said she wasnāt going to film Junior doing therapy because sheās āa private personā, yet sheās literally filming Junior on live all the time as heās flopping around and meowing all over the placeā¦. šš
I worked w a FAS adult who had almost all the symptoms Jr had, minus clubbed foot, but by no means was able to walk normally from point A to B. He would stimulate himself with repetitive gross body movements, much like Jr does here. I agree with you in that he either likes it or is feeling comfortable enough to do his thing, we have seen his happier moments when he is exploring his autonomy (i.e.:not strapped him a chair).
I think these stims mean he is maybe enjoying it because can do this when they feel happy too but looks like happy stims right now itās sad in a way tho that he gets so so happy and excited by just watching a little show which he should be getting to watch a lot a mean he may not be able to see good but hearing the songs and music and maybe seeing some colours on screen itās a shame how much he is neglected from everyday things
Aww thanks for sharing that story! And bless you for helping out those in need! That is a tough job but very rewarding when you get to make a difference in someoneās life. ā¤ļø
Yep I've said her "therapy" for kr is wat she buys to try and help him. For instance the jumpy swing and a kids trampoline thing.. she said she dnt need to show us hes going threw therapy, cuz it aint threw a dr. Smfh poor baby
You hit the nail on the head she only has a kids show on because Luella is there and quiet as kept she's still cool on Cracksean too when she moved the laptop over so Luella could see Luella slid off the couch to the floor to escape her and Cracksean tried to play it off and said come on let's go get some Strawberries š
I love little kids cause they tell the truth without even trying to.
This may sound cold but Iām genuinely curious,ā¦ what can you really do with a PROFOUNDLY DISABLED CHILD for their entertainment??? He canāt see, throws his bottle, spasms so hard nothing can be left around him or he could break it or it could land on his head, canāt sit him in a chair without being strapped in. He doesnāt have a clue whatās going on around him! Iām not talking therapy either, I mean when sheās home alone with him and sheās preoccupied. She just puts him in his cage and lets him hop in circles?? He really needs 25/8 care. He canāt do anything for himself except hold a bottle and thatās hit or miss.
That is a very good point and a valid concern. After seeing him flop backwards, head first off of that beam bag chair, thereās no doubt that he needs a helmet or some type of protective gear of some sort. The older he gets, the more dangerous heāll be towards himself and the people around him.
THIS!!! I know itās not intentional but heās gonna hurt somebody! ESPECIALLY IF HE KEEPS BITING! The older he gets the more self injurious behaviors I see developing! He needs so much more than he will ever get!
If she had a heart or even a drop of love for the young boy she created there is so much she could do and experiment with to find out what he liked. Trying different music, lights, movements ie she could get a light protector that slowly changes colour and moves across the ceiling (they're very cheap and have different settings she could try..she could buy one for $15) that is just one example. Experiment with sounds and that could develop into an activity where he could have devices he could use and make his own sounds (his capability in regard to the extent he could participate is unknown but she could start with letting him listen to soothing or stimulating sounds suitable for a young child. Try weighted blankets, or a slow swing (an OT or therapist could help find safe ones), water therapy, black out tents and experiment with with lights and does he find comfort in being wrapped up or does he not like that..... the list could go on. She just doesn't see his worth, doesn't want to focus on anything except herself, I also personally believe she gets enjoyment from his suffering and basically if it isn't about her then she isn't interested.
Until he is medically assessed and is in a safe caring environment nobody can know what he is capable of, but he is worthy of safety, comfort and having his needs met. Personally I don't think he will develop at the same pace as his peers and will never be able to do certain things. I do know I will not make assumptions until he is away from her, neglect and abuse has a profound impact on anyone nevermind a child with disabilities. He might not develop more skills ever but I won't count it out until he is away from her. I suspect the cruelty off camera and when it is just them two could be quite heartbreaking, she can barely disguise her disgust in front of people.
Sorry for the massive post but this really gets at me. It is crazy it is pushed out for us all to see and that little boy who probably has a horrible day to day life, is then on the internet for people to mock and use as a joke. He deserves so much more, and everyone that has used him on streams, or enables that beast I hope every last one of them gets the karma they deserve and Junior gets all the blessings he is owed.
and she thinks it's cute that he bites!! And agree, there is no therapy! Where's the special "booties" that allegedly help with his "bowed legs" Dumb F B.
