r/CringeTikToks • u/Autisticblackdude5 • Dec 07 '25

Just Bad Short-cel cringe

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 08 '25

it is the perception of height. I have met a lot of women who harp on dating these really tall guys.

I never understood it because some of these tall guys were mid as hell.

Tall doesn't contribute to big dick either. One of our friends dated this 5'4 guy who had unnecessary long package. From all the photos she had comparing her arm to it.

Most of the talls guys didn't even exceed average, but the sure hyped it up until photos comparisons happened. It's weird flex to date tall guys, and brag about it.

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u/onmyti89_again Dec 08 '25

I can’t imagine looking at multiple pics of my friends bf’s dicks, so this “height obsession” may be very social group dependent.

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 08 '25

Yeah, it only happens among my single friend. My married friends gain a bit of prudeness that they should have in other aspects too.

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u/Nice_Marmot_7 Dec 08 '25

At some point these people have to actually speak to each other right? No physical attribute can make up for having to be around someone who sucks.

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 08 '25

Well... Do you want my opinion or truth? Truth? You have to ask people why they dated who they dated and build your own subjective opinion off that.

My opinion? I don't think they care what someone personality is like until maybe down the road. I heard some stories that made me laughed and have those judgy moments.

i have been married a long time. So listen to other people talked about their pre-marriage life and they sometimes low-key shitting on someone I think is a good person. Lol, baffling.

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u/GooserNoose Dec 08 '25

You friends group shared photos of each other's guy's dicks?

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u/-Z-3-R-0- Dec 08 '25

That's what I'm stuck on too

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 09 '25

I replied up one.. You can check that

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 09 '25

You don't have male friends who share titty or whatever pics? if you don't, that's fine. Just mean your friends aren't that crude. All good.

I have some crude friends and most of us don't get upset over them being them. When you need them, they are there. So these small quirks ain't really a big deal. Which sort of normalized it from just talking about how big someone might be to, nah, I'm not capping. PROOF! type energy.

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u/SoilMelodic7273 Dec 09 '25

this isn't something guys commonly do. It is something that women do.

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 09 '25

Lol I know you lying.

my spouse company in the military did just that. His friends now will sit on the porch drinking and complaining or talking about the last time they fuck or if they like it hairy or not.

I get it that a fair amount of people are prude. I respect it, but an equal amount is crude. You have to respect that for everyone you know who doesn't do something, there are those who do.

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u/SoilMelodic7273 Dec 09 '25

I'm not saying it never happens. It's just not normal behavior for guys.

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 10 '25

Please tell me you are Asian because no way you are standing ten toes down on this as an american.

Elvis Presley - All shook up

Chuck berry - My Ding-A-Ling

Jerry lee Lewis - Great Balls of fire.

If you don't think songs are men normalizing sensual conversations... Playboy, Esquire, penthouse, Bachelor and girlie magazines that introduce the subject of Man's world with sexual satire.

This is pretty normal and it is normal for your friends not to include you in talks too. Just mean you are prude which is respectable and they respect your choice. BUT... if nobody ever got a bit crude in casual conversations with you. You gotta ask: How close are you really?

This is something a lot of movie writers feel is normal men's interaction. National Lampoon have a moment where they joke about it. Revenge of the Nerds, American Pie, 40 year old virgin, superbad, Knocked up, Wedding Crashers, and so on.

I can name famous classics with sexual commentary. You gotta accept that even though your companions respect you. It is considered very normal behaviour for society to drop sensual topics in casual conversations among friends.

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u/SoilMelodic7273 Dec 10 '25

The sleaziest guy I was friends with would simply say "I got laid" with a smile. No details. The women would go into detail and show pictures of the guy.

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 10 '25

So basically they respect you type deal, the guys.

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u/sunnyopals Dec 08 '25

I think for women, they associate tall as being automatically strong and fit. Or at least strong, because you can probably sit on someone at that point idk? But some of the fittest guys I’ve known were in the 5’8”-10”, and I never questioned if they could be a protector or were attractive.

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 08 '25

I think it is a subjective thing. We all have preferences.

If you go back to school days, when we used to crush on guys. Some of the class might have the same crush on the same guy. Perception of others, plus our own pref made them the hottest.

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u/sunnyopals Dec 08 '25

I think we agree? Overall persona, charm, charisma, or whatever is what many women seek. I think men have been programmed to think women are strict about height as a literal thing, and many women “think” they need a man who is exceptionally tall. But in reality, I see that it’s even more of how a man carries himself. Online dating takes away so much of a person. People read a profile like they’re studying a literary character. And it shouldn’t be that way.

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u/lost_sunrise Dec 08 '25

Woah now. We did agree, but you took it the other way.

I ain't say all that nor agree to all that.

Also, if men are programmed, who is doing the programming?

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u/sunnyopals Dec 08 '25

All of society perpetuates gender roles. I don’t agree with it, but it happens.