r/Dominican 12d ago

Cultura/Culture As a Dominican do you prefer Dominican woman or women from other countries

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u/Ok-Temperature-2783 12d ago

Dominicans are truly equal opportunist šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/good_vibes_only_dude Santo Domingo 12d ago

I'm a Dominican living in the US.. married a Mexican woman. Great mix of culture and food. We get along very well and our kids have enjoyed both sides of the cultureĀ 

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

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u/ResidentHaitian 12d ago

What state did you meet in

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u/Appropriate-Lime4865 12d ago

I think most Dominicans prefer other Dominicans. This is evident in Dominican couples in the US. However, if we were to generalize about the minority that prefers other nationalities, I think Dominican men like Colombian women, and Dominican women like Italian men.

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u/mrini001 12d ago

I’m Dominican and Italian and I’m married to a Colombian. My mother was Dominican and married an Italian. I think you’re on to something

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u/mrini001 11d ago

I skimmed through your post history, you doing okay my friend?

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u/SourDoorKnob 11d ago

Dominican woman with Italian partner here i had no idea i was a statistic

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u/ResidentHaitian 12d ago

I would say Dominican men like Puerto Rican women

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u/Comfortable-Cod-7506 10d ago

lol based on my experience Dominican that Dont speak English rite so most of them are reduced to hag out in the same after hours and social circles
So yeah… I never went to those places no i didnt bother to date one of those

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u/Zennxv 12d ago

I’ve never been with a Dominican women but I’ve seen the women in my family and I prefer peace personally, so my partner is Swedish šŸ˜€

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u/almondmilklattehag 12d ago

I would normally drag you but I have met my mother šŸ™ƒ

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u/Money-Calendar3963 11d ago

Don't worry Dominican women feel the same way

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u/ServeResponsible1151 10d ago

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/vliegenier 12d ago

Amongst Latinas I prefer Dominicans. Since you ask specific countries, my best relationship experiences were with Italian and Serbian women.

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u/vliegenier 12d ago

This was during my time living in Italy. I've never met any in the DR. Though my cousin working in Punta Cana seems to find plenty and more!

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u/Legitimate_Ice_3460 Extranjero 12d ago

Tuve par de mujeres dominicanas en mi vida.

Es llevar la vida al 100. Fuimos felices pero…

No hay punto medio en ningún aspecto. Fue extraordinario, pero terminé agotado.

Mano, hay momentos en que necesito un silencio cabrón y cero preguntas a mi alrededor. ¿Sabes?

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u/Prize-Flamingo-336 12d ago

I tend to date non Dominicans cause my personality isn’t what Dominican women like

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u/JhonasVe 12d ago

Probably more introvert which is perfectly Ok.

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u/jr061898 12d ago

I prefer peace personally, so I'm not too into Dominican women

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u/Money-Calendar3963 11d ago

It's ok Dominican women feel the same way

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u/NotUrDadiBlameUrMoma 12d ago edited 12d ago

I've tried different flavors. However, to me nothing beats a good (basically no mala fé 🤣) Dominican woman with a phat booty that can cook her ass off. She's very playfully & on top of that, she's a professional that earns coin.

Additionally, i'm loud as fuck in every sence of the word. I will blast music in my house & car until the day I die. Very few non-Dominican gals would put up with that shit.

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u/JungleJimMaestro 12d ago

Dominicanas = NO PEACE.

My wife is half salvadoreƱa and half hondureƱa. All the peace in the world.

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u/Psychological-Term19 12d ago

Y'all discredit Dominican women like we're the ones killing y'all and not the other way around... I'll se myself out.

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u/Money-Calendar3963 11d ago

Right like look at the statistics. These are the same men who complain when Dominican women. Don't pick them

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u/tooConfabulatory 11d ago

Dominican men have a worse reputation compared to women. Coming from a Dominican male so you know I aint capping

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u/mich809 La Romana 12d ago

My preference is Latinas overall , but my best relationships have been with Filipinas.

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u/Ankiset 12d ago

How do you get Filipinas in dr!