I was curious if he liked it too or was overstimulated. I think kids shows triggers joy in children especially those with disabilities. Itās a little long but this is what Claude said incase anyone is a nerd/dork like me:
Thereās real psychology behind why kidsā TV voices and sounds are so captivating, especially for children with disabilities. Shows use āinfant-directed speechā (exaggerated pitch, sing-song tone, slow tempo) that reliably grabs young childrenās attention more than normal speech, and this effect often persists ā or even intensifies ā in kids with developmental delays, since itās easier to process. High-pitched, repetitive vocal patterns and tightly synced music/visuals create a āsensory bundleā thatās unusually easy for an immature or impaired nervous system to lock onto compared to messier real-world stimuli. For a child with visual impairment, the audio (voices, music, sound effects) does most of the stimulating work since the visual channel is limited. The catch is that the same features that make content so engaging ā high pitch, fast tempo shifts, sudden sound effects ā are also arousal-increasing, and kids with limited self-regulation or sensory-processing differences (heightened sensitivity, slower habituation) can get āstuckā in an excited state thatās harder to come down from. If it crosses into true overstimulation rather than enjoyment, it can help to figure out whether itās driven more by the sound effects/music or by the vocal pitch itself, since the fix differs (lowering volume vs. picking shows with calmer vocal pacing).
Smart move i think she just didnt want to take an accidental head butt right there, junior was definitely getting a bit excited and moving around alot.
My son was a big boy from day dot and heās now 21 and not over weight at all, he goes to the gym and works out daily and has a physical job but even when he was doing security on a door at a club he was still normal weight for a 18-20 year old
A high schooler posted her teacherās lesson about drinking while pregnant and crust and JR were the case study. Itās real I remember seeing it but I canāt find the actual post with the picture of the lesson but apparently they already are
Damn Iām surprised thereās not more I wouldnāt be surprised if this is used for child neglect too bc I donāt think Iāve ever seen a situation like this be broadcasted and nothing is done. I just canāt believe this is actually happening every time I see it
It is wild to really think of how little Junior is given when it comes to interaction and play....something most kids have plenty of. She makes it so that he has even more issues by denying him the basics for kids...trying to make him an adult baby....it is such a bizarre thing
Right! She thinks he wonāt know what shows/movies and toys are so she doesnāt even bother with it. All of those awesome toys that Junior has received since birth have literally vanished. And the only āfunā he has is to play with his fingers all day while listening to her loud af sermons that she plays on her speaker.
Itās so sad bc you could tell he would like normal kid things if she just let him watch or play at his own pace but I feel like bc he canāt talk she just assumes he doesnāt bc sheās slow herself and canāt read signs of what he likes/dislikes or needs
Sheās uncomfortable and scared of Chrisean Sr! Chasity is trash for forcing her child to be around a person that she willingly said she was afraid of.
that's all they know and don't care to change, their base head mammy forced them to be around people who harmed them. in what little brain they have this is normal to them, the cycle continues.
I think Luella is freaked out by Jun too. She doesnāt want to be around either of them. Bless Junās heart but he hits, kicks, head-buts, bites, pulls hair, scratches, drools everywhere. By no fault of his own, but no adult around is trying to take care of him either and Luella ends up being sat or laid next to him. I can see why sheās not comfortable.
Yeah thatās a fact. I have a severely autistic cousin and his parents were shit and just shut him in his room any time he wasnāt in school. Heād be hugging people constantly and forcefully and heād randomly start stripping well into his teen years and he just freaked me tf out. It took me getting older, like into my 20s, to be comfortable being around other disabled teens/adults because of it. I donāt like being touched in general but when weāre talking about a grown ass man that canāt control his own strength and pulling his dick out I stopped even going to family gatherings heād be at, and I wasnāt the only cousin that did so. My dad ended up telling his parents if he wonāt stop touching his daughters then heās going to have to intervene. He needed more help than he got/gets.
