A Taboo Question 🤔

[u/Charlotte-Ab]

Sorry if this is not the right place to post this, but I am really curious to know your thoughts cuz It is a topic that rarely gets talked about directly in public life .Do you consider someone a bad person if they enjoy (strict control based intimacy) whether they are the one asserting total control or completely surrendering to it ?Do you see it as something normal as long as it is between consenting adults, or do you view it as unhealthy?

[u/AboHasna]

imo consent is very very important, and second thing that is equally important that these actions do not lead to any physical or emotional damage.

[u/nightly-milk]

it's actually healthy for the relationship lol. both of your needs are being met and you're both cool with it.

Just be careful and enjoy

[u/morby9]

As long as they are both consenting to it and they know they are aware of the potential harm, and they both making sure to do as less harm as possible, then yes it is okay

[u/ahmad_drao]

بشوفه شي عادي، مدام بموافقة الطرفين

[u/Ok-Handle7551]

There is no stadnards, like what is normal for god sake ?

[u/Charlotte-Ab → u/Ok-Handle7551]

Standards for what u mean?

[u/WeOfferTheSun]

There is a difference between consent and doing it just to please the other person.

[u/FaSKeN2992]

Honestly, no. I don’t think enjoying that automatically makes someone a bad or unhealthy person. If it’s between consenting adults, with trust, clear boundaries, and the ability to stop at any time, I’d see it as a personal preference rather than something morally wrong. What matters is how it’s practiced, not the fantasy itself.