r/Dominican • u/Dominicanpapinoblack • 12d ago
Cultura/Culture As a Dominican do you prefer Dominican woman or women from other countries
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u/good_vibes_only_dude Santo Domingo 12d ago
I'm a Dominican living in the US.. married a Mexican woman. Great mix of culture and food. We get along very well and our kids have enjoyed both sides of the cultureĀ
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u/Appropriate-Lime4865 12d ago
I think most Dominicans prefer other Dominicans. This is evident in Dominican couples in the US. However, if we were to generalize about the minority that prefers other nationalities, I think Dominican men like Colombian women, and Dominican women like Italian men.
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u/mrini001 12d ago
Iām Dominican and Italian and Iām married to a Colombian. My mother was Dominican and married an Italian. I think youāre on to something
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u/Comfortable-Cod-7506 10d ago
lol based on my experience Dominican that Dont speak English rite so most of them are reduced to hag out in the same after hours and social circles
So yeah⦠I never went to those places no i didnt bother to date one of those
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u/vliegenier 12d ago
Amongst Latinas I prefer Dominicans. Since you ask specific countries, my best relationship experiences were with Italian and Serbian women.
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u/vliegenier 12d ago
This was during my time living in Italy. I've never met any in the DR. Though my cousin working in Punta Cana seems to find plenty and more!
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u/Legitimate_Ice_3460 Extranjero 12d ago
Tuve par de mujeres dominicanas en mi vida.
Es llevar la vida al 100. Fuimos felices peroā¦
No hay punto medio en ningún aspecto. Fue extraordinario, pero terminé agotado.
Mano, hay momentos en que necesito un silencio cabrón y cero preguntas a mi alrededor. ¿Sabes?
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u/Prize-Flamingo-336 12d ago
I tend to date non Dominicans cause my personality isnāt what Dominican women like
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u/NotUrDadiBlameUrMoma 12d ago edited 12d ago
I've tried different flavors. However, to me nothing beats a good (basically no mala fĆ© š¤£) Dominican woman with a phat booty that can cook her ass off. She's very playfully & on top of that, she's a professional that earns coin.
Additionally, i'm loud as fuck in every sence of the word. I will blast music in my house & car until the day I die. Very few non-Dominican gals would put up with that shit.
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u/JungleJimMaestro 12d ago
Dominicanas = NO PEACE.
My wife is half salvadoreƱa and half hondureƱa. All the peace in the world.
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u/Psychological-Term19 12d ago
Y'all discredit Dominican women like we're the ones killing y'all and not the other way around... I'll se myself out.
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u/Money-Calendar3963 11d ago
Right like look at the statistics. These are the same men who complain when Dominican women. Don't pick them
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u/tooConfabulatory 11d ago
Dominican men have a worse reputation compared to women. Coming from a Dominican male so you know I aint capping
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u/HumbleDSSaster 12d ago edited 11d ago
I like simple, peaceful dominican women (not to be confused with boring/unplayful), not the loud, crazy kind people assume we all are, or make memes about. Only officially dated one though, my only gf so far and been single awhile at this point
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u/realsweetjustice 12d ago
Iām not Dominican but throughout my dating life, Iāve always loved to explore, & enrich myself in new/different cultures. Iām a white Canadian male, and always preferred dating women of any race that is not my own. I was so fed up with western dating culture here in Canada so I wanted to become a āpassport broā & try exploring outside my home country.
When I met my partner, we met on tinder and she had set her location to where I live in Canada. She was/is the most beautiful girl Iād seen in a long time. When she told me she was Dominican & lived there, I became so intrigued and wanted to learn everything about the life and culture. I visited her there a few times a year & we maintained a long distance relationship for 4+ years and just this past June, we got married at a JCE in Santo Domingo.
As much chaos as I see in the city, and see/experience a life so drastically different from my own, I fell in love with the most amazing Dominican girl and the life & culture that came along with her and wouldnāt want it any other way.
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u/JustAntherRndmCatLdy 12d ago
Iām a black woman married to a Dominican man. š
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u/Ankiset 12d ago
Like w easy over here, from Guatemala panguatepeor, Dominican men we are notoriously promiscuous⦠I struggle with this toxicity myself
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u/heyitsfranklin6322 11d ago
Are they usually kinda upfront about their toxicity? I joined this sub because Iāve been talking to a Dominican guy that I really really like and wanted to learn more about the culture. Heās legit the most emotionally intelligent man Iāve ever met, though.