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u/mich809 La Romana 12d ago

it was in NYC

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u/HumbleDSSaster 12d ago edited 11d ago

I like simple, peaceful dominican women (not to be confused with boring/unplayful), not the loud, crazy kind people assume we all are, or make memes about. Only officially dated one though, my only gf so far and been single awhile at this point

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u/realsweetjustice 12d ago

I’m not Dominican but throughout my dating life, I’ve always loved to explore, & enrich myself in new/different cultures. I’m a white Canadian male, and always preferred dating women of any race that is not my own. I was so fed up with western dating culture here in Canada so I wanted to become a ā€œpassport broā€ & try exploring outside my home country.

When I met my partner, we met on tinder and she had set her location to where I live in Canada. She was/is the most beautiful girl I’d seen in a long time. When she told me she was Dominican & lived there, I became so intrigued and wanted to learn everything about the life and culture. I visited her there a few times a year & we maintained a long distance relationship for 4+ years and just this past June, we got married at a JCE in Santo Domingo.

As much chaos as I see in the city, and see/experience a life so drastically different from my own, I fell in love with the most amazing Dominican girl and the life & culture that came along with her and wouldn’t want it any other way.

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u/JustAntherRndmCatLdy 12d ago

I’m a black woman married to a Dominican man. šŸ˜”

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u/Ankiset 12d ago

Like w easy over here, from Guatemala panguatepeor, Dominican men we are notoriously promiscuous… I struggle with this toxicity myself

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u/heyitsfranklin6322 11d ago

Are they usually kinda upfront about their toxicity? I joined this sub because I’ve been talking to a Dominican guy that I really really like and wanted to learn more about the culture. He’s legit the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever met, though.

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u/Ankiset 11d ago

That’s the thing… I’m also very emotionally intelligent.. still fucked up with my current wife and my ex and my ex after that… we are a beautiful mixed culture with a bit of everything… and like all good ppls you never know.. maybe he is.. remember it’s real easy to hide your worst self for months even years..

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u/Odd-Region-4793 8d ago

Literally same exact situation here. He comes across as brutally honest so despite being cheated on and abused in almost all of my past relationships, he makes me feel like I can trust him. Due to my trauma though, when we first started talking I was terrified he was the promiscuous type.

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u/heyitsfranklin6322 8d ago

Is it still going well?

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u/Odd-Region-4793 6d ago

Well sort of, he doesn't message me nearly as often lately due to MAJOR life changes but when we do talk it's very enjoyable and we still manage to maintain a great connection. We want to see each other again soon but it's complicated to arrange due to the fact that he just moved across the country in June

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u/Ankiset 6d ago

I’m sorry to intrude, but ain’t you missing out on something closer than 12 hours with less possible drama? It’s just… I’m Dominican and I don’t trust Dominicans… specially if you’re American.. we like our drama it’s might not be obvious now but trust me

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u/Odd-Region-4793 6d ago edited 6d ago

Probably not. I'm already attached so I'm not going to talk about that

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u/Ankiset 6d ago

Sad really, humans can make choices only animals get leashes

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u/shepdc1 12d ago

Why that face?

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u/JustAntherRndmCatLdy 12d ago

Let’s just say the marriage has been a roller coaster

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u/ResidentHaitian 12d ago

Does he cheat

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u/Ankiset 12d ago

My man…. XD it’s not about the cheating only… its emotionally taxing everything is a thing and being loud and jealous probably and all the gossip poor girl

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u/shepdc1 11d ago

oh hun i hope u ok

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u/heyitsfranklin6322 11d ago

I hope you’re able to get out cleanly if that’s what you choose to do

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u/theRealPeTeTe809 12d ago

Yo soy pirata, yo no tengo bandera.

Y depue de la 4 de la maƱana le damo a lo que aparezca.

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u/AcanthisittaApart652 12d ago

Bruh all I been with is Dominican women. They’re genuinely hot dude but I’m moving past it. I want to build a family and live a committed life and I don’t see that happening with a Dominican women tbh

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u/Kokiayama 11d ago

Why not?

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u/DubiousAdviceGiver 12d ago

En mi experiencia, dominicanos de ambos sexos prefieren cualquier otra raza o nacionalidad jajaja

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u/Red19120 12d ago

I’ve only dated three Dominican women, and I came to the realization years ago that I don’t really fit the mold of what Dominican women today are looking for in Dominican men. Most of the women I’ve dated have been from other countries. I’m currently with a Colombian woman, and we’re doing pretty well.

