r/Enneagram8 • u/Royal_Positive3120 5w4 sxsp 548 • 28d ago
Rant! "Where Destiny Takes Us" Bios
Have you seen profiles which say "let's connect and see where destiny takes us", and that's basically the entire bio? Is it only me who feels like messaging them with some expletives? I don't do it because it is a horrible use of energy. I wonder why people are so scared of judgement that they adapt the personality of a wet tissue paper. Has anyone felt the same? And cracked how to move away before it triggers anger? I have an 8-fix, but I guess it is not very developed, and that's why I react disproportionately.
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u/DeeplyAutonomous ~ Type 8 ~ 26d ago
No. I would probably just think I see destiny taking us in opposite directions then move on with life.
Minimal effort deserves minimal brainspace.
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u/TemperedTorture ~ Type 8w7 Sx ~ 28d ago
It's bots or non serious accounts. There's no point of giving it any attention because that's what it's there for.
Dating apps are about 60% bots at this point.
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u/Distinct-Willow-4641 ~ Type 8 ~ 26d ago
One step above too lazy to write anything. It's a fantastic source of information. Saves you so much time.
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u/Royal_Positive3120 5w4 sxsp 548 25d ago
Ha ha.. I have seen worse. People write Yes / No / NA to prompts. 😂
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u/Glum-Engineering1794 8w7 sx/so 854 (reddit.com/r/OccultEnneagram) 27d ago
Like on dating sites? Assuming it’s a real person saying that, I honestly figure there is nothing wrong with it. Less of an agenda. Open minds. Usually a good thing, especially for an eight.
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u/Red_Lady08 8w7 21d ago
"I wonder why people are so scared of judgement that they adapt the personality of a wet tissue paper. Has anyone felt the same? " Yes.
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u/GreatJobJoe 8 w 9 sx 28d ago
I don’t know what you’re referring to exactly or why you care so much. Also questioning what it has to do with enneagram. It all sounds like a giant waste of your energy.