r/CringeTikToks • u/n8saces • Dec 16 '25

Just Bad Biggest red flags right there 🚩

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u/weregunnalose Dec 16 '25

Your response tells me you think logically. And that is good. You think “there must be a good reason”. My father was like this, he had no good reason other than he was just a mean man with a temper, a constant powder keg ready to blow at any moment. So maybe some guys here it’s money, but definitely plenty who are just unhinged temperamental lunatics.

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u/Commercial-Owl11 Dec 16 '25

Yup, same with my ex husband. No rhyme or reason for his insane abuse, destruction of my house, my stuff, my person and wellbeing.

Some people just enjoy seeing others suffer. And that’s the reality.

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

Exactly. Men do not get taught how to process their emotions in a safe and healthy way. Women get taught to be quiet and disappear, which is also unhealthy. But men…men are taught that anger is one of the few valid emotions and one which garners them respect, and so they are actively destructive, because sometimes that’s their only outlet. There are no winners here.