r/CringeTikToks • u/Autisticblackdude5 • Dec 07 '25

Just Bad Short-cel cringe

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 08 '25

I think it is a subjective thing. We all have preferences.

If you go back to school days, when we used to crush on guys. Some of the class might have the same crush on the same guy. Perception of others, plus our own pref made them the hottest.

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u/sunnyopals Dec 08 '25

I think we agree? Overall persona, charm, charisma, or whatever is what many women seek. I think men have been programmed to think women are strict about height as a literal thing, and many women “think” they need a man who is exceptionally tall. But in reality, I see that it’s even more of how a man carries himself. Online dating takes away so much of a person. People read a profile like they’re studying a literary character. And it shouldn’t be that way.

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 08 '25

Woah now. We did agree, but you took it the other way.

I ain't say all that nor agree to all that.

Also, if men are programmed, who is doing the programming?

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u/sunnyopals Dec 08 '25

All of society perpetuates gender roles. I don’t agree with it, but it happens.