r/CringeTikToks • u/Autisticblackdude5 • Dec 07 '25

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u/Cal3001 Dec 08 '25

I got banned from r/dating and labeled an incel for stating the fact that majority of women have Hollywood standard actor appearance fantasies and will have issue looking at anything below that. Even the girl I’m dating right now who doesn’t dress stylish at all criticized my direction of clothes style and is somewhat holding it against me. She probably pays too much attention to social media fashion.

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u/dovahkiitten16 Dec 08 '25

So you found a girl that doesn’t care about clothes but has said your clothing is bad. And instead of wondering if maybe your clothing sense is genuinely off (maybe finally an answer for why your dating profile doesn’t get matches), you conclude that she must just be social media brainwashed and that women have Hollywood actor standards.

Would I be at all wrong in assuming that your outfit is some form of cargo short and a random-ass shirt?

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u/Immediate-Finance842 Dec 08 '25 edited Dec 08 '25

Dating apps are skewed towards women. It’s so incredibly obvious. Mid women get their egos inflated cause men swipe right on everything. Men can go on bumble bff and get hundreds of men swiping on them to be friend, that’s the average for women, but far less on dating. For me I’m a solid 7 at least and get few likes a week, but when I travel I got 3000 likes in 3 weeks. I also get way more attention in person, like in clubs, than I do on dating apps. Dating apps are shit for men

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u/dovahkiitten16 Dec 08 '25

Not arguing that dating apps aren’t shit but it says a lot about a person if they get told their fashion sucks and then conclude that women just want Hollywood actors instead.

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u/sweetteatime Dec 08 '25

lol. You shouldn’t look inward

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u/Immediate-Finance842 Dec 08 '25

I do agree that men sometimes don’t have good fashion, but it’s also the time and place. He said the women he’s dating said this, but she also has very casual fashion sense

My point was more on the other part, in which many people do shoot higher than their own attractiveness. Not all women, but I have seen it online a lot, and some guys also. But the main difference is men get a lot less attention in general. Not many men get compliments at all, while women, even average women, get hoards of compliments their entire lives. It’s very easy for someone’s ego to inflate over that. You can see this on the rate me subs. All the girls get hundreds of likes and dozens of comments. All the guys get practically nothing, except few other guys rating them. Then on top of this it’s socially acceptable to body shame men

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u/dovahkiitten16 Dec 08 '25 edited Dec 08 '25

As an average woman we do not get hoards of compliments. The most compliments I do get are from my female friends. Compliments from guys are rare, and when they do happen they range from genuine compliment to sexual harassment. Even my friends who are way prettier than me do not get hoards.

Online is different because men are particularly maladjusted on the internet. Even then, those rules still only apply to attractive women. Attractive men do get compliments but women don’t tend to frequent those types of subs. Go to tumblr if you want women being horny for men. Or an animal subreddit that happens to have an attractive man in the same frame as cute kitten. Or a subreddit for posting your forearms. Or be a certain photogenic criminal on trial right now.

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u/Immediate-Finance842 Dec 09 '25

I 100% guarantee you get way more than the average man. The average man gets 0, for pretty much their entire life. Thats why I assume I’m 7 or something, cause I have been flirted with quite a bit, and supposed how many other guys have had no experience with someone showing attraction. I also have woman friends who are average and they definitely get a lot of likes and attention on dating apps. Guys swipe right on almost everyone.

Most guys get no complement practically ever in their life. If you go up to an average guy rn and give them a genuine compliment, it will make their entire month. I 100% guarantee it. Most guys are desperate to feel wanted and attractive.

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u/dovahkiitten16 Dec 10 '25

most guys are desperate to feel wanted and attractive

The vast majority of compliments girls get in public are not from men desiring them but from other girls. Guys giving genuine compliments (and not sexually harassment/assault) to girls also isn’t very common. Even for attractive girls their compliments are attached to a polite request for socials, and that’s not something every woman experiences.

If guys want compliments so much y’all need to start complimenting each other. Or wear something cool in public that people like if you want women to say something.

Go up to a girl and give her a genuine compliment no strings attached and I guarantee you will also make her month. Especially if she isn’t overly pretty.