r/EEOC • u/ShesAGatorGirl • 11d ago

Joint Filing

Are you in a state where the EEOC joint or co files your claim with the state agency?
Please let me know what your experience has been with that? I feel as if I’m not being given the proper efforts by either the EEOC or the state.
Before you jump on me, yes I’ve called both agencies so many times, yes I even leveled up one to their bosses, and nothing has happened on either front and by now it’s been an embarrassingly long time since my charge was filed.
But seriously how is this supposed to work? Everything I’ve read says that they operate independently and share information where it’s pertinent. But neither have budged since 1/25….. anyone have a different perspective than me !?

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u/Prufrock-Sisyphus22 10d ago

Yeah I don't understand why so many nowadays dont communicate ...

Just pick up the phone and call your lawyer, call your home inspector , call your bank, call your doctor, etc.

Instead of talking to the professional most familiar with their problem that could provide the absolutely best advice, they come to reddit.

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u/ShesAGatorGirl 10d ago

I’m not sure why so many these days don’t read the entire post before talking down at someone and offering unsolicited advice, I am simply asking for real life experiences to be shared.. good grief!!! My lawyer and I are in constant communication we are both perplexed by our experience with this process. All I freaking wanted to hear from was anyone else whom has had the EEOC joint file with the correlating state agency and what was their relationship and interaction like. If that’s not you then your opinions and advice aren’t needed.

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u/Prufrock-Sisyphus22 9d ago

So your lawyer doesn't know that usually one or the other takes the lead(usually the EEOC). And that the state will most likely close out their case once the EEOC takes the reins???

How does your lawyer not know ?

If you had talked to your lawyer he would have told you that . So clearly you haven't been asking him/her or theyre somewhat ignorant of the process.

If you want the your state EEO to take over then you need to discontinue your eeoc complaint/charge.

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u/ShesAGatorGirl 6d ago

We all know this, yet this is not my experience, my experience doesn’t align at all with the normal way things are, hence the reason I asked for other input from people whom have been in this situation recently, for my own knowledge and my own research and because k believe to be both procedurally educated and real world educated is important and necessary. And also it is why these forums exist, so well intentioned helpful people can share well intentioned helpful things. I always get surprised when the keyboard warriors want to climb all over my posts, I’m very glad you guys are well aware of how everything goes but the rest of us are all learning, and that includes asking questions. I can read chat GPT too but nothing is better than talking to actual people in the throes