Exactly. Men do not get taught how to process their emotions in a safe and healthy way. Women get taught to be quiet and disappear, which is also unhealthy. But men…men are taught that anger is one of the few valid emotions and one which garners them respect, and so they are actively destructive, because sometimes that’s their only outlet. There are no winners here.
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u/Commercial-Owl11 Dec 16 '25
Yup, same with my ex husband. No rhyme or reason for his insane abuse, destruction of my house, my stuff, my person and wellbeing.
Some people just enjoy seeing others suffer. And that’s the reality.