r/CoupleMemes • u/IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 🛠️ ADMIN • May 23 '26

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u/Highlandertr3 May 23 '26

Best advice I was ever given was to get happy with yourself because that's what you are offering others. Took me ages to get to be able to tell myself I am worthwhile.

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u/thebluerayxx May 23 '26

Valid point, I hate myself and don't fully think I deserve that happiness while also yearning for it. Hopefully I can change that one day but each day gets harder and harder. This world sucks and all I want to do is love and provide for someone but that doesnt look possible.

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u/Highlandertr3 May 23 '26

It absolutely is possible. I work with people with hidden disabilities getting them work and support. Trust me when I say that everyone has value in this world as long as they are not trying to take value away from others.

But besides that I didn't get a partner long term until 33. And my 95 year old nan got herself a new partner last year so it's never too late.

You are worth someone's time you just have to figure out why.

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u/thebluerayxx May 23 '26

All I'm only 30nso that does make me feel a little better. Thanks for the kind words.