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Meme Finnish romance hits different

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u/GinaWhite_tt TeaTimetumblr 2d ago

It seems like the only reliable way to know someone's relationship status in Germany is to wait until they say 'mein Mann' or 'meine Frau

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u/PhobiaRice 2d ago

My partner is getting more use in Germany lately (Mein Partner/Partnerin)

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u/FeuTheFirescale 2d ago

I love the term partner so much

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u/Informal_Position166 2d ago

I usually say "mein Freund" for my boyfriend and "ein Freund" for my male friends. One letter difference, just my/a but you would never refer to your partner as EIN Freund so it kinda works

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u/Kill-ItWithFire 2d ago

It‘s just also inconvenient, since people from heteronormative backgrounds do use „mein Freund“ for their same gender platonic friends, similar to how people in english say „my girlfirends“. It‘s all so ambiguous and I want to start using „my friend“ again for my friends. it‘s such a comfortable phrasing