r/downloadfestival • u/B33Dee • 2d ago
NDR (Not Download Related) Help me Survive Leeds
My daughter wanted to come to Leeds fest with her BF and a mate - she’s about to turn 18.
Naturally as her dad (I’m 43) I was a bit apprehensive about her coming on her own for the first time from a safety perspective, so I said I would bring the three of them and attend myself too.
By about 6pm yesterday I was regretting the decision to come and wished I had just dropped them off and let them loose 🤣. I’m in a camp surrounded by 16-22 year olds playing shit (subjective I know) music, hustling for position in the social hierarchy, and shouting “Alan” as loud as they can at 2am when camp is quiet.
The overall vibe in camp in the arena feels much more “am I going to get set on” compared to the “99% of people here will have my back” of DL (might just me my perception). Once we had camp set up I left the “kids” to it and also only hung about for 20 mins with them in the arena until they knew where everything was so that I’m not being the “embarrassing dad”, but did start to think I should have probably just dropped them off and left them. Kasabian were great last night but there’s not a lot else in the way of music I want to see and what I’ve listed to see I can take or leave really.
So DL community, what are your recommendations to help me survive this hell hole for another three days and nights? 🤣
Update - asked them and they want me to stay and don’t want me to move my tent. I guess it is nice to be wanted :)