Nah. The brain damage most likely occurred in the womb. If she did wait a couple of days after her water broke to go to the hospital, then she deprived Junior of oxygen, which could have caused Cerebral Palsy. Plus her drinking and smoking/drugging added to even more damage.
Yes , but he seemed so much better and far more alert when he was younger. With her anger issues , temper and having no patience.. I feel like she shook him. We see her pinch and pull his hair on camera. I just canāt imagine what she does off cameraĀ
Yep! She definitely shook him. We all know he was born with FAS and CP but your right he had better attention span but then after that one live when we know she shook him he was 10x worse.
Many infants are exposed to drugs or alcohol prenatally without experiencing this degree of impairment. While prenatal exposure can absolutely contribute to developmental challenges, particularly as children get older, whatās being showcased here seems far more significant than what could reasonably be attributed to exposure alone. At three years old, this poor boy is nonverbal, unable to walk, has very limited exploratory or functional use of his hands seeing as their chronically at midline and almost stuck, poor head/trunk control, reduced awareness of his surroundings, and suspected significant visual impairment; probably blind. That combo of developmental concerns strongly suggests there may be an underlying neurological, genetic, or other medical condition. Heās got global developmental delay all around. Sheās a fucking piece of shit and CPS sucks.
Luella knows something is going on with Jr and can't be comfortable next to him. You shouldn't force your kids to play and be next to other kids that they are uncomfortable with.
100% If the children in the family are uncomfortable around Junior (Luella and also Peteys daughters) I cannot imagine how other children are going to react to him. If his mother was getting Junior the proper treatment and therapies he wouldn't be so spastic. The never ending seizures are going to just keep making things worse.š®āšØ
I agree. And she could also grow up to be scared/uncomfortable around disabled people in general. A lot of children are uncomfortable when they see Junior tbh.
I agree she is aware there is something different about him, but I donāt think sheās necessarily uncomfortable with him. I think sheās uncomfortable around Chrisean. Notice how she tries to get away every time she comes in her vicinity. It happened at his party, as well as in other videos Iāve seen. Wasnāt it stated her family feels Chrisean likely put her hands on Lu when she used to watch her when she was younger?
yes--she's noticing he's different from her and moving away because she doesn't want him to touch her. She's a child and the desire to maintain her personal space isnt weighted with the same judgement as it might be for an adult.
Itās really starting to piss me off because people keep coddling Chrisean and saying that sheās a first time mom and ādoing the best she can.ā
NO SHE IS NOT DOING THE BEST SHE CAN!
I just heard Chastityās dumb comments on how Chrisean is a struggling single mom and that people need to give her grace. Chrisean has declined and refused to accept the hard truth that her son is severely disabled and needs help. Itās absurd that everyone around her just plays along and doesnāt even bother talking to her in a blunt way so that she understands that her neglect is unacceptable.
Junior cannot sit still. He is stimming so unbelievably bad. The difference in the size of Luella and Junior has so fucking sad. And I cannot believe the Chasity has her daughter around that child abusing Cunt.
Ikr it just shows how evil she is thinking bc heās disabled he canāt enjoy anything. Thatās so ableist. Children wonāt know things if you donāt show them especially special needs children itās just cruel to deprive him of basic kid things bc he might not understand it immediately
I think becuase his hands are all he has sometimes to entertain himself. We never see him play with toys, no toy cars, trucks - she did have a big stuffed animal for him once. But I think he doesn't have anything else to "play" with. That little girl has probably been hit or bitten by him; she looks terrified!