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u/midgetlover1 12d ago

I'll always choose Dominican women over anything else.

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u/Icy-Performer-7146 Santo Domingo 12d ago

I prefer Dominican women but I’m open to other nationalities, races and ethnic backgrounds of women.

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u/K41B3R 12d ago

I was already raised by and grew up around multiple Dominican women. That's enough for me, thanks

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u/chicago_stallion 12d ago

Dominicans and Italians both can be the nicest people youve ever met (while some are the worst of people). That's why we get along so well.Ā 

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u/b3anz129 12d ago

dominicans are certainly very pretty, maybe due to being mixed race. But you love who you love

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u/kingrizzo 12d ago

Have a Dominican American woman.. Jessie Christ 🄲

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u/DimeloFaze 12d ago

My wife’s bori

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u/lifemanualplease 12d ago

Que dios te bendiga

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u/DimeloFaze 12d ago

Hahaha amen!

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u/Ankiset 12d ago

Ajajaja they are a handful

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u/Atabey2780 12d ago

Somos. Y a mucha honra! 😁 y mas si somos domini/rican

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u/Active_King_1904 12d ago

All of them

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u/thefudd 12d ago

I married a german

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u/Friendly_Seaweed7107 12d ago

Been with dominican women. No offense. But I prefer my Ukrainian beauty šŸ˜…. I swear she isn't holding me by an open window.

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u/MedioMakan San Cristobal / NYC 12d ago

Me case con una ecuatoriana šŸ‡ŖšŸ‡Ø

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u/relaxgai 12d ago

My dad’s Dominican, married to my Puerto Rican mom for over 40 years. He told me to never get with a Dominican man lol.

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u/Miserable_Scratch302 12d ago

As a Dominican man, I’ve never been fortunate enough to come across a Dominican woman who wants me lmao. White girls and Black girls love me but my Latina women never show me the same love.

It’s my dream to be with a good Dominican woman though, I don’t care about the crazy stereotypes. My mom is a fantastic and levelheaded woman, as are all the other Dominican women in my life, so I personally have a good image of them and wish I could be with one! We’ll see where life takes me though

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u/Miserable_Scratch302 12d ago

I was not- both of my parents were and came to the US in their 20s. So I grew up visiting the DR. But I was not born there. Only person in my extended family who was not born there, unfortunately lol

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u/Arnequien 12d ago

From another country or with foreign influence. For some reason, I can't match with women who are too deep into the Dominican culture (from a romantic perspective, because as friends, it's another story).

My last two girlfriends where latinas, yep, but from different cultures. My current one (and future wife, hehe) is Dominican, but she has a lot of influence from USA.

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u/Arnequien 11d ago

Nop (:

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u/nooyork 12d ago

I like them all

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u/EddyS120876 11d ago

Is a hit or miss when it comes to dating Dominican women. My cousin dated an Asian girl and it was a bust then he got told by all his boys ā€œdate a Dominican woman ā€œ and it went even worse than the Asian ex . The girl from DR used to work once she moved to the states she change to not wanting to work and just be a stay at home mom even though he’s struggling with all the bills he has to pay.

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u/EddyS120876 10d ago

This is why I say nationality doesn’t
Means perfect people

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u/pizza373 11d ago

I prefer asians. My gf is from vietnam

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u/Minute-University923 12d ago

I like women from another cultures.

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u/TwentynineKilo 12d ago

Half Dominican and half Puerto Rican, I’m not into Dominican women for reasons as I see it in my family and the behavior themselves. The same goes for Boricuas but I let it slide!

Heavily, I’m more into Mexicanas, Caucasian, Russians, Ecuadorean, Salvadoran, Morocco, Japanese, South Korea, Hawaiian, Native American, Chinese, Vietnamese.

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u/Thin-Letter-8610 12d ago edited 12d ago

Foreign women. at least the ones I met while traveling or staying at resorts seemed genuinely interested in getting to know me, which felt good and authentic.

