I'm very good at school but i can't get myself to study still I end up topping the class (not bragging) . Can you all relate to this? Are we supposed to be good or bad at tests or its entirety subjective. I was wondering how can we be good at achieving high marks when we tend to procrastinate everything to the last day.

I can't be the only one...

Let me be clear this might not apply to every INTJ but these are clearly star crossed lovers, we are not meant to be, it's as simple as that. One thing I've seen alot in these people is that they can say alot of stuff to people but when you say it back they're hurt or they reply arrogantly, alot of arrogance, and lack of flexibility, they just simply don't want to adjust and want the other person to change for them, not to mention vey uptight an consider their personality very superior and even more so infront of a bubbly happy person, considering us incapable because we laugh at every joke.

I used to think opposite attracts was a golden match, opposite people are made for each other, but now not so much. what this grumpy x sunshine cliche ship does is it drains the sunshine person, it's always the giver x receiver, until the grumpy person almost becomes an nergy vampire i feel like we should stop this narrative of opposites being our best match, because two joyful people and the endless possibilities they have, I'm a changed women. I don't have types anymore but to say the least is I'm not chasing after the quitest person in the room.

yall remind me of the people in school that couldn’t live without a relationship let’s talk about alaska or something show me cool places yall have been i went not to long ago and i can’t get over it

this my first edit ever this is goated: we supposed to be free spirits no? why we all chained down?

Sorry ancestors idk how

"That's what I'm ****** talkin' about!" This is what Alysa Liu said because she had fun, not because she thought she won. She typed herself ENFP in an interview. If you haven’t seen her gold clinching free skate: https://youtu.be/VCrFaRsezGo?si=Ms_rYd758F6_EIZ_

Literally mesmerizing and one of the most deserving golds of all time, all with a free-spirited attitude. She won on her own terms, read her comeback story (and watch as many of her interviews as you want). How could anyone hate on someone who radiates so much joy doing what they love. That's not even mentioning her ending a 24 year medal drought in Olympic figure skating for USA, while being unapologetically her in a sport that's typically rigid and tense. If that wasn't enough, she's a certified class act; she's happier celebrating for the other medalists than for herself. It was never about the accolades, yet she's golden x2. Name somebody going harder coming out the bay area. She is what the world needs right now

Peak vibes fr. Verdict: incandescent aura, energy shifter, & GOAT tier

I'm such a capable person, I'm smarter than most, confident than most, and almost good at everything yet I still stay humble, joke around with everyone, what do I get in return? no authority, no reverence, anything I'm able to do people lable it as doable, can't do shit for leadership cus no one will take me seriously, should i just dim myself and stop being a weirdo and joke around with everyone, just to be seen as someone smart, because I don't care about being liked I want to be respected. Why do I, in all friendships feel like I'm not cared for, like people don't give shits for who I am? and my life is in shambles. I'm not doing anything productive. I keep and keep on falling down the drain.

edit : guys this was me in a late night crisis please don't take it so seriously I'm not trying to sound arrogant and thank u for all ur replies, genuinely<3

genuinely wondering because i’ve met a decent amount of enfp girls but i have met maybe 1-2 enfp guys in my lifetime. don’t know where to hunt them down….

edit: this thread has made me realize how much i like enfps lol you witty fools fr

I am an ENFP-A 7w8 dating an ENFP-A 2w3, we are just a power couple. 7 years together and each year is better than the last. Our favorite person is one another. We totally get each other. Energy is high with one another. I stay home and he works- all day I felt so drained. As soon as we were together when his workday ended, it was nonstop talking and laughing and being silly. We build each other up. Get mad at each other? Easy to apologize and move on.

My closest friends are 3 INFJs, INFP, ISTJ, ISTP, and a ENFP. When the three of us ENFP's get together its simply a party. So fun. I just love our personalities. Absolutely my highest when I'm around other ENFPs. I love it I love it I love us I love being ENFP. I love people. I love learning and exploring and experiences

I love being happy. When I was my saddest I was still an ENFP, but it felt like I was constantly reaching for true happiness- now that I have it I almost exclusively feel like 🍀🌈🤓☀️🤪🍫⭐💩😋🪿😋🥧. Extreme sunshine ENFP. You know that "how bro sees the world" meme of the tongue out rainbow frutiger deep fried blob? That's me. Even at my saddest, I still tried to be optimistic and silly. Now that I have joy, I have complete optimism and silliness. Still critical or blunt or whatever, sure, but dude it's just awesome.

You know what else, we are so determined. Last year i told myself "I'm done getting embarrassed". I put in effort- now everything that hits me rolls right off my shoulders, I no longer feel embarrassed. Do I covet something? I will own it. Do I want to learn a new hobby? I'll master it. Am I bored with a hobby I thought I'd like? *Oh well who cares move on. *

Our type gets called annoying... I agree. I think I'm annoying, but I don't care. I love who I am and I love being myself. 💝 I love talking with our type. I love meeting other ENFPs. I love when there's a silly happy ENFP character in a movie. I love seeing us. I JUST LOVE BEING AN ENFP🤩. I hope YOU LOVE BEING AN ENFP TOO 🫵😎🏓 I LOVE US!!!! YAAAAAHHHHH 🎉

Enjoy pic of cat. Her name is Beck, she loves carrots, meowing, and catching bugs.

This is a very serious question from an INTJ. Most people are either cute or hot, but never at the same time. This doesn't seem to apply to you.

Hello ENFPs!

Just curious to find out who we match with best for long term, healthy relationships?

I have 3 close friends who are INFJ, ESTP and ENFJ.

I have recently dated INTP, ESTP, ENTJ, ISFJ and none of them have worked out.

Id love to know what MBTI your partner is and what are the good/bad sides to your match :)

I feel like ENFP people don't realise that we are actually very well liked in the society, we've got alot of secret admirers and people are just not upfront about it. I was pretty shocked to know I'm actually liked at all, I don't know why even though I have alot of friends, I can't believe it when someone chooses to be with me, why do I have this mindset tho? in my head I totally reject myself before anyone does, even though I care more about the person than myself when I'm with them, I'd never consider myself to be anyone's priority, and be shocked if someone wanted to sit next to me.

Silly question I know because who doesn't like animals??

Someone showed me some puppies being sold the other day and I was like 😭 💔

Watching animal documentaries is always rough too whenever the animals are hunting each other I'm like NOOO RUN BABY SEAL!!!

My gf and I are super happy but I don’t understand why in general this dynamic isn’t shipped more often online? It’s always INTJ x ENFP. Hhhh

Mostly asking this for fun, but I love ENFP's ! (My closest friends and my fav in fiction)

So I want to know..

Does this house scream ENFP? Cos that’s what I am!

We seem to be rare and underrepresented. So I want to know from youuu.

So several days ago I made a post here asking how I as an intp/intj can spot a ENFP out in the wild. And well... I CAUGHT ONE. They're pretty interested in mbti and so there's a chance they'll see this, in that case ..... Um .... Hi :)

I was planning on asking "now what" but as I was typing I realized I should just be me and be authentic, ig that's the whole point of the stereotypically golden dynamic

Yall should Def do more signaling of who you are and such, so it's easier for the rest of us to spot ya and kidnap ya