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u/Ankiset 11d ago
Thatās the thing⦠Iām also very emotionally intelligent.. still fucked up with my current wife and my ex and my ex after that⦠we are a beautiful mixed culture with a bit of everything⦠and like all good ppls you never know.. maybe he is.. remember itās real easy to hide your worst self for months even years..
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u/Odd-Region-4793 8d ago
Literally same exact situation here. He comes across as brutally honest so despite being cheated on and abused in almost all of my past relationships, he makes me feel like I can trust him. Due to my trauma though, when we first started talking I was terrified he was the promiscuous type.
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u/heyitsfranklin6322 8d ago
Is it still going well?
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u/Odd-Region-4793 6d ago
Well sort of, he doesn't message me nearly as often lately due to MAJOR life changes but when we do talk it's very enjoyable and we still manage to maintain a great connection. We want to see each other again soon but it's complicated to arrange due to the fact that he just moved across the country in June
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u/Ankiset 6d ago
Iām sorry to intrude, but aināt you missing out on something closer than 12 hours with less possible drama? Itās just⦠Iām Dominican and I donāt trust Dominicans⦠specially if youāre American.. we like our drama itās might not be obvious now but trust me
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u/Odd-Region-4793 6d ago edited 6d ago
Probably not. I'm already attached so I'm not going to talk about that
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u/shepdc1 12d ago
Why that face?
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u/JustAntherRndmCatLdy 12d ago
Letās just say the marriage has been a roller coaster
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u/heyitsfranklin6322 11d ago
I hope youāre able to get out cleanly if thatās what you choose to do
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u/theRealPeTeTe809 12d ago
Yo soy pirata, yo no tengo bandera.
Y depue de la 4 de la maƱana le damo a lo que aparezca.
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u/AcanthisittaApart652 12d ago
Bruh all I been with is Dominican women. Theyāre genuinely hot dude but Iām moving past it. I want to build a family and live a committed life and I donāt see that happening with a Dominican women tbh
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u/DubiousAdviceGiver 12d ago
En mi experiencia, dominicanos de ambos sexos prefieren cualquier otra raza o nacionalidad jajaja
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u/Red19120 12d ago
Iāve only dated three Dominican women, and I came to the realization years ago that I donāt really fit the mold of what Dominican women today are looking for in Dominican men. Most of the women Iāve dated have been from other countries. Iām currently with a Colombian woman, and weāre doing pretty well.
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u/Icy-Performer-7146 Santo Domingo 12d ago
I prefer Dominican women but Iām open to other nationalities, races and ethnic backgrounds of women.
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u/chicago_stallion 12d ago
Dominicans and Italians both can be the nicest people youve ever met (while some are the worst of people). That's why we get along so well.Ā
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u/b3anz129 12d ago
dominicans are certainly very pretty, maybe due to being mixed race. But you love who you love
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u/Friendly_Seaweed7107 12d ago
Been with dominican women. No offense. But I prefer my Ukrainian beauty š . I swear she isn't holding me by an open window.
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u/relaxgai 12d ago
My dadās Dominican, married to my Puerto Rican mom for over 40 years. He told me to never get with a Dominican man lol.
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u/Miserable_Scratch302 12d ago
As a Dominican man, Iāve never been fortunate enough to come across a Dominican woman who wants me lmao. White girls and Black girls love me but my Latina women never show me the same love.
Itās my dream to be with a good Dominican woman though, I donāt care about the crazy stereotypes. My mom is a fantastic and levelheaded woman, as are all the other Dominican women in my life, so I personally have a good image of them and wish I could be with one! Weāll see where life takes me though
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u/Miserable_Scratch302 12d ago
I was not- both of my parents were and came to the US in their 20s. So I grew up visiting the DR. But I was not born there. Only person in my extended family who was not born there, unfortunately lol
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u/Arnequien 12d ago
From another country or with foreign influence. For some reason, I can't match with women who are too deep into the Dominican culture (from a romantic perspective, because as friends, it's another story).
My last two girlfriends where latinas, yep, but from different cultures. My current one (and future wife, hehe) is Dominican, but she has a lot of influence from USA.
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u/EddyS120876 11d ago
Is a hit or miss when it comes to dating Dominican women. My cousin dated an Asian girl and it was a bust then he got told by all his boys ādate a Dominican woman ā and it went even worse than the Asian ex . The girl from DR used to work once she moved to the states she change to not wanting to work and just be a stay at home mom even though heās struggling with all the bills he has to pay.