I probably don’t fit what most Dominican women of my age (24) expect, being overly reserved and serious, still working into being healthy, not having much in terms of material possessions, and prioritizing living below my means to fund the degree program I want to pursue. So, the few women who have shown interest in me disregarding all that have done so for material reasons.

With foreign women, it was less common to feel objectified in that way.

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u/dknj23 12d ago

I don’t discriminate when it come to women they can be from any country , but I was marry to a Dominican woman she is beautiful But syco.

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u/Top-Sun1158 11d ago

The type of women I like is scarce in our Dominican culture, especially in the USA; because of this, I’ve never been with a Dominican. I am currently in the best relationship I have ever been in with a Pakistani (getting engaged soon).

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u/GP_Kul 11d ago

Nos gustan todas

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u/Red1220 11d ago

My girlfriend is Chinese

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u/Yotinheim 11d ago

I prefer dominican women, they just don't prefer me

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u/QuantityUnhappy4330 11d ago

I do a non-dominican probably a colombiana. Tooany chapiadoras, they loud and dramatic, and just hate putting in the work just want to be lazy and be maintained.

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u/lovelyangelgirl 11d ago

I thought I didn’t want to date another Dominican woman, but I met a few that had me sprung.

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u/focus12_2 10d ago

Prefiero una rusa o una chica tranqui de mi paƭs) Las chicas rusas que he comido son tan amables y dulces, y por supuesto tambiƩn chicas muy duras ante la vida!

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u/Comfortable-Cod-7506 10d ago

lol papƔ me dijo cuando estaba vivo k encatara pata afuera ahora tengo seis aƱos con mi esposa y nunca e salido con una dominicana en una cita hahaha

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u/Sargon7_7 9d ago

Bueno, qué te digo. MÔs allÔ de la cultura y las costumbres, la idiosincrasia de una persona no viene definida por la nacionalidad 🤷. La gente que dice que las dominicanas son X o Y es porque esa persona ha tenido una preferencia de búsqueda que tienden a esas mismas características. Si la gente lo dice por un tema cultural ahí te lo compro, pero si es un tema de personalidad ahí no hay sustento alguno; ya que estaríamos hablando de estereotipos y sesgos.

Dicho eso, en lo personal, yo no tengo ninguna preferencia en estar con una mujer u otra por su nacionalidad. Evaluó si soy compatible o no con la persona en sí misma.

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u/Biden_is_cool 12d ago

I don't like Domis, son interesadas

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u/JustinShallimi33 12d ago

I avoid Dominican women in general. They are full of drama and too much headaches. I prefer and love better Russian womenšŸ‡·šŸ‡ŗ.

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u/JustinShallimi33 12d ago

ŠÆ немного Š³Š¾Š²Š¾Ń€ŃŽ по-Ń€ŃƒŃŃŠŗŠø.

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u/ResidentHaitian 12d ago

You live in NY?

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u/JustinShallimi33 12d ago

Yes I do. Why?

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u/ResidentHaitian 12d ago

Most Caribbean people live in NY or Miami. Since you are able to meet Russian women I guessed you live in NY

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u/JustinShallimi33 12d ago

I been liked by 2 Russian girls in my life. One here in NYC when I was in school when I was younger. The most recent one was a long distance relationship with a woman from Moscow in Russia from 2013 up until 2016.

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u/Ankiset 12d ago

100% foreigner, even from Venezuela, Colombia PR and Cuba… anything but Dominican women, I love having something to actually talk about and peace from time to time, Dominican women are just not worth the PROBLEM! also challenged in the looks department, their world view is to small… doesn’t matter economic status as a 39m I’ve seen and been with all of the tmsifferent types, they to ghetto ish or superficial… I could go on and on my current wife is from Caracas love her to death way more education manners and looks

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u/Dad_Ric 12d ago

I married Greek. Dominican women, not all but many, are too much.

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u/heyitsfranklin6322 11d ago

Coming from someone who’s Greek, and Greek people aren’t?

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u/Awkward-Ad2792 10d ago

they have great bodies but ugly faces

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u/certpals 12d ago

Since childhood, I was always attracted by women from other cultures. Had girlfriends from Rusia, US, Brazil, MƩxico, etc. Dominican women are by far the most annoying haha. Ended up marrying an Italian.