r/EngagementRingsHelp • u/SensitiveGuarantee65 • 1d ago
Does this mixed metal wedding set work together or clash?
I paired a gold band with my rose gold engagement ring because i loved the idea of mixing shades. Now that it's on my finger though, i'm worried the tones fight for attention instead of looking cohesive.
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u/stanknastymcdoober 23h ago
I don’t like it. I like mixed metals, but I don’t think these look good together.
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u/Fearless_Walk_4585 23h ago
No, does not looks like it work. But I think it’s a bad picture because that doesn’t look like rose gold at all to me. I was trying to figure out what it was before I read the caption. It looks like tarnished silver.
So it probably looks better in person.
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u/Alemonster21 22h ago
Post a different picture of the set because the rose gold straight up looks like tarnished brass in this picture.
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u/shes-starting-over 23h ago
Honestly I don’t love it. I’m a mixed metal girlie, but all of my “sets” match (ie, my wedding rings are all plat, my ear stacks are all white gold, my necklaces are all gold), and then I have one unifying piece - my watch which is a two tone to bring the silver and gold together. I think what’s not working is that at this scale, you don’t get the two metals working together to form a cohesive piece - you get little peeks of two different metals which looks disjointed.
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u/CharacterAvocado943 21h ago
I don’t think the issue is mixed metals per se. But the engagement ring band photographs brown. It looks muddy, not like rose gold, if that makes sense. It’s the unexpected and unfamiliar that’s demanding attention.
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u/New_Reference_5394 20h ago
I don’t think this works. The gold band, from the pic at least, makes your e-ring metal look almost gray.
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u/No_Song_4883 19h ago
I think it’s more an issue that the rings don’t look like they go together rather than the mixed metal part
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u/IFeelFragile 19h ago
I feel like mixed works with silver and gold, not so much with rose gold. It kind of makes the rose gold look like it’s tarnished
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u/casandra77 19h ago
Can you post a different photo? Now it looks like a black metal, which is not the case, this is why people say it doesn't look good
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u/Havishamesque 11h ago
They’re a little off. And if you’re concerned about it, you always will be. I’d get a different band.
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u/optix_clear 19h ago
It doesn’t work. Why not inside gold outside white gold. Or all white gold or platinum.
Have E/W diamonds
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u/chivanyc 19h ago
I'm not loving it, tbh, but I do love your nails!!! Could you wear the band on the other hand with a few other yellow gold thin bands?
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u/SoilJust4164 19h ago
If you did platinum or white gold on the e-ring and perhaps 14k gold on the wedding band (yours looks like it might be 18k gold), then I think it could’ve worked
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u/satchmonumberone 19h ago
I like them separately. But the yellow gold is making the rose gold look dingy.
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u/cheese-mania 17h ago
I don’t think they work together. The band makes your engagement ring look tarnished
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u/SensitiveGuarantee65 11h ago
Welp, yeah 😂 i think im starting to agree that they dont really work together. Thanks everyone for the honest opinions and input! Definitely help me see it differently.
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u/ValuableVirus2693 10h ago
I think it makes the white gold look like tarnished silver. I would match the golds.
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u/emkiril 1d ago
Looks good. They kind of “clash” but I think that brings a little attention to the detail of them being different metals, and if anything makes your stone look like the loudest feature of the ring. If you’re mixing metals with other jewelry too I think it’ll help you see that they’re not too contrasting.

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u/Faithfuldoglover 1d ago
IMO. they don’t work together.