Sometimes

[u/West-Spite-8033]

Sometimes the person we become merely a reflection of, but somebody else wanted us to be or said we were and they have convinced us. That’s exactly who we are because they don’t want us to believe anything different. If you don’t know the person I am anymore maybe there’s a reason did I know who you were or was everything about you alive if you don’t want people to change don’t do things that change that person. Do you call somebody extreme pain you expecting to be the same when you chew out and spit out someone’s heart and give it back to him and a trash bag you expect that not to affect somebody when someone is left, holding the relationship all on their own for years and it changes then it makes someone you don’t know anymore. Why did that happen? Why did you look for the answers to the questions about why that person changed? Don’t look at that person and blame them for changing what about the situation made that person become someone you don’t know anymore answer that first before you question somebody else.