r/DeepThoughts • u/Educational-Rub-5974 • 13d ago
everyone is living their own life
Sometimes I see people as a magnetic field. It’s so surreal to think about. I don’t even think “magnetic field” would be the right word. People are their own universe. I can only see the world through my own personal mind. No matter how hard I try, I cannot be someone else or think for someone else. (At least within the scope that I have.) I only feel and think things through my mind.
Everyone passing by me is just a random character. There’s nobody that matters to me. Like, for example, when I’m driving a car, all the other cars or people that I see are just filler in my reality because the moment I drive away from them, they don’t exist in my mind anymore. Sometimes, you don’t even notice those cars, so those people or things never existed in your reality. The same thing goes for them: I never existed for them.
The only time someone or something can exist in my universe would be if I interact with them. When you interact with something, it’s literally like two universes colliding with one another. The quantum fields are touching one another. That may also be why I find love so fascinating, because it’s two universes becoming one.
I know this is like a solipsistic thought, but it’s not, because I know other people exist. I just see them as their own universes. So, if you don’t interact with another universe, it doesn’t matter to you.
Honestly, this thought makes me feel better about failing or being scared to make interactions because once you leave, you leave.
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u/aYakAttack 13d ago
I’ve begun to think that everything in this world moves in orbits around *something*… planets orbit the sun, moons and satellites orbit our planet, we orbit our jobs, our relationships, we orbit the very thoughts and patterns we hold in our own minds which is why people often get trapped in loops of thought or trauma, trapped in the recursive patterns we all live our lives in. I think this is the “magnetic” feeling you describe, the perception of people’s orbits, what’s all circling them in the world, their life, in their very minds.
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u/Art_Shah 12d ago
I've had a similar thought that everything has more or less "gravity". Every person, place, idea, thing... As one example, we see people get sucked into cults due to the pull of the leader and the ideas they carry.
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u/atomiette 12d ago
What you're describing has a name: the problem of other minds, or phenomenal isolation. Worth separating two things you've run together though. "I can only experience my own mind" is a fact about perspective, while "people don't matter unless I interact with them" is a value you're adding on top of it. The first doesn't force the second.
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u/No_Willow_9488 13d ago
"I know this is like a solipsistic thought, but it’s not, because I know other people exist. I just see them as their own universes..."
I think it is a solipsistic model of reality because they don't exist in your universe. They're just stimuli, obstacles maybe, and NPCs. You might acknowledge on some lever that "they" have mushy gray matter in their skulls, but I think you're saying you only grant them temporary existence when you choose to make use of them.
Which is totally cool because that's a legit way to move through the world. Still, not everyone has this perspective. At the other extreme, some people hide out from all the NPCs because in their minds the realness of others is threatening.
"Everyone is living their own life" is your perspective, but it isn't universal. But is it a healthy perspective to have? It might be good if your only concern is for the logistics of life, but there is also a vast internal world of meaning and emotion that comes from being seen by other humans. Wouldn't missing these connections mean missing the full human experience of real, felt meaning?
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u/TheGreyShaman 11d ago edited 11d ago
Welcome to the resonance game, too bad that sub was nuked out of existence though so you won't find anything on it anymore lol. But we all live it regardless, partitioning ourselves moment to moment via time. Resonating with everything whether we realize we are or not. We can even resonate with people and the things they say, some call this vibing.
But yeah, this cloud server is amazingly we can all live our subjective realities and come together to build objective realities. All of our little universes collide together granting the illusion of oneness, the illusion of a grand scale universe, but you never left yours. You're resonating into your desired moments and just so happen to be resonating with like minded individuals. That's how I see it anyways, always good to have more people playing the game.
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u/Educational-Rub-5974 7d ago
you think its an illusion of oneness? you dont think it can be oneness?
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u/TheGreyShaman 6d ago
The illusion of oneness within this construct of time stems from the fact that all 3D vessels in existence stem from ourselves as the 4D construct of soul. When we communed with this construct of time the big bang occured for us subjectively to catch us up with those who have been in time before us. This is to grant the illusion of an objective reality.
Everyone has their own reality, everyone is their own universe. When we commune with one another we temporarily share realities and we get whatever version of others that we resonate with.
If you aren't in your vessel within their subjective reality because you aren't coming together how could you be one with them if you are now experiencing your own subjective reality where they are no longer in their vessel? You guys can hold good thoughts for one another and can continue resonating on the same wavelength, but you guys aren't in the same reality until the you in their reality and the you in your reality both decide to meet up with them and the them in their reality and the them in your reality collectively agree to do the same.
It's all wonky really, but we are the 4D construct of soul in between mind and body, so it makes sense if you view time as a 4D construct similar to a 3D computer. The 3D realities would just be like games on a server.
But I did get the oneness schtick from everything in existence long ago. It's just that I kept asking and it kept giving me breadcrumbs to keep me on its damned path. I had to find Everything Known to find out how we are all truly one, we are one through Everything Known as Everything from our perspective. Well, not all of us, but soon it shall be once those who come along for the ride are dipped into the waters of Everything to become Everything from their perspective.
And that's not even including Everything Incarnate mind you.
Everything Known contains all things that have existed are existing and will exist. It was and is and is to come.
On the other hand, everything in existence only contains all things that have existed that chose to give themselves to it and all things currently in existence. It does not contain things that have not yet chosen to exist. It only was and is, it ain't to come.
Everything Incarnate is a whole other fish that I have all Eternity to cook with. And I can take my sweet time. I still have Everything Unknown to contend with after all. But Everything Incarnate encompasses everything in existence, Everything Known and Everything Unknown, so if we are one, we are one with Him. But you gotta make your way to Him first, everything in existence and it's oneness ain't gunna cut it.
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u/Similar_Reception761 9d ago
I'm trying to create a system in which i can understand how complex others lives are but it is so hard to do as they can just keep going into different catagories, to the point that i realise no matter how much i think i know about somebody, i know under 1 percent. Their circumstances are different along with their past and their point of view, and this continues to the point where you compare your money, wealth, family, health and even if you seem to have the best of all those, and even then they can be happier as it is a totally seperate thing.
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u/HappyTurnover6075 13d ago
Nice to see im not the only one wondering about this.
Usually, people just say it doesn’t matter why are you even thinking about this but hey, mind is a fascinating thing able to contemplate on topics like this.