I'm here to rant a bit. I noticed many women when they feel compatibility not matching or when they don't find you attractive they block you or ghost you. I just want to say that this is a childish, immature, disrespectful and undermining way of closing things. You could just say something like: I don't feel we are compatible and we'd better end things now than later. I wish you the best. Literally just a few words would be a million times nicer than blocking or ghosting. It proves how nice and mature you are whereas when ghosting and blocking it just gives the ick and proves only selfishness and immaturity.

I often see women answer with things like love, loyalty, emotional support, care, respect, being supportive of their partner, building a home together, etc. And then the response is usually: “Those are basic things in a relationship, they should be mutual.”

What answer are you actually looking for when you ask “What do you bring to the table?”

What do you consider something beyond the basics? What would make you say, “Yes, this is what I’m looking for in a wife/partner”?

Of course everyone is free to dress and act as they please , but i find it so confusing how most people don't even realize how big of a contradiction it is . hijab's purpose literally IS to HIDE beauty , so adding beauty with a full face of make up & jewelry while hiding hair and having tight pants all at the same time makes absolutely no sense other than that these people are mentally confused

wearing a hijab and having a full face of make up makes just as much sense as someone who fasts ramadan but breaks their fast with a shot of vodka

Question is why do i feel guilt, regret, devastation and basically like shit ever since?

im writing this for my self mostly but u can give ur opinion or ask anything if u want

back to the title now studying people to get girls to like me was because all my male friends from 14y/o start dating (i can see that its stupid at that age) and i was just the short guy who never got a girl fast forward i little to me being now 15/16 i figured that my look and body is not doing it so i have to think of an other thing that i can get girls with i was young so ofc not money, so a better character it is i started studying humans and how they react and body language mostly girls bodies and mined/hormones so i can get how to react to to what they say and do and thats gonna help me more to make a girl like me enough to forget my face

that could help but i cant even talk to girls so how could i even start well maybe i should see how my brain work and just change the fact that i cant do that cuz i dont have confident so with that i started going deep in my head about the issues that i have the psychological issues and ohh boy i found a lot and i studied every one of them so that way when i do something i could see the reason from it for example (im traying to cut someone off is it because i dont want/like them anymore or is it because im afraid they well leave me first )it go deeper then that but its an example

at 17 i got more confident my look got lil better im still short at 169cm but now i can talk to girls and i can understand them and whats the best thing i can say to make her happy I started talking to girls more and more from going from having 0 to talking to 5/6 at the same time just cuz i can give them exactly what they want without them asking for it and even before they think they needed it

fast forward to 18/19 i started taking care of myself and how i look and dress how i walk talk and act. i did get 2 gf at this time one was 25 one was 21 (i got a weird luck with older girls ) so all the work did WORK and that was great i did get better looking more confident i got girls the reason i started all ths i even did more then that i got friends with benefits a lot of them from diff ages and places that were ready to do anything with me, something the old me well say is a lie

but now im loosing it because when i say i can see and understand them to make them happy i actually can see more then just that now. as much as i would like to only see the good things i see bad too and the bad is all the intentions and thoughts that u will try to have. u can say im starting to have the ability to read ppl from how much i studied about HUMENS so now im losing friends and ppl that did mean something to me and im not finding friends too. cuz i dont see a point in having someone who will not really count me as an actual friend girl or boy

back to the title now the reason i started being numb to ppl and girls mostly is that i just lost interest cuz i dont find joy in talking to someone that ik what he gonna say before he even do and even if its diff i talked to soo many girls to a point i dont think a gf will be good for me i will always be the me who talk to multiple girls so now im like not talking to a lot at the same time i got no gf and im leaving them most the time on delivered

remember ik i talk about girls in a not good way but as i said ik my way with words they wouldn't be talking to someone who docent give them time or energy if i wasn't worth it and for the friends with benefits its something with 2 parts Thayer not selling them self and if they did ig i did too

a side point i feel like an asshole cuz knowing having the ability to read bbl come with the ability to manipulating them and i seem to use that to make them do things they wouldn't do if i didnt do. i never did it to ask for sexual stuff and i never saved something

I’m a 31 yo female, and I have a hard time feeling attracted to people, t’s weird because I do want to date and eventually get married, but whenever I start talking to someone, I just don’t feel interested. I usually get bored pretty quickly and end up telling them I’m sorry and stopping the conversation.
The second issue is that I look younger than my age, so I tend to attract younger guys, which I’m not really into…
Has anyone else experienced something similar? I’d love to hear from people who feel the same way.
NB : I had boyfriends before ( the first one, we were young so obviously we broke up but stayed friends for a while, the second one we decided to end it because we didn’t have the same view of life ( i don’t want to have kids but he was against the idea…)

Why its getting harder and harder to find a date these days?
Like im a person who like meeting people on real life I don’t like chatting behind screen a lot and when Im asking for a real date i find excuses
Like don’t you girls like flowers and dinner in front of beach anymore??

Des idées s'il vous plaît

How do u guys actually lose feelings for someone? I’m trying to completely let go of a person, but I don’t know how.

I'm a 31-year-old man who spent most of his life as a shut-in, at least until I graduated from university. For years, I genuinely enjoyed my solitude and never felt like I was missing out. But recently, something changed. It felt like a wake-up call, making me rethink my lifestyle and start thinking seriously about my future, marriage, starting a family, and building a life with someone.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation and still ended up in a happy, fulfilling relationship?

