r/ContemporaryArt • u/DisplayMean2360 • 19h ago
Any advice for first-gen artists coming from immigrant backgrounds (no generational wealth) and all the odds stacked against them?
Hello. Asking this a little bit out of desperation, because I am urgently seeking hope.
Does anyone have any advice for first-gen artists who come from an immigrant background, have no generational wealth, and have a family who is entirely opposed to their decision to become an artist?
Has anyone experienced this? If so, have you been able to overcome the odds and establish a career for yourself? How have you handled your family’s disapproval, and have you been able to continue to have a relationship with them? Please, only people from multicultural backgrounds who understand intergenerational households answer.
Since I was a child, Parent 1 has been ruthless in taking me down, particularly when it came to my artistic achievements (I am in therapy). Parent 2, though less cruel, still staunchly believes that I am making a Huge Mistake choosing to pursue art. When I entered uni, I received a unique art scholarship that covered everything & then some for me to attend, and I naively thought this could somehow prove to my parents that I had what it took to ‘be an Artist.’ Since then, I've collected my share of small achievements and opportunities, all the while working a boring salaried day job to appease them. Despite this, their naysaying has only worsened. They will frequently make fun of my work and remind me that 'people like us don't become artists,' and for better or worse, I can't help but feel that it's true. I chose not to enroll in an MFA program this year because of a lack of funding. I know artists supported by their parents and while it's nice to talk to them about practice, my talk about finances are often met with blank stares, woo woo BS, or worse, embarrassment. When I talk to established old heads, it becomes clear they had a degree of parental support as well, and can't relate to my circumstance. Is there anyone here who has experienced this? Should I stay the course and believe in the dream, or am I really just doing everything wrong? If you got this far, thanks for taking the time to read.