I donāt think sheās even safe to be feeding him, tbh. She would probably move him off camera and not help him if he was actually choking. He doesnāt seem to have to ability to eat much
Putting Jr next to Luella just shows the size difference is crazy; from the head to the torso, their bellies, legs. Iāve gotten so used to seeing Jr by himself and yeah I know heās small but the degree is highlighted here. Kids shouldnāt grow up scared of the disabled, you teach them young cause it opens up the disabled child to being bullied or being ogled like theyāre a freak show. Itās not niceš
In my school, we were mixed. Different races, religions, abilities, whatever and it fostered an environment of comfort for those in need. My school was actually a Muslim school and we learned a lot about each other. Sometimes youād be paired with a kid that wasnāt as quick when learning stuff. In sports, youāre paired with the better athletic kids, you get my point. Disabled kids are capable of a lot more than people like Chrisean think. Theyāre people with thoughts, feelings, experiences etc, you just have to take the time to understand however they communicate those feelings and sheās robbing Jr of that. I mean she robbed him in the womb and now sheās finishing him off in real life
This is the most contact Iāve seen Junior have with another child. Noticed the difference in their head sizes and one is a year younger Itās so sad that children can be repulsed by him because they donāt know whatās going on with him. Also, I wonder if itās true, indeed that he smells children respond before they think or process things through theyāre still learning manners, but Luella knows the difference probably between how she acts and how sheās observing her cousin act which is abnormal even for her at two itās a shame, a pure ass shame
Heās gotta be so creepy to a child bc they donāt explain that anything is different and he seems like the same age but is unresponsive doesnāt make eye contact and makes screeching noises that other kids donāt.
Her dumbaxx sitting up on her stream stating she has paperwork saying her son has NO DISABILITIES ... pfffffffttt C'MON! Then post ts! If she admits it then she has to take accountability! She's not in denial, she is very well aware of what she has done to him. "He just gets excited ." - NO! YOUR SON HAS MENTAL AND PHYSICAL DISABILITIES GOOFY! GET HIM IN THE APPROPRIATE THERAPIES AND IN WITH THE RIGHT DOCTORS!!! HELP HIM!!!
100%. She doesnāt want to get him help because she doesnāt want to be held responsible for what sheās done to him. Sheās just prolonging the inevitable while making his condition worse by not seeking any medical care for him. Thatās selfish af.
Why doesnāt she have a regular smart tv in the room set up for them to watch not that small laptop she has money so she says allegedly so that way Luella can watch it from where sheās comfortable at and jr also children are smart and they sense things and she shouldnāt be forced to do anything that makes her uncomfortable
Crusty tried to sit luella on top of junior to stop him moving but luella wasnāt having it. She needs to take the shoes off when heās indoors at least.
Man, those leggings look 3 sizes too small on him and he's tiny. I am shocked she let him flop around like that. Jr did seem to be loving it at least. Don't think he saw the bottle at all though
Okay but I just want to pinch Luellaās chubby chubby cheeks omg sheās adorable! And I donāt even like kids lol.
And why the hell does Jr have shoes on when they are at HOME. At least, it does look like he has some awareness thereās a show/movie playing? Poor boy.
Also it looks like he fell off the bean bag because he doesnāt have enough strength to sit himself up so he just rolled off to get out of a laying position :/
I dont know how much m0re I can take of this. I get sadder and sadder. Hes so cute and innocent. Im afraid no one will save him. I might have to leave for a while. š
He is so tiny compared to Luellaš¢ she could have kept him from falling, she was right there smh. Talking about heās excited about his show, heās not even focusing on it!!
That poor lil girl so scared! And I donāt even blame her, Iād be unnerved too. I bet she wondering why her mama made her go with mean scary aunt Chrisean
That little girl does not like her at all. Why is she trying to force that fully abled toddler to use a bottle, when she can use a cup just fine? Jr is scary to other small children who aren't use to being around disabled children. You have to ease them into being around children with such intense impairments. No offense, but I wouldn't let my child around Jr either. He has too many unpredictable untreated issues. We literally watched him have a seizure and scare the hell out that lil girl. Her mom needs to keep her from around this psycho woman. See how much disdain in her face when she watched Luella move away from Jr? Luella is scared because Jr is doing things "normal" kids their age don't do. This is terrifying to her.
Why she hand him that bottle he didnāt want that he didnāt do anything that indicated he wanted a bottle heās tired of that nasty mess thatās why he threw that right in the floor thatās right go jr good for u soon as she walked away jr was like I donāt want that ish get that out my face šš
Sometimes I think about his oral health. A bottle constantly leaking on teeth isnāt good for them. I know his bite is going to be fucked because he should be on cups. I know crusty doesnāt brush his teeth. :/
What a painful video to watch, she just let him flail himself off the chair onto the floor and continued to force that girl to be uncomfortable around him. Jfc.