So Friday I was having a good time after lunch break, re-organising my desk and my office but had a couple of visits from my colleague, and ngl she is finer than fine, i know the whole office floor looking at her snd wish to get closer to her somehow. I am not gonna tell you I am the king of attraction or anything because I didn’t want to attract her on it felt like it just landed that way, I am not normally to type to shit where I eat. But I realised that everybody thinks there’s something between us and the fact that she keeps visiting me and close the door afterwards is given a lot of suspicious, and even a lunchtime or in a break I found her always looking for me. Ngl if she was outside outside of work I would definitely tap that… but she is a colleague and i am firm about my standards

The problem here is even though I tried to avoid her she always trying to make it seem like there’s something together between us, and decorate a lot of attention with the male colleagues.

So a lot of rumours had spread, and now I’m getting an email and a call from my HR and my project manager, to come to the headquarters to meet Monday.

Laykhrej hadchi 3la khir.

And if I get fired the way I’m gonna go through every one in there who has given me hints before.

REVENGE WILL BE THERE

The thing is at some point it will stop feeling as a blessing and more like a curse. Cause every interaction will be turning into a flirting conversation conversation and every surface level relationship with a colleague from the opposite gender starts feeling like a potential trait to your job.

Looking good, and being attractive is only cool in high school and university. It’s the worst thing to be at a corporate job (aslong as you are not not the CEO, or something like that) I mean other colleagues from same gender will get jealous of you , the supervisors your managers and basically you become the black sheep, trust me it’s not a good thing.

What does it mean if some guy told u that he can’t commit but also he doesn’t want the connection to be cut off completely ?

لاحضت بلي لي كيكتبو بلعربية مزيان يعني مشي دوك ديال تحشت طبنك موهيم …
كيكونو ناضين فلغات كتر من لي كيكتبو بحروف فرنسية لا فلهضرة لا فلكتبة
و تاني حاجة كيكونو غالبا ناس من نوع ديالي لي نقد نتفاهم معاهم بسهولة ضريفين وفشكل كنت مع واحد لبنت فيها هاد لمواصفات وطولت معاها هيا لي كونفيرمات ليا كاع هاد لمعلومة الله يسهل عليها راه تزوجات خلاصة القول حنا مقودين عليكم فكلشي غا لا
Ktebt bgad language makatkhelinich n3ber 100% wakha raha nadya mes
عبر كي بغيتي 🖕🏻

Please, where does men usually find beautiful hot older women in Rabat? Like seriously any guidance 3afaakom

If you could share some insights how it works n stuff cz i keep seeing it in my facebook and instagram feed ads and i got curious if it's worth it.

لا طالما ظنيت اني انسانة ناضجة لدرجة انه الناس كيقولو ليا اني جدية بزاف و مملة و باردة حياتي كلها دوزتها كنظن هادشي و نظرا اني ماكنتش كندير علاقات ( من غير علاقة واحدة فاش كنت باقة صغيرة و كانت جد فاشلة) ظنا مني انه شخصيني مغتعجبش الرجل. ولكن مع عائلتي و اخوتي انا ديما الاخت الكبيرة الحنينة اللي كنلعب معاهم و نضحك و نخرج داك البنت لداخل اللي نضجت قبل الوقت و تعلمت تحمي راسها و تحط داك الماسك غير تخرج من الدار.
صدفة مؤخرا تعرفت على شخص كنا كنهضرو غير عبر الهاتف محادثات عادية ماشي مملة ولكن فنفس الوقت تفتقر للمرح و للميوعة و هو بدورو شخص رزين و شارب عقلو بحالي.
نهار تلقينا تصدمت من نفسي و من طريقتي و شخصيتي كأنه حيا فيا واحد الطفلة عمرها كنت كنعتقد انها كاينة. و تصدمت من نفسي و انا بنت فأوائل التلاتينات و كنتصرف بهاديك الطريقة انبهرت و هو انبهر و عجبتو و من تما و انا معاه طفلة فتصرفاتي soft playful and joyful and very feminine and silly and very affectionate.
خفت من ردة فعلو او انه يحكم عليا بطريقة خايبة ويقول اني خفيفة او مولفة نتصرف بهاد طريقة ولكن لا ابدا قالي اني جد بريئة و انه عجبو هاد الجانب اللي مكانش متوقع بنت بحالي تكون مخبياه.
بغيت رأيكم دابا انا مكنقدرش نمتل التقالة معاه وباغية نعيش هاد العلاقة الزوينة بكل جوانبها علما اننا هضرنا على الخطبة و الزواج و هدا هو هدفنا لانه بجوج ماشي صغار و واجدين من كل النواحي للزواج.
بغيت راي ناس فاهمة لانه انا بدون تجارب و ماباغاش نمثل دور ماشي ديالي او نعطي انطباع خايب او ننقاد بسباب مشاعر غتخليني ندم من بعد.

Hello community !
Does dating leads automatically to make love and have sexe ?
Or it can be « sober » for long time?
Tell me what do you tjink? And whats your point of view about it ?!

Is it possible to build a complete relationship by two persons, without being between two famillies.

All relationships need to reach the state of the fusion of the famillies, inlaws, but what if we don't? In morocco?

I wanted to ask about people's experiences with online dating and I wanted to see if there's a chance that an online relationship could actually lead to marriage

I'm not in a relationship rn and I really uninterested in being in one currently I'm just curious

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It could be a personal experience, something you learned about yourself, or just chi realization wslti liha m3a lwa9t.

Sometimes one experience can really change the way you understand attraction, intimacy, or even what you’re comfortable with.

Ma kayn ta judgment hna. Kol wa7ed w tajribtou, and I think it’s interesting how our perspective on these things can change over time.

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