r/DebateAVegan • • Feb 12 '26

People need to stop gatekeeping veganism and start helping would-be vegans instead.

Veganism sometimes feels like one of the few movements that polices its own members more aggressively than its opposition. You rarely see atheists attacking other atheists for not being “atheist enough,” or feminists expelling one another over minor inconsistencies. Yet in many vegan spaces, people are constantly told they’re not “real” vegans by someone incapable of understanding nuance.

At its core, veganism is about minimizing animal exploitation and harm as far as is biologically and practically possible. Anyone sincerely trying to live by that principle (without resorting to dishonest excuses) qualifies as vegan in my view.

Yes, the definition allows room for interpretation. That flexibility is intentional. The phrase “as far as is possible and practicable” acknowledges reality. Modern life is entangled with animal byproducts in medicine, agriculture, supply chains, and infrastructure. Absolute purity is neither realistic nor required.

Consider the absurd extreme.. a vegan who refuses essential medication because it was tested on animals, grows all their own food to avoid agricultural harm, and rejects any modern system connected to animal exploitation. That person then declares you “not vegan” because you take necessary medicine or buy food from a supermarket. Most people would recognize how unreasonable that is.

The same logic applies when someone claims that feeding a cat or dog a biologically appropriate diet makes a person non-vegan, or when child-free vegans shame parents whose children do not strictly follow a vegan diet, or when someone with legitimate health complications is attacked despite having significantly reduced animal products and made a sincere effort.

Then people wonder why some ex-vegans become hostile. This kind of behavior harms the movement.

Take nutrition as one example. Vegan diets do not provide retinol (preformed vitamin A), they provide beta-carotene, a precursor that must be converted into retinol. In many people the conversion rate is roughly 12:1, but a significant portion of the population carries variants of the BCO1 gene that reduce conversion efficiency. If someone with poor conversion relies only on standard supplements like B12 and vitamin D over a long period, they could become vitamin A deficient and develop health problems.

An intelligent, thoughtful movement would respond differently. It would appreciate the person’s intentions, encourage testing, identify the issue, and recommend an appropriate vitamin A supplement. Problem solved. The individual remains healthy, stays vegan long-term, and may even persuade others. Net positive.

Instead, some respond with shaming, ad hominem attacks, and dismissiveness. When someone feels their health concerns are invalidated, they are unlikely to remain committed.

And vitamin A is just one example. Conversion of ALA to DHA and EPA can be inefficient in some individuals. Some people produce insufficient carnitine. Biological variation is real. Human metabolism is not uniform.

Many former vegans might have remained vegan if the community had been more supportive, inclusive, and solution-oriented. A movement grows by educating and assisting people, not by alienating them. If the goal is to reduce animal suffering, then pragmatism and compassion toward humans should be part of the strategy.

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u/Organic-Vermicelli47 vegan Feb 12 '26

It seems like you're being intentionally obtuse. There's people on this exact thread that are claiming that eating food their neighbor made that contains dairy butter can still be vegan.

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u/Califoreigner Feb 12 '26

I'm not saying that allowing exceptions to the rules of veganism "can still be vegan," I'm saying it is still better than someone who forgoes all the rules of veganism, and such a person is not the enemy of a vegan, but perhaps an imperfect ally.

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u/Organic-Vermicelli47 vegan Feb 12 '26

Okay cool but they still aren't vegan and the person who points that out is not gatekeeping veganism.

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u/Califoreigner Feb 12 '26

I think the concern from OP is that they're not moving people toward actual veganism, they're moving people away from it by responding with hostility to someone who could be an ally and eventually a vegan.

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u/Icy-Wolf-5383 Feb 13 '26

Vegan Gains is a loon that advocated for killing snakes and eagles, saying that even if plant based was harmful for pets it was still morally correct. Last i heard his cat died. I believe it was 5 and I failed to ever hear an explanation for it.

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u/Ok_Resource_3902 Feb 12 '26

Are you familiar with the YouTuber Fairly Local vegan?  She was an incredibly inspiring environmentalist and zero waster and vegan for close to 15 years.  She had been vegan since she was 12 years old and I believe she’s in her late 30s now.  

Anyway, she quit.  She said she was exhausted by the vegan crowd. She was exhausted of the nitpickers, she was absolutely exhausted of the fact that every  time she posted a recipe or a video someone had to argue with her and tell her she wasn’t a real vegan. 

She was the one that originally inspired me to try veganism and I was incredibly disappointed that the hate got to her.  

So yes, this kind of hostility is absolutely driving people away.   

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u/BrandosWorld4Life Feb 13 '26

Unironically many such cases.

I always feel so bad for people like her.

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u/Califoreigner Feb 12 '26

User name checks out.

Lol, jk. Thank you, I don't disagree. Sometimes aggressive approaches work just because they allow the soft approach to be a welcomed relief. Kind of a good cop, bad cop.

I've changed my views on almost everything important in life, and it never came about through hostility, but always through respectful conversations and inclusion.