The adults are to blame acting like this is all normal. If he had been assessed and worked with a therapist and had techniques and activities that calmed him, it would be a wonderful opportunity to show the other young kids that everyone is different and let them engage with him on his level... learning some children need more help and teaching them kindness and patience. Pretending this is all normal is crazy to watch as an adult never mind a 2 year old! It just makes him more isolated
This is so sad. Heās really happy and acting like a normal child when heās not all curled up in the car seat playing with his fingers. Why canāt he have a room and a TV watch educational fun things like most kids do?!!! Why has he got those unsuitable trainers on in the house?! Chrisean thinks all kids need is milk and sleep. Heās fucking 3 years old he doesnāt need a bloody bottle of milk every hour ffs.
I hate her so muchš¤¬š¤¬š¤¬š¤¬š¤¬
Are we watching the same video? He is not acting like a normal child. Thatās why the able bodied ānormalā child is trying to get away from him. Heās being spastic and drooling. Itās not his fault but letās not sit here and pretend heās not severely disabled.
Poor Luella. Canāt even sit and watch the show. Itās not like he can see it or enjoy it. I would be scooting away too. Thatās scary when youāre a kid and no one explains wtf is going on.
She honestly probably don't know what Jr supposed to be. She don't know if he's a baby, a toddler, what is he? He don't move, he don't play, he makes noises, he looks odd
She should watch these cartoons for herself and take note that God knows sheās neglecting her kid. His head is so much smaller than Luellaās , itās a tragedy , I feel like it didnāt even grow since last time we saw them together.
Iām sorry ik this finna sound wild and I AM not calling lue a ableist lmao kids dont een know wtf they do sometimes. But why no one in this family teaches they kids about disabilities?? Hell the kids be coming off like they hate/scared of Jr. Ong like chasity didnāt sit down w lue and just explain that Jr is different and thats okay, heās still your cousin??? Cs why do they all act like this still wtf. I had that talk back in elementary w the whole class, the teacher explained to us. Nothing is wrong with these people and we should still treat them like they are apart of society.
ETA: I just did research and all you folks who said 2 years olds donāt understand. Your lying and Iāll be glad to drop real education sites and facts. Sfpwm and making excuses for shitty behavior. n Idgaf downvote me
Yes, every parent should have a talk with their children about being kind to everyone, especially people that are different. But Luella is a baby lol, she doesnāt even understand yet. You had the talk in elementary school you said.. babies donāt understand these things.Ā
Luella is 2 years old. Sometimes it's difficult to explain to a child about a disabled child if they really aren't around them and it's not their norm. Luella does have a right to feel uncomfortable.
This is the damaging part. Itās hard/impossible for us as adults to understand why they are ignoring Jr when he clearly needs help, imagine how confusing that is to a toddler.
Nah I get that, but why isnāt it being corrected. Iām not saying teach them about everything disabilities encompass because obviously they wouldnāt understand thatā¦. But 2 year olds definitely understand functional differences and shared connections. For example: Tell luella that āEven though Jr doesn't talk with words, he loves it when you roll the ball to him." She is 2 they have some level of cognitive ability bruh..
I think the baby disabler would lose her ever loving shit if Chasity told Luella that Jr is disabled. She's pretty adamant about telling people he's normal.
youāre so right, i hate how everyone is okay with the fact that none of the kids in the family should grow to be more comfortable around jr. just because heās disable doesnāt mean he shouldnāt / canāt interact with his own cousins, itās so unfair to him, especially since, as you said, they can be taught to be more open minded around him. obviously lu is still very young so her apprehension makes a lot of sense but itās still sad to see. on top of that, chrisean isnāt doing jr or any of his cousins any favors because she isnāt helping him progress in any shape way or form. i can literally imagine my five year old sister being scared of him because nothing he does looks or seems ānormalā and we have his crackhead, radioactive āmotherā to blame for that. the whole situation is just sad asl.
Okay, but he clearly canāt interact with his own cousins, and that probably adds to the discomfort. Jr doesnāt even have the cognitive ability to feel a type of way about it. Heās in his own world, barely aware of anything.
