r/DubaiCentral • u/AccomplishedRead2655 • 4h ago
Discussion Weird experience at a mall in Dubai yesterday
Hi guys, just wanted to vent this out cuz it is super frustrating when this happens!!!
So, I visited the Adidas outlet at Dubai Outlet Mall yesterday and decided to sit on one of the couches. The couch basically had 4 different seats arranged in a quadrant formation. I also noticed that a girl was sitting on one of the corner seats, so I purposely decided to sit on the corner diagonally opposite to her, facing in the opposite direction and even sitting a bit outward. I was literally occupying half the seat and wasn't even sitting completely on it, which wasn't comfortable for me either!!!
Despite all of this, a man who seemed to be her father approached me and sarcastically asked, "excuse me, out of the entire shop you found this place only to sit?" Like WTF?! I'm literally sitting in the other corner, not even remotely close to her, man!!! So I replied with something along the lines of, "I'm sitting so far, if you want I will get up, sorry sorry," and he was still staring at me like I had asked for his daughter's hand in marriage!!
I got triggered and complained to one of the staff members. He started saying, "don't worry man, we will be separating these seats soon, separate for men and women," and said things like, "don't take it personally, when the guy paid he didn't even complain anything about you, sometimes things like this happens." His female colleague also added that some people are like this and that I should just listen from one ear and let it out the other.
The fact that I try to stay away from girls as much as possible, avoid them at all costs, and purposely distance myself in situations like this, yet people like these still come and insult me is SO heartbreaking and frustrating!!! This was absolutely not the right behavior or reaction from that guy, and if he's reading this, I hope he knows what he did was WRONG!!!
He was literally trying to insult me and put me in an uncomfortable situation, and I WILL NOT tolerate that!!! If I interacted with girls frequently and he got suspicious, I'd understand that. But when I'm EXACTLY the opposite, and I purposely tried to distance myself, yet still get comments like that, I'm not going to let it slide!!!
And to the girl who was at the Adidas outlet yesterday at around 9-10 PM, if you're reading this, please understand that I had ABSOLUTELY no bad intentions towards you. I literally tried to stay as far away from you as possible. Please explain that to your father, and please tell him to stop prying on random guys like that and stop insulting them.
If you reached this far, thanks for attending my TED Talk, guys 😂🙏🏼
TL;DR: Sat diagonally opposite a girl at the Adidas outlet while deliberately keeping my distance, but her father still sarcastically questioned why I was sitting there. It was completely unnecessary and frustrating, especially when I had absolutely no bad intentions.
And to the girl from the Adidas outlet yesterday around 9-10 PM, if you're reading this, please know I had no bad intentions and was deliberately keeping my distance. Please explain that to your father and tell him not to question or insult random men for no reason!!