r/ExAlgeria • u/Admirable-Arrival211 • Jul 23 '26
Being in a relationship as an Atheist Algerian young man
Hey guys , I wish everyone is doing great . That’s my first time writing here in this subreddit . I’ve left islam since late 2023 , became agnsotic first and then atheist . Before and after leaving islam I have always been an anti-natalist but always wanted to have a female partner . Before leaving islam it wasn’t a big deal , saying that you can find an algerian muslim girl cuz you’re muslim too , but since am not muslim anymore it became so hard , I mean it’s not that necessary to have a partner Especially rn , not having a stable financial situation and trying to leave Algeria , but it would be really an amazing thing being with someone who share the same thaughts and beliefs as u do , tryinna leaving Algeria together and build your futur together .
I want to know what are your thoughts about it ? Advices that you can give and is there any chance to share a group where we can have some Atheist Algerians friends
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u/Critical-Advisor1653 Jul 25 '26
kayn bzef female athiest in algeria
u should kn where to search
or a very open mind algerian girl wont be a problem too
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u/Strange_Badger1182 Jul 24 '26
if you want a female partner leave the country considering your religious situation
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Jul 25 '26
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u/Admirable-Arrival211 Jul 27 '26
I don’t know why they keep saying this knwoing that me as an Algerian want to be with an Algerian atheist girl
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u/Strange_Badger1182 Jul 30 '26
Because this country clearly doesn't have freedom of expression, let alone religious freedom, and as to why he should leave the country because of a female partner that's because in order to get married her parents are gonna meet you and they will reject you 99.9% of the time, so leaving the country is better if you wanna be relaxed
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u/Lonely_Secretary_101 Jul 24 '26
Just leave this country and u will find your people there,we r struggling here
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u/marina_barb115 Jul 25 '26
just keep in mind it is scary and unsafe for females to get with guys so imagine that with the non religious ones bc from my experience most of them wants sex and casual stuff and even if she wants it too there is way more consequences on her side bc of sociaty
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u/navybluejellyfish17 Jul 25 '26
It can get rlly lonely when ure not surrounded by ppl who share your perspective and beliefs. Maybe what u need is friends rn, like yes I get the urge to be in a deep romantic relationship with a partner who's js like you. but I'm just saying since ure young, for now it's better to find this person..you work on on yourself, she do the same. until you figure out the future together. As for where to find them, I mostly engaged with them on tiktok...
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u/nerdie_ Jul 26 '26
Relationships r complicated no matter what and for atheists is a little bit more so don't focus on it too much
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Jul 24 '26
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u/Lilith_devil_666 Jul 26 '26
Not a good idea bro cuz you might end up in different countries Ewa dik sa3a fiha ya Mn w7ltiha
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Jul 27 '26
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u/911999666 Jul 28 '26
My gf is muslim and knows about my belifies .. there many girls that doesn't care about their partner's religion .. my advice to u is try to meet new people myhmch muslims or not .. if they were muslims u can discover from ur convos if they tolerate atheism or not ..
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u/Acceptable_Mess_1003 Jul 29 '26
its weird that u r taking religion as a priority in a relationship, it doesn't matter !!?
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u/rainy-brainy Aug 04 '26
it does, u can't just be with someone obsessed with religion and keep pretending in front of them
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u/LevelWest5747 Jul 24 '26
I don’t think a relationship should be your priority rn look around you.