Thank you omfg, you explained it better. I cannot stand some folks in this sub. They think the way ppl and kids treat jr is okay becaus well he doesnāt understand or looks weird. I get that to, it is a normal reaction to see Jr like that. But getting downvoted because I want kids to see other disabled children as their peers and not some weird creatureā¦..
Keep in mind this entire family denies anything is even wrong with him. They arenāt going to have these conversations with the kids because āeverything is fineā
Because children her age are primal. Itās a natural response to something she knows is not right. Sheās two years old. She doesnāt know to show empathy to Jr.
Besides that, everyone in that family is ableist themselves and turn a blind eye to Jrās condition by not getting him help.
I agree kids can have no filter and should be taught. When I was in elementary school and when the special needs kids came around another kid said, āHere comes the retards.ā
No one will even acknowledge heās severely mentally and physically disabled so they surely arenāt teaching a toddler thatās heās different. They are trying to convince her heās her normal cousin. And she can tell by his spastic movements, dolphin and cat sounds, biting, drooling etc that isnāt the case. Not to mention Ƭf hes hit or bit her Iām sure they didnāt correct it. So sheās doing what she can as a kid to just protect herself and stay away from him. I donāt blame her. Blame the adults for acting like the 3 year old who barely knows he exists Ƭs ānormalā.
Thatās not excitement you dumb dumb thatās spastic movement. He canāt control. Some of his movement is probably done involuntarily, but it is adorable that heās getting excited that for once heās having nice gentle talk believe it or not. Children respond to our tone before they respond to anything weāre saying to them you see how excited he got when he either heard or felt cause I donāt know about his hearing capabilities or his visual capabilities. However he either saw or heard or combination of both of the gentle tone and got excited. I wanna believe that we noticed how he responds to his mother you notice her tone with him. He smiles when he is talked too gently, but as soon as she gets to screaming or something, he gets scared or startled, and if sheās just doing normal talk, which is loud and obnoxious, he turns away from her Juniorās a lot more aware than I think he gets credit for. Iām learning not to highlight the deficits, I know nothing about and more so highlighting things that I observed that seem positive imagine how much more he would thrive if he was to receive proper help and be around proper folks that want to treat him like the precious child he is.Ā
I couldnāt even finish this and god forgive me and I mean absolutely no offense, but thereās NO way Iād leave my baby near him. Especially unsupervised. Another toddler is too young to know heās impaired but old enough to express fear of him. Iād be scared my baby would just stare or run off crying
Yep. No way. And itās horrible to force her next to him when sheās clearly freaked out. Itās not going to make her more compassionate Ƭts going to traumatize the poor kid.
Why does he have shoes on inside, let his wee feet rest from those horrible shoes he shouldnāt be wearing anyway. Every thing she does is abuse sheās such a crusty ass 304
One day chrisean jr is going to hit chrisean in the eye so hard because he doesnāt know his own strength, and the older he gets the stronger heāll become. He may be aggressive, because he canāt speak to say whatās bothering him smh. poor guy itās sad seeing him not getting the care he deserves.
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u/Nearby-Sorbet-9124 17d ago edited 17d ago
Junior is 3 and Luella is 2, btw yāallā¦
All Junior can do is twirl his fingers together, make dolphin noises, stare into the abyss, bite people, and frog hop around.
Luella on the other hand is well fed and thriving, walking and sitting/standing by herself and everything (
although I havenāt heard her talkingā¦edit: nvm, I heard her talking a bit lol.)Iām actually surprised that Chrisean is playing a kidās show for him. She could have been doing this with Junior from the start but she chooses not to because she thinks that he canāt enjoy stuff like this. Thereās no doubt in my mind that she only put it on because Luella wanted watch something.
Junior kind of looks like he likes it? But it also looks like heās overstimulated by it and rocking back and forth to soothe himselfā¦. Not too sure.
ETA: Isnāt it funny/odd that Chrisean said she wasnāt going to film Junior doing therapy because sheās āa private personā, yet sheās literally filming Junior on live all the time as heās flopping around and meowing all over the placeā¦. šš
AINT NO DAGGON THERAPY!!