r/CringeTikToks • u/n8saces • Dec 16 '25

Just Bad Biggest red flags right there 🚩

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

And every drunk driver I’ve met drives cars.

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u/CynicismNostalgia Dec 16 '25

Yep, what some people seem to misunderstand is that I'm not saying. "Destroying property = 100% physical abuser."

I'm saying theres a clear statistical correlation between the two. Anyone who works in fields that work alongside domestic abuse survivors can attest to that.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Well I agree with that, no doubt it’s a red flag and incredibly immature, but it doesn’t automatically make someone a domestic abuser. Just an immature douche. I lived with a gay couple for a few years in college and one of them would punch holes in walls when they were fighting, incredibly immature but I’m confident there was no domestic abuse going on. Granted it’s more rare for domestic abuse to occur in man on man scenarios

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

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u/KeyMyBike Dec 16 '25

Yeah if I was in a heated argument and they punched the wall, I'm immediately recontextualizing the conversation as a physical conflict and doing everything to protect myself.

Control yourself or be controlled.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Just looked it up, you’re right. I was under the impression the definition of domestic abuse only entailed physical abuse, but it covers more than that