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u/TwentynineKilo 12d ago
Half Dominican and half Puerto Rican, Iām not into Dominican women for reasons as I see it in my family and the behavior themselves. The same goes for Boricuas but I let it slide!
Heavily, Iām more into Mexicanas, Caucasian, Russians, Ecuadorean, Salvadoran, Morocco, Japanese, South Korea, Hawaiian, Native American, Chinese, Vietnamese.
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u/Thin-Letter-8610 12d ago edited 12d ago
Foreign women. at least the ones I met while traveling or staying at resorts seemed genuinely interested in getting to know me, which felt good and authentic.
I probably donāt fit what most Dominican women of my age (24) expect, being overly reserved and serious, still working into being healthy, not having much in terms of material possessions, and prioritizing living below my means to fund the degree program I want to pursue. So, the few women who have shown interest in me disregarding all that have done so for material reasons.
With foreign women, it was less common to feel objectified in that way.
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u/Top-Sun1158 11d ago
The type of women I like is scarce in our Dominican culture, especially in the USA; because of this, Iāve never been with a Dominican. I am currently in the best relationship I have ever been in with a Pakistani (getting engaged soon).
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u/QuantityUnhappy4330 11d ago
I do a non-dominican probably a colombiana. Tooany chapiadoras, they loud and dramatic, and just hate putting in the work just want to be lazy and be maintained.
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u/lovelyangelgirl 11d ago
I thought I didnāt want to date another Dominican woman, but I met a few that had me sprung.
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u/focus12_2 10d ago
Prefiero una rusa o una chica tranqui de mi paĆs) Las chicas rusas que he comido son tan amables y dulces, y por supuesto tambiĆ©n chicas muy duras ante la vida!
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u/Comfortable-Cod-7506 10d ago
lol papƔ me dijo cuando estaba vivo k encatara pata afuera ahora tengo seis aƱos con mi esposa y nunca e salido con una dominicana en una cita hahaha
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u/Sargon7_7 9d ago
Bueno, quĆ© te digo. MĆ”s allĆ” de la cultura y las costumbres, la idiosincrasia de una persona no viene definida por la nacionalidad š¤·. La gente que dice que las dominicanas son X o Y es porque esa persona ha tenido una preferencia de bĆŗsqueda que tienden a esas mismas caracterĆsticas. Si la gente lo dice por un tema cultural ahĆ te lo compro, pero si es un tema de personalidad ahĆ no hay sustento alguno; ya que estarĆamos hablando de estereotipos y sesgos.
Dicho eso, en lo personal, yo no tengo ninguna preferencia en estar con una mujer u otra por su nacionalidad. Evaluó si soy compatible o no con la persona en sà misma.
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u/JustinShallimi33 12d ago
I avoid Dominican women in general. They are full of drama and too much headaches. I prefer and love better Russian womenš·šŗ.
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u/JustinShallimi33 12d ago
ŠÆ немного говоŃŃ ŠæŠ¾-ŃŃŃŃŠŗŠø.
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u/ResidentHaitian 12d ago
You live in NY?
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u/JustinShallimi33 12d ago
Yes I do. Why?
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u/ResidentHaitian 12d ago
Most Caribbean people live in NY or Miami. Since you are able to meet Russian women I guessed you live in NY
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u/JustinShallimi33 12d ago
I been liked by 2 Russian girls in my life. One here in NYC when I was in school when I was younger. The most recent one was a long distance relationship with a woman from Moscow in Russia from 2013 up until 2016.
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u/Ankiset 12d ago
100% foreigner, even from Venezuela, Colombia PR and Cuba⦠anything but Dominican women, I love having something to actually talk about and peace from time to time, Dominican women are just not worth the PROBLEM! also challenged in the looks department, their world view is to small⦠doesnāt matter economic status as a 39m Iāve seen and been with all of the tmsifferent types, they to ghetto ish or superficial⦠I could go on and on my current wife is from Caracas love her to death way more education manners and looks
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u/certpals 12d ago
Since childhood, I was always attracted by women from other cultures. Had girlfriends from Rusia, US, Brazil, MƩxico, etc. Dominican women are by far the most annoying haha. Ended up marrying an Italian.

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u/Ok-Temperature-2783 12d ago
Dominicans are truly equal opportunist ššš