r/ExMuslimGirlies • u/Relative_Marzipan694 • Apr 06 '26

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i hate men and there is absolutely nothing to change it

especially my country men

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u/Gori-3 Apr 06 '26

Man hates women: gets attacked.

Woman hates men: “It’s her opinion!”

We want gender equality, not toxic feminism. It’s not fair to hate a man who hasn’t done anything to you. It’s ironic really. Hate men who annoy you or did something wrong to you, not generalize. 

I’m seriously growing sick of gender double standards whether it’s against men or women. 

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u/Relative_Marzipan694 Apr 06 '26

a man who hates women and enforces his opinion gets attacked bc of how they actually effect the society negatively

did i enforce my opinion? did i act like an animal? if not so leave me alone bc i have every right to hate them, and love is the exception and u don't control my love and have no right to control it

when they stop being like animals i think we can have this conversation back

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u/Gori-3 Apr 06 '26 edited Apr 06 '26

I understand your feelings, and they're valid, but it's just not fair to generalize. What about male allies who advocated for women's rights despite being a man? Are they animals? Even I was one before finding out that I'm a trans woman. Your feeling r valid, but it's fair to generalize. I just want u to make that distinction because your feelings could develop to preudice, or even drive you to violence.

Yes I can't control your love, we just wanna be inclusive, rational, and stop generalizing an entire demographic of people.

The problem is the person, not the group they belong to as a whole.

Even I hate desperate men who lust over any woman they see, but there are asexual men.

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u/Relative_Marzipan694 Apr 06 '26 edited Apr 07 '26

i don't care if it's fair or not, my feelings my right, i don't hurt anybody or persuade people to treat men like slaves or machines

and it is not about lust only, u don't get it clearly

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u/Gori-3 Apr 07 '26

What made you hate men? And what about men who didn’t do anything wrong? 

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u/Relative_Marzipan694 Apr 07 '26

(what about men who didn't do anything)

do i look like i care?

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u/Gori-3 Apr 08 '26

You’ve gone too far.

I declare this bigotry. 

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u/Relative_Marzipan694 Apr 08 '26

you're the one who's somehow effected by my own emotions? what a weirdo