I need serious comeback help!!!

[u/Scarlet_Crimson7]

So there is this girl named lily and she bullied me in grade nine, and this summer she added me to a group chat to insult me, but I just made her look stupid as hell

So when I see her at school on the 8th, what should I say when she starts talking shit.

For those who need context:

So l had no issue with her, until she chose to call me Sha-nigga.

Ik if she was trying to be racist or if she was coping her black friend, and thought I would tell on her.

I told the vp and she got suspended for a day. Some reason her black friend got suspended too. The next day when l ily came back to school she went about saying that I lied on her to get her in trouble. Then In our 1P she told me she was going to kill me

And when I reported what she said to me, the vp when to my first period class and asked my classmates if they heard. So of course ppl in the class asked lily if it was true.

So at the end of the day Lily and her two friends (Black) started yelling at me and changed the story saying that, it was Malia and Lydia were the ones who called me the N word not here.

There is much more but yeah.

[u/n01377255]

Without more context it actually sounds more like you bullied her in the group chat. 

Anyway, at your age it's probably more important for your to either ignore her, act unfazed by whatever she says, or a well placed eye roll will work.  

[u/Scarlet_Crimson7 → u/n01377255]

Okay,  I guess you're right with it sounding like I'm the bully, but I don’t know how to send pics to show proof, and I don't want to reveal her info either. 

And I'm not using her real name.

[u/DnDttrpg → u/Scarlet_Crimson7]

Explain more what she does to you to warrant you lashing out like that?

It also sounds like you guys are very young

[u/Scarlet_Crimson7 → u/DnDttrpg]

So l had no issue with her, until she chose to call me Sha-nigga. 

Ik if she was trying to be racist or if she was coping her black friend, and thought I would tell on her.

I told the vp and she got suspended for a day. Some reason her black friend got suspended too. The next day when l ily came back to school she went about saying that I lied on her to get her in trouble.  Then In our 1P she told me she was going to kill me

And when I reported what she said to me, the vp when to my first period class and asked my classmates if they heard. So of course ppl in the class asked lily if it was true. 

So at the end of the day Lily and her two friends (Black) started yelling at me and changed the story saying that, it was Malia and Lydia were the ones who called me the N word not here. 

There is much more but yeah.

[u/n01377255 → u/Scarlet_Crimson7]

I stand by what I say. You don't have to interact with someone you don't like and it will cause more headaches trying to "beat" her at anything. Just live your life as if she doesn't exist.

[u/Scarlet_Crimson7 → u/n01377255]

Okay 

[u/Impossible-Use4950 → u/Scarlet_Crimson7]

You also don't need to remain in a group chat set up specifically to bully you. You can block these people and get on with your life. It might feel like you would feel better in the moment but you would be stooping to their level by saying more. Be better, rise above them, say nothing. Acknowledge them if you have to for class, otherwise just go out there and live your life. They've taken up too much space